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Archived questions from: 14 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How to get over my crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5066 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - I'm 14 and I got my 4th boyfriend this year. He asked me out and I thought I really liked him. I liked another boy and have done since I was ten, but when the bf asked me out I said yes. I did really like him but then he was so clingy, I wanted some ...

He just says he doesn't mean to hurt me and doesn't know why he does it, but thats not enough for me. Should I give him another chance?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - Hi, about 8 months ago I found out that my boyfriend of 3 yrs has been txting dirty messages to at least 3 girls, one of which I know. I found this out just after we had purchased a house together, so decided to forgive him and try and move on. He ...

How do I recover from this falling out with a good friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5066 days ago

14 January 2011 (?) - I had an awful fight with a friend a couple months ago. Her and her boyfriend came over to collect stuff they were owed. Initially it was over money that I owed her ($15). It's true, I had not paid them back for something, but it was something ...

I can't put my finger on it but alot of things he does are turning me off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - Hi! Really need to talk ask for an objective opinion, following on from a question I asked a few weeks ago. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 1/2 years. I do love him, however for the past couple of months I have become increasingly ...

My marriage proposal sucked! Should I let him do it again?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - SO I’m engaged but my proposal Sucked!!! he didn’t even decorate there was no romantic music and he knows that I love flowers and he didn’t even give me one!!! He used a beat up candle that was already used and I didn’t even get to dress up nor ...

A matter of our relationship ending or not?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been living together for a year now and we've been having a lot of problems as of recently. Ok well to back track to last year while at work I made a friend (a guy) anyways a day before i told my boyfriend that we were going ...

He is happy living alone but I am not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for just under 2 years and really love each other and most of the times things are good. We are both 31 and I have been engaged before but never married and he has never lived with a woman before. Last...

I've become a jealous freak!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - I'm in a relationship of over a year, which has been one of the best things that have happened to me. He's my lover, my best friend, my partner. Together we have a blast- whether we're stuck at home making dinner, or out floating down a river in a ...

How to change a man's mind about relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - I have couple of posts related to this problem and heres upto date info :) Please help meee!! I met this guy in late Sept 2010, we were getting along so great for a month. After a month of dating him, I knew that I really like him and i'm ready to...

I really love him but I know he doesn't love me back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5066 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for just over a year. I am 19, he is 32. I am at university in Manchester while he lives in London so during our relationship we did not get to spend that much time together. He visited me a few times and we saw each other ...

I told a friend really personal things and now regret doing it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5066 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - Ok so I told one of my friends 'that I knew I couldnt trust with stuff' some recently personal stuff (yes I know this was stupid thankyou!)and my other close friend told me that the untrustworthy friend had told this girl and was thinking bout ...

If she's engaged then why is she acting like this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

14 January 2011 (M) - I'm married. So no "you know better" talk....I already know. Here goes. I have been working with a very attractive, and up till recently, single girl. We've known each other 3 years. For the first couple of years she seemed kind of attracted to me. ...

No christmas or birthday card from my boyfriend, is it OK for me to be upset?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - I wrote on here a few weeks ago about how my boyfriend of 5 months didn't get me even a card for Christmas after I got him a $200 gift. My birthday was a week later and I did not get even a card for that either. Am I being a baby or do I have a r...

I don't know what to make of his behaviour!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - The guy I'm seeing has also requested me a friend on facebook, I accepted. I get on kinda of late at night, he has made comments about me trying to meet someone else, told him no. I did the 21 question thing and sent it to him, he took it down off ...

I dislike most people is that bad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

14 January 2011 (M) - I'm 22 years old, male, living in Canada and I can honestly say I dislike most people. I'm not necessarily one of those anti-social, "I hate the human race"-types, but most people I know/meet that are around my age, I can't stand that much. To m...

I listen to my friend but when its my turn to talk she changes the subject!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - im just wondering if anyone else thinks that someone acting like this, makes them a bad friend or is it just their personality? so my "friend" hasnt been very supportive to me and i have been doing all i can to be supportive to her because we both ...

I'm getting married but feel like I need more time! Is this normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - I'm getting married in 3 months my fiancee and i have been together for about 2 year i know that he loves me and he respects me and tries to mAke me a better person. we almost Have everything ready for our wedding I'm having some doubts I get scared ...

Should I trust him after seeing the picture of another girl on his phone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - so me and my boyfriend had a little break up cause i wasnt treating him good enough. well we was texting today and he didnt txt me back for 5 hours. then he text me and ask if i wanna go to the movies i said yea sure. so we was on our way to the m...

Is he still in love with his ex girlfriends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - Ok so I started dating my boyfriend for two and a half months and I got pregnant. He's 20 and I'm 18. We decided to keep it and its been a whole year that we've been together and our daughter is 3 months old today. So heres the problem, I recently ...

So many lies.....Can I ever trust my wife again?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

14 January 2011 (M) - I have been married for 3 years and just found out that my wife has done nothng but lie to me about almost everything including 2 1/2 of the years the marriage she has been texting and running in to one of her old boyfriend and about 6 months ago ...

I cant stop arguing with my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5067 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - So me and my ex broke up about two weeks ago. we had a two year relationship so after we stopped arguing i suggested we meet in person to sort things out.but i need advice on what to say. i want to him to trust me and stop being so jealous..to stop ...

My girlfriend is incredibly pretty and I am worried about her cheating when she goes away to college.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

14 January 2011 (M) - my girlfriend and i have been together for over a year now. we started dating in high school and now i am at a local university, she wants to go to a different province for school. anyway, my gf is really god looking, brown hair, hazel eyes, to make ...

My emotional boyfriend is cramping my style!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5066 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - How do I tell my boyfriend that I need more space? First of all, we go to school together. I'm usually busy with classes all day long and always have lots of homework to do. Him, on the other hand, is taking soley English language classes (he is ...

Everything she tells to me, she tells to her male friends! Surely there should be a difference between her boyfriend of over a year and her male friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

14 January 2011 (M) - Ok so I don't know if I'm overreacting or if I have a valid reason to feel the way I'm feeling and sorry if this is long. Me and my girlfriend have a very good relationship, we can talk to eachother about anything, our communication is...

My millionaire boyfriend is a complete tightwad, but he has my heart....how do I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - "Bob" and I have been dating now for 7 months. I am 47, divorced with one child and was married (once)for 13 years. He is 53, was married once when he was 20 (for one month!), has lived with several women and has a daughter who is 17. He didn't know ...

Cheated under bizarre circumstances while drunk, don't want to hurt my girlfriend.....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

14 January 2011 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years. This is my first relationship, I’ve known that she was the one since I first laid eyes on her, and I plan to propose after we finish college. Last night, I cheated on her. I went over to a friend’s (w...

Should I choose to keep my family together, hoping that this is just a glitch, or should I be with the other man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

14 January 2011 (?) - I have been in a pretty happy relationship for 15 years with a beautiful 11 yr old daughter. OK my mum in the UK died last year and this finally gave me a reason to go home, I had been trying for 15 years to go home as I missed my family. My partner ...

Why cant I enjoy sex anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - Hey guys i'm in dire need of some advice. My fiance of 4 yrs and I had this great sex life about two years ago. We started intercourse about 1yr and half in and it was great. I even started it sometimes. Well my parents found out and they ...

She's bothered about what her friends will think

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5066 days ago

14 January 2011 (M) - I am 42, my girlfriend of 4 years is 26. I originally lived with my brother after splitting with my previous girlfriend. 2 years ago, my now girlfriend wanted us to get our own places, live seperately for a year or , then move in together. I got a ...

When I said I love you he laughed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - I guess I would just like some opinions. Today I was with my boyfriend and we were hugging and I said I love you. This is not the first time I've said it, we've been together for 5 months btw. But anyway when I said it he laughed, when I asked what ...

I'm worn out and tired of trying to please my boyfriend anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, so my boyfriend and i have been together for about 7 months now...we've been through quite a lot...moving in together due to family issues, Family disputes with his grandmother, pregnancy scares you name it. I'm 19 he's 21, he has ...

Can I be with him anymore because of his pot addiction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - Ive been dating my boyfriend for two years, I'm struggling with whether or not I can be with him any more because of his pot habit. At first I never minded because I thought it was just weekend use, but now its multiple times every day. It pisses ...

Why does my bf lie about things that are so small?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of a year keeps lying to me. He recently told me that he cancel his hotmail account because his not wanting to do anything with his friends. But here is where it get a little foggy. He told me he created a gmail account. (i know it ...

DId he hear a rumor about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - There was this guy I really liked and who seemed to really like me (all the signs were present). Suddenly, out of the blue, he is avoiding me and I do mean obviously avoiding me. I wanna know...what in the world happened?! One day we were flirting...

He's acting rude and mean! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - Hey guys and gals.. my problem is a guy were not together but we have been talking for awhile now and he's been acting rude and mean which he hasn't ever acted like this before what am I supposed to do?...

Sometimes he makes me feel so important, other times like I don't exist!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5067 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - i am so confused. me and my boyfriend haven't known eachother very long but we already live together (his idea). the thing is we have lived together just over a couple months and sometimes he makes me feel like im the most important thing to him and ...

My boyfriend is a cheating drunk, and I don't know if I can trust him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We have 2 children together. When we first met things went really fast we were living together in 3 months and pregnant.When we met I knew that he drank pretty heavily, but during my pregnancy I found out ...

My lady friend's daughter caught us cyber sexting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

14 January 2011 (M) - My lady friend's daughter snooped her phone and caught us cyber-sex-ting She is 72 and I am 69 and now they will not let me see her mother. Any advice? It was only texting and nothing being acted out. D...