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Archived questions from: 16 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My married boyfriend doesn't want to lose his son so he keeps me as a secret

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5063 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 7months. He is married and has a son but he told me he isn't in love with her he said he's in love with me. But he said she would take his son and go to IN and stay with her family and they don't ...

My self-obsessed boyfriend won't let me have a say in sex... And makes me hold up a mirror.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - Because we've been together for nearly eight months, I've always known my boyfriend spends time on his appearance, sometimes even more than me! (He has nearly as many beauty products as I do, and a lot more hair stuff - which is crazy because I have ...

I can't get the thoughts of my girlfriend with someone else out of my head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

16 January 2011 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we have both realised we want to spend our lives together. I am not religious but i am one of the ever decreasing people that believe you should give your virginity to the one you want to spend ...

I'm attracted to my girlfriend's mom

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

16 January 2011 (M) - i am attracted to my girlfriends mom,anytime i come over she talks to me like im her friend/boyfriend, and tries to hug me anytime she can(not over the top though), i mean like a loving hug not a crappy 1 second one. its a fantasy to have my ...

He has a drinking problem, I don't know what to do about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - I started dating a guy just over 3 months ago, he appeared the man of my dreams... funny, handsome and caring. However, he has recently informed me he has a serious drink problem. It only came to light following a few days of no contact from ...

My boyfriend's female friends doesn't like me and avoids me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5060 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend loves me, and I love him and things have been going better and better lately. But he has one old friend who is a girl, NOT EVER a romantic attachment, who studiously avoids me at social gatherings. Once when he wasn't there, s...

Is she just holding out for something better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5058 days ago

16 January 2011 (M) - I've been living with my girlfriend for about a year and a half now. I've been divorced for over 7 years and she's been separated for nearly 3 years but has not pursued divorce. They have no assets together so a divorce shouldn't cost very much. ...

Is there a future with my meth addict boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - Should I leave my meth addict partner? I am 23 years old and I have been with my 27 year old boyfriend for six years now. We have had a very rocky relationship and have been through a lot together. He cheated on me a year into our relationship...

Girlfriend has such random moods and I can't deal with them

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5064 days ago

16 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend goes in random moods and puts me down when she is in them. an example I started to put the recycling out while she did the dishes, I finshed went to sit on the sofa 20 seconds she joined me, and said "thanks for helping me wash the ...

She already knew I had kids but got upset when she found a video of their birth of my computer!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

16 January 2011 (M) - I met a girl 2 month ago, we heard so much fun in a very short period of time, I have 3 kids one 5, and twins 2, with different women, at first I told her I have 1 child, later on as we where getting serious, I knew I really like her, so i told her ...

The guy I clicked with gave my number to the guy who happens to be a jerk!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - I am sure this happens a lot but this is a first for me. So it was my friend's birthday last night and he introduced me these guys. From the beginning one of them was trying to talk to me, Andrew, who apparently is kind of an asshole. I was just ...

I didn't mean to upset my friend but I had to tell him off!

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16 January 2011 (F) - ive upset my friend and i dont know what to do. I feel terrible recently shes been counselling me over another friend-a guy who has been quite a crap friend to me and she was advising me about him. anyway i wanted to have it out with him and i d...

Boyfriend manipulates me so I apologize for even his mistakes!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - Hi my bf often ignores and manipulates me in such a way that i need to apologize even for his mistakes. When ever i try to talk to him about this, he says i am boring him and try to change the subject. He is emotionally distant too. Does all...

I wish my fiance would lose 30 lbs and get his hair back so I'd find him more attractive!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - I have a bit of a complicated problem. I'm a 24 year old psychologist in-training (who apparently can't heed my own advice). My fiance is a 26 year-old unemployed high school teacher. I've been with my fiance for 4 years and 3 months (like 4 years, ...

Addicts are great liars..I'm afraid my b/f is doing heavy drugs!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - I found out that my bf's best friend, the one i don't like, is doing drugs.. and it's not an easy drug, it's a heavy drug... It's speed.. Some of his other friends are sniffing too.. Now, my boyfriend has lied to me before, about pot.. But i ...

Music will always be 1st in his life, not me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 years has told me that I will always be second best to music and it will always be put befor me. What should I do....

Why can't we be more dirty and sexual?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - I can't tell my boyfriend that I'm horny or that I want him because he acts shocked and says I'm so rude or obcessed with sex. Is that normal? He says he has a low sex drive, but is it normal to not even want to discuss anything sexual, like ...

Help! Is he playing games - How would you handle this with your boyfriend????

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - Hi... This past Friday my BF was suppose to come over for dinner. When I texted him suggestions on what to make for dinner, he texted back saying: "I might not be able to come - My daughter has a baseball game and I thought it was canceled because ...

I want something more! How do I change our situation?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - i ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years.i am 29 and he is 32. in july he broke up with me because latelly we had problems. basically as time passed i wanted a more serious commitment from him,but he got pressured,and he started going out all th...

Why did my boyfriend text disgustingly hurtful stuff about me to his friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - Why did my boyfriend say that? what am I gunna do?:(? my ex boyfriend has been calling me lately and my boyfriend asked and obviously i couldn't lie so told him the truth. i went through his phone( i know i shouldn't have) in the text he told his...

My dating life has just been a disaster!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - Dear aunts. Hope you can help me out. I've posted before and found it very useful so here goes. I am in my early thirties and my entire love life has been a series of disasters. My first love died in a car crash, the next one I fell in love with at ...

I want to get married but don't want to force him to do so!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years now. We have lived together for 2 years. I want to get married and I am getting anxious. Every time we have talked about it, he always says he isn't ready to get married. I'm only 22 and he's 23, ...

Girlfriend found out some bad medical news and says she needs a break, but keeps calling me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

16 January 2011 (M) - So i have been dating this girl for almost a year we have talked about marriage having kids, then she finds out some bad medical news then tell me she needs a break, some time alone. she still calls me 3 times a day, still have sex talk for hours on ...

I'm unsure if I'm in love with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5065 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - Okay so i've been dating this guy for 11 months. I know I love him and he loves me. But i'm unsure if i'm in love with him. Because i think theres a difference between loving someone and being in love with them. I always want to spend time with him ...

My second wife doesn't like my children from my 1st marriage!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

16 January 2011 (M) - I have 4 children from my first marriage who now live in the UK with their mother, and I am in another relationship with a new wife and we have one child together. Ny new wife does not like the children from my first marriage, is resentful to them ...

How can I bring myself to trust him after everything he's done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - Hi, ive been with my boyfriend nearly 2years now and i don't trust him at all, please read all of this, i need advise on alot of things. Lets start from the beginning, he was engaged to a girl who cheated on him more than once and 6months after they ...

I just don't trust her and don't know how to make things better

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5064 days ago

16 January 2011 (M) - Ok I have a problem with my gf, when I finnaly came home from deployment and she came to visit me from her home in detriot, all was good and we had a good time. But when she went back up to detriot I feel like I cant trust her because of the p...

I hate it when my girlfriend drinks!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

16 January 2011 (M) - Ive got a little problem and Im not sure what to do. In a nutshell, the problem is I hate it when my girlfriend drinks. A little background: We are both in our late 30’s and in a nearly two year, long distance relationship, both of us have been mar...

Xbox has taken my partner and his sense of responsibility. How do I survive this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - My partner works o/n and I work days, but the weekends we both have off. I'm 6 months pregnant with my second, and at the beginning of the month was the ultrasound. We found out it's a girl, but were really hoping for a boy. Since then he's hardly ...

I get streaks of anger toward my girlfriend. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - Oka i dont know if its because im alittle crazy or its just normal..but i get streaks of anger toward my girlfriend. Some times i love her to death and never ever want her to leave me, when she has to go to work. Ever! Then its like everything she ...

We're Living Together but She Won't Marry Me. Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

16 January 2011 (M) - I just wonder what is really going on here. My girfriend and I have been living together for a year and a half now. We are both in our mid - late 40's. I have been divorced around 7 years and she has been separated (not yet divorced) for almost 3 ...

Should I forgive her for everything while she has treated me like dirt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5064 days ago

16 January 2011 (M) - Hi I am in a dilemma. I met my girlfriend 2 and a half years ago we dated or two months long distance, fell madly in love and she moved in with me in a flat at my area. We ended up arguing and on off splitting up. I stuck with her and chased a...

I'm scared of losing my parents or him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5064 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - Hi I was in a relationship with a man for 10 months, however he was 40 and I was 20 at the time and at uni. I tried talking about it with my mum and dad a month into the realtionship but straight away I got a "no way on this earth was this going t...

Am I a whore for wanting casual sex, sometimes with guys from the same circle of friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - I'm 24, single, and I have had 10 sexual partners, my sister is younger than me and is in a relationship, and she constantly dissaproves of my "love" life. She thinks I'm a whore. I've had my one night stands, also my serious relationships, ...