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writes:my boyfriend loves me but he want to have sex before marriage but i dont want sex before marriage .i love him too but because of this i am afraid of him .he get excited whenever he talk or see me .he loses his control and has keen desire for sex.tell me how can i improve him i mean i want he should not talk about sex . Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2011): He doesn't respect you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2011): Tell him you don't want to talk about sex. If he doesn't respect that and continues, he's probably not someone you want to marry because it means he doesn't care much about your feelings. Thats how you will know if he loves you or not...if you are ready to find out for sure.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (17 January 2011):
 At the end of the day he is a red blooded male with sexual desires, jusst like most males. However, you do not want sex before marriage, and if he loves you he will respect this. Be firm, strong, and tell him how you feel, that there will be no sex, not in any way shape or form untill we are married, and stress that its not helping by keep talking about it. If he is one of the good one's he will stick around and wait for wedlock. If he can't wait and still keeps on, then maybe you might have to question whether or not he is for you.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2011): i don't think that is possible. if he acts like that then he might just be with for for sex. but i would try to talk to him and let him know how you feel and if he loves you he will respect that.
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