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writes:i have been dating this girl for 8 months now. Before we started dating we were friends for years.We both came from bad ex's both were abusive. also before we got together we both have said to each other, 'we should be with each other.' We both became single around the same time. About 3 months later we started dating. We both agreed on taking it slow,not rushing into things. We did spend a lot of time with each other, until recently. When she found out some medical news that could have been caused by her, or myself. Then she said she needed some space I might add we never fight, we always talk things out. So i try to gave her some space. She calls me 3 times a day and we still talk for hours on the phone Everything still seems pretty good, if not even better, than it was before. My question is: Why would she want this space? Is it because of the bad news? Is it a test to see how strong the love is?Is it because of her strong feelings for me? If it wasn't a good thing i dont think we would be talking up to 2 hours a day. Everyday. Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (17 January 2011):
 What is this medical news? It's very possible that it could be because of the bad news. Or it could be because she's not as ready for this relationship due to her abusive past.
Whenever people take a break, it's because things are progressing too fast, there's someone else, there's too much personal issues they're having so they have to take time to themselves, the likeness, love is fading and it's a nice way of breaking up for good.
Instead of guessing, why don't you ask the direct source of why she wants this break? That would be the best idea.
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