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Archived questions from: 27 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I leave this abusive relationship now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I really hope you can help. I am in an abusive relationship. I do love the guy but he seems to be be intent on saying that his physical violence towards me is justified - i.e. apparently I 'press his anger buttons' when I get annoyed with things. ...

Why won't my boyfriend go out with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Why won't my boyfriend go out with me? Everytime I get invited to a party by one of my friends my boyfriend won't go. He never walks me to places or from them! I don't understand all of my friend's boyfriend drop them off and pick them up at ...

What advice do you have for a feuding couple?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I fight a lot. We're both stubborn headed which is probably the main reason why we fight. Today I tried to joke with her and she said she felt like I "insulted" her. What advice does anybody have for the feuding couple? I love ...

I believe my boyfriend may suffer from Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Is it safe to be with this kind of person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hi. When we were discussing something, my boyfriend told me he loves to see a women naked i.e. naked with all her feelings and vulnerable. He is very self centered and never much cares about my needs, it's always about him. He abuses me mental...

Should I continue waiting for my married lover, or am I being taken for a ride?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - Greetings All! I have worked with this person for two years and have always had a mutual great feeling. We began an active relationship last year. I was in process of a divorce, but the feelings for her were very real and true. She put forth the ...

Is this type of behavior normal for young men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - The guy I have been dating for about 1 year now is extremely defiant, if you say go left, goes right, if you ask him to do something, he won't do it even if it is reasonable request. He is very, very lazy and he often starts task, but never finish ...

But I love him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I was dating my boyfriend for 11 months and we got into an argument and he said he needed space, but would date me again in two months. A month has passed and this space has been agonizing me. He said he still loves me and wants to be ...

Recently reconnected after 7 years. What is he thinking?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Seven years ago, I had a friend’s with benefits relationship that lasted a year. I moved away because I fell in love with him and did not want him to know. Six months ago, we reconnected and I admitted how I felt and why I had moved. He had no idea ...

My boyfriend goes out of his way for a woman he is not even good friends with. Is he interested in her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend of 1 year avoids me often, and says he is busy at work. He takes extreme measures to help a girl whom he is not close friends with, but when I asked him for a favour (which will not take more than 15 mins for him to do) he said he ...

Baring my soul here after my life changed drastically. How do I salvage my marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hi - I'm very curious to hear people's responses please. My husband and I have been together 14 years (Im now early 30s -he's mid 30's). I realize now that I met him at a very vulnerable time in my life. I needed a lot of attention and I was just...

I love him, but has his love for me died? What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - He's doing it again! He's saying I've broken his heart more than once... HOW??? I've been faithful throughout this relationship, while he was out doing God know's what from 6pm-1am! I love him dearly but sometimes it does my head in to HAVE TO ...

Girlfriend seems disinterested in sex. Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - I am at a loss as of what to do. I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for nearly 5 years, and some on and off time 2 years before that. Recently I have been looking at buying an engagement ring and proposing to her, but this process ...

My husband is hot tempered and abusive. Please give me advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Please help me. I got married 5 months ago. My husband is easily angered, abuses me, and sometimes he physically beats me in the process. He can be happy when he is happy, but can be very very angry when he is not. During courtship, I didn't ...

Jumped from one relationship to another and now I'm having second thoughts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Where to start? Well in April 2010, I got together with this boy (Adam), and everything was going fine, until November of that same year. I fell for a friend (Darrell), and decided to end things with my boyfriend. About 3 weeks later, I started ...

Boyfriend keeps saying we'll have alone time and then invites his friends along!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I love my boyfriend with all my heart ...but lately we've been fighing so much and its makes me unhappy...he always asks me to go round his to watch a movie and he says its just gonna be me and him.. but then he tells me his mates are coming to and ...

Help with gf's violent ex partner

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - Please help, my “GF” has come out of a very violent relationship of 8 years after a particularly bad beating from her ex-partner (the bruises were awful) she decided to leave him me and her have been getting on well for a long time as friends she ...

I need advice to cope with my sexting obsessed boyfriend. How have others coped with this problem?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I need help. My boyfriend is obsessed with sexting other girls. I have caught him twice doing it with the same girl. He swears that nothing is going on between them, but I find it hard to believe. When I confront him about it he just keeps sayi...

Should I forgive my girl friend for being ungrateful?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - I want a break from my Girlfriend because she returned a gift I bought for her. I love her and have been with her for 4 years, This is the first terrible thing she ever done to me! Must I forgive her? She returned a cellphone and wanted a blackbe...

Was it a good idea to let him go as a friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - My best mate treats me like crap..ive tried so hard for my mate and my boyfriend to be friends so i can have both the people i love around me and i want to spend time with him and my boyfriend at the same time ..but hes just being so stubborn..he ...

I'm not sure if I can marry her now I know about her past!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - I have been with this woman for 10 months now, i recently even got engaged with this women, at first she did tell me that she was seeing women when her mental health was not fine, recently i proposed marriage to her and moved in with her, since ...

This situation with him is getting old, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I‘ve known this guy for about five or six years now, and we belong to the same group of friends. We only ever meet when this group meets, but then its ok, we do talk and everything is pretty normal. If we meet alone (which is almost never) its just ...

One month into this LDR and he wants to move in together, marriage, babies....the lot! Should I run away as fast as I can?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hi. I am in a LDR with someone I've only known for a month. Never met and ended up talking over the internet on my web page. I have been trying to avoid relationships at any cost because I was engaged back in October but I broke it off with my ...

How is it possible after so many years to be still in love? Especially when we are both happily married to other people!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - Hi everybody my story follows: Met my first love 18 years ago. We were both teenagers and we had a very intense relationship for 3.5 years. This relationship was the first sex experience for both of us. To make long story short, she left th...

I am 18, pregnant, and can't figure out what's going on with my boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I am 18 y/o and my boyfriend is 31. I am just now finding out that I am pregnant with an at home test. I am always the type of girl to be happy, outgoing, and talk loud..., and lately, I've been a lil bit cranky. Now, he has decided to seperate ...

Boyfriend of 3 years got a random chick pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I were together for 3 years. and In October before halloween we had broke up. For a while he made me believe that he wanted to be single and have fun with his friends, but comes to find out he got someone at his work that he works ...

I'll never be happy with my boyfriend till he lets this go

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I have a boyfriend that is very insecure about himself. He was this way before our relationship, but I made it much worse. See, I was not over my first boyfriend when I started dating him. He was my rebound guy. I compared him to my ex and said some ...

Married lover wants me back into his life after everything he's put me through!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I was dating a married man who never told me that he is a A pastor as well, we were so much in love I got pregnant with his child but then he begged me to Terminate the pregnancy as I was not planning to have a child With him I terminated ...

Rinky dink relationships but no serious relationships at 23!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 23 years old and I never had a serious relationship before. I've been in rinky dink relationships, but nothing long term. There's not really a reason for it, just bad luck, bad timing and me focusing on other things (Like work and going to ...

How do I cut ties with my sister?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I will try to keep this brief but it will take a bit of explaining. I am the oldest of five siblings. We are three sisters then the youngest are boy/girl twins, ages up from 23 to 31 (myself) The problem is with myself and the middle sister who...

Should I ask him or just wait?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - So I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 34. I've been dating him for 5 months. He is the most amazing guy ever. He has 3 children and he loves then he always puts them as he's priority which I like because that's how its supposed to be. last year I was In the ...

I need to know how I can fix my clinging-on-to-him without ignoring him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for about 11 months now and things were going great until I had Christmas break from college. I stayed with him and his family for a little more then a month. At first it was really fun and it felt like we were adults ...