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Archived questions from: 22 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I think my in laws are stalking me online

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I think my inlaws are stalking me online. A few years ago I posted a story about how awful a certain in-law had behaved towards me and how upset I was and asked what I could do about it got a few replies but the in-law it was regarding found out and ...

What if I never meet anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

22 January 2011 (?) - heyy well my other problem is i know im only young but im scared of never meeting someone as there are no bisexuals or lesbians in my year and im scared that the next 4 years or whatever of my life im gunna be alone and not be able to experiment and ...

He is my best friend and my worst nightmare!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Ive been dating a guy for almost three years and I still feel hot for him one week and cold for him the next. He makes me feel loved and needed and we can be the best of friends like it comes naturally. Then he will show his irritated and angry ...

I don't know what to do and I feel helpless.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - Ok where do I start. Well first off me and my girlfriend have been together for five years. We loved each other very much and helped each other get through very tough times in our life. She has always dealt with bouts depression and I have helped ...

My husband refuses to meet our daughter's ex crim boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5057 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - My daughter is 18 and a senior in high school. Last year she met a man 5 years older than her and now they are dating. He is also an ex-con (time for drugs)and a tatoo artist. I found out last year that she was writing to him in jail. He is now out ...

I'm nervous and don't know what move to make next!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Ok so i recently met this guy at a bar. He immediately came up to me and asked me if i would like a drink. So we ended up chatting for the rest of the night, and he walked me home. We then spent the rest of the night talking. Finally, I started ...

What did I do? Why is he treating me this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5057 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Sorry it so long. but i had to explain the details I am a 27 year old lady. I am having an ongoing situation. One of my friend, a married guy (about 43 years of age), and his wife who was good friends with me for few years. Thought of them a...

I might be being taken for a ride ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - I was broken up with!!! The girl I was involved with is 25 and is trying to finish her degree. She called me almost a month after we broke up and started to tell me of her financial problems; and was thinking of working at a strip club to pay for ...

Everytime we make plans to hang out something comes up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5058 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - She says that she wants to go out with me and that she likes me, and i like here back, but every time we try to go out something always happens and we never do go out...this is like the 4th time its happened...what should i do...i already talked to ...

I am pregnant, we broke up, now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i broke up like 3 days ago. and i was panning to move on so i asked him if that was okay since i am having his kid. he said that he didnt wont me to move on because i have his kid. he said he didnt wont me to give his kid a ste...

I don't understand why guys are so confusing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - The other day i was walking in the hall and my crush was there and i think he touched my waist but im not sure if it was an accident or not. He was walking the other way and i think he saw me but he kept walking toward me and his friend was kinda ...

My boyfriend doesn't treat me the same anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5058 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't treat me the same anymore. What can I do? he used to text me all the time, but I'm lucky if i get one without asking a question what I need the answer to.. and most of the time one worded. He never makes the effort to come s...

I feel stuck and unsure what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I was wondering if anyone one has gone through a similar situation and how you dealt with it. (And thanks for reading this) My boyfriend and I have been together a little over 3years, me 22 and him 24. We have been in a long distance relatio...

I'm pregnant, his ex just had his baby and I don't want him going back and forth between us!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - im in love with this guy i been with for about a year, a few months into our relationship, i found out his ex was pregnant from by him.He didnt bothered to tell me he said he was scared he lose me. once the ex call me and told me , i was very upset ...

My boyfriend is in a band that has two attractive girls. How can I stop feeling insecure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I have a boyfriend of 4 months. I am 15 going on 16. I absolutely love him to bits, he is everything to me and I never, ever, ever want to lose him! Everything has been going perfectly, he treats me like his only girl and we spend as much time as ...

What else can I do to gain her forgiveness?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - I recently upset a girl really badly, so I wrote her a letter of apology. She has been ignoring me for the past few days and never replied to me. I seriously do not want her to hate me for the rest of my life. What else can I do to get her ...

My wife has webcam sex chats with men, and hides things from me. Should I be worried?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - My wife does webcam sex chats and hides a lot of stuff from me. Should I be worried? ...

My girlfriend's past is causing me stress. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - So here is the situation, my girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 months. I've known for some time that she had slept with my brother before meeting me and that it wasn't anything serious because she has told me many times. She told me they ...

Should I reconcile with my ex now, or wait until she and my best friend break up. I am somewhat turned on knowing he is with her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I had a heated argument a few days ago. Yesterday, I was having a drink with my best friend, we have been friends since high school. He asked me how Linda was and I told him we had split and that she was fair game. I knew that he ...

Reality versus Illusion

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - In reflecting upon a relationship I had with a girl last year, I think a source of the many problems I had was my confusion of the illusion I had of her and what our relationship was with the reality. I thought I would relate a little bit about it ...

Why is my ex so insistent on becoming my friend on facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - i broke up with my ex 3 months ago. he started becoming a distant asshole. we hadnt spoke since the breakup until 1 day the week b4 last he sent me a friend request on facebook. He wanted me to see that he got married around Christmas time-that ...

Is it my fault there's a distance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - im 15 and my gfs 14 were in the same year and we were going town with some friends yesterday and she was wearing a belly top shorts and converse i didnt want her to wear it but i didnt say nout wen we got to town mmy bestmate was just staring at her ...

She tells me I am ridiculous for feeling this way and that she is walking on egg shells around me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - Im 29 years old and have been married for 2 years but have been with my wife for 6 years. We have two children, 4 and 2. Ive tried to talk to her about the lack of attention between us and she just makes all types of excuses why she doesnt. We are ...

Together for two years but lately no affection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We live together and everything. I love him dearly, but in the past three months I have noticed it is very rare for him to ever hug or kiss me. We rarely have sex either and when we do it's ...

I'm scared my ex boyfriend is going to hurt me again

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Hi all, Please can you advise on this, as I am very confused. I went out with a guy for a while and fell totally in love with him. However, he took advantage of that, and we fell out over lots of things and the relationship became very stressful and ...

How can I gather the strength to break up with my terrible boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Hi. Well I just want to know how to stop loving my first love. Obviously, I know I should have broken up with him a long time ago and all, but I just want to stop loving him. I've heard he has cheated on me so many times. Ugh. I don't know what I'm ...

Now that I live with my boyfriend, he no longer pays any attention to me! What can I do to change this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months. We used to be in a long-distance relationship and while I was gone, we used to talk about how happy we were and how excited we were for me to move and get our own place. Well... Now, we're li...

My younger boyfriend is ruining my self esteem. Was I right to break up with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Hi there. I was recently in a relationship with a guy briefly. This is someone I've known for a couple of years. I'm 5 years older than him and he knew this from the onset. The problem that i have is - during our first 'get together' when w...

Any thoughts as to why I had this dream or what it could possibly mean??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5058 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Ok so I had a really weird dream so anyone who can give me any thoughts on what it could mean would be great. Ok so a little backround on the person in my dream. I had a fwb for about 3 years on and off that just recently ended. Well he told me a ...

It doesn't feel and hardly even qualifies as a relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5058 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - hey.so me n my bf have been together for 4 months now.but i actually don't feel like im in a relationship.i feel alone. i cant actually open up n share things with him n neither does he. i wanna over things but i don't wanna lose him.i mean i ...

Separated parents--all my dad's responsibilities have become my responsibilities?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5058 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - My mom and my dad have been separated for about 2years now. So basically, all of my dad's responsibilities are now my responsibilities since he does not live with us anymore (us= my mom, little brother, and myself). Ever since he left, my mom became ...

Should I forgive and forget if she still insists on seeing this group at her college?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months, and love eachother very much. We go to different colleges, and she has a lot of guy friends that she hangs out with on the weekends. She always tells me that they respect our relationship and ...

Big crush, like very much, or love, or lust? How do I tell which feelings are love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Hey, so I need some advice. How do you know love when you, well, know it? I know it's silly since I'm only 13. Yeah, I've gone through a few crushes, like, 'oh that new kid is hot', yada yada. In 3 grade, I even 'dated' a guy.. For one recess. B...

She just up and left him out of the blue!1

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - Hi all, Would like peoples views on the following. My friend is in a situation wher his girlfriend has left him out the blue for a friend of her's, myself and other friends of his think that she has just done it without giving it any thought as...

I can't get over my ex fling/best friend even though I'm in a committed relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Basically, I had this guy friend for over a year who was engaged to a girl he didn't love (he stayed with her because they had a baby together). I went through two other relationships while I was friends with him, the second of which began online ...

He moves on from girl to girl but he has never moved onto me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Ok so he came to my school this year, and since then we have been bestfriends. In the beggining (first days i knew him) i really liked him and he liked me, but he never told me and i never told him and so i still liked him but then he liked my...

Husband needs the aid of porn to have sex with me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Why when my husband and I have sex we always have to have porn on. When it is not on and we are kissing sometimes he gets on hard, but most of the time he is soft until we have porn on every night. We were apart for almost 2yrs and he said this...

My scrooge husband does not care about my financial problems. Is this normal in a marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - My husband doesn't care that I have financial problems. I was adjusting for green card last year. During that time my working permit expired and lost my full time job. But he still wants me to pay my share of the rent. He doesn't care my account is ...

Facebook use by my husband is destroying our marriage. What can I do to fix this problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I found out a week ago that my husband of 16 years has been comunicating with Facebook Poker young women, that look, well..."slutty", he doesn't know them, in fact, some are not even American. Some of the things that I saw that he wrote to these ...

Last year I slept with a co-worker. Now she will not let me forget it. How do I handle the problems she's causing me?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - In November, I slept with a co-worker. I'm married and I know I screwed up. Right after it happened, I felt guilty and told her that it would never happen again.Well, my wife works with us, and the co-worker has been dropping hints left and righ...

If he will not use this separation to work on our marriage then why should I hold out hope that we'll ever get back together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been separated a couple weeks now. We decided we needed to separate when it didn't seem like things were getting better at home. He is not sure what he wants and I have been willing and ready to work through our problems. He ...

Am I just nothing to him now? Does he just forget me, completely, after years of marriage?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

22 January 2011 (?) - Does a man just forget his wife after he finds a new woman, even when he knows he was at fault for cheating does he just forget his wife, after 18 years, I was good to him... Can he just forget me just like that... i fought for him back begged h...

Do I end it with my gf and also hurt my two children? or end it with the girl I feel is my soul mate?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - Hello wise people, I did something I thought I would never do. I had an affair. Now before anyone goes tut, that was me, before it happened. I met this amazing girl at my girlfriend's work. We clicked from day one and it was at first, just the ...