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Archived questions from: January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I can't help but think that he's not in it for the long run.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - hi, I met someone, things started off shaky just cause when things get serious i start pushing people away just to see if they'l stick around and he didn't he just became distant. I felt bad because for a while he was doing and saying all the r...

Is there recovery from cybersex/emotional infidelity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I recently found out about one of my boyfriend's cyber sex partners while we were vacationing together. I was using his computer to email my family when a woman named Rachael popped up on his skype to talk to him. I told she was asking for him and ...

Help! I can't seem to get past his mistakes...

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31 January 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and he tells me all the time that he doesnt want anyone but me but i find it hard to believe. never was there actually cheating but more so expressing to others the things he wanted to do with them ...

I'm getting tired of him always being busy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I'm getting tired of him always being busy. So I am 17 and me and my bf have been going out for a year tomorrow actually.... The thing is his number 1 passion is snowmobiles. So of course every chance he gets he is off snowmobiling. From fixing his ...

Should I stay with my boyfriend... or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Am I wanting to stay with my him(bf)? Every time that I he gets close to me. It just doesn't feel right. I don't even let him kiss, hug etc. No more. Sometimes I will let him kiss me b4 he go to work. Cause usaly that what would a couple would do ...

He says my past disgusts him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I am 24 years old and I have had multiple partners some of whom know my current boyfriend. He said that my past disgusts him and he can't be with me because he can't get over the thought of people knowing what i am like in bed. Is it wrong for me to ...

Trust and loyalty towards family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - My daughter was married for 2 years. Overnight she turned into a quiet, withdrawn person. Talking to her, supporting her didnt draw her out of her shell. During the 2 years we (family/close friends) noticed that things between her and her husband ...

I don't know what to do... Help!

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31 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year now, and we moved in together 3 months ago, and i feel like the relationship is not what it used to be he does not cuddle with me as much as he used to does not pay attention to me as much as he ...

He makes me feel like I'm his mother or his household help!

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31 January 2011 (F) - I'm having a hard time with my husbandhe's 25. He's failed at so many things in his life. I've been with him for 2years but known him for 4years. Ever since after his A levels. He flunked and i was there for him. I tried applying for him at colleges ...

I want him there as MORE than just a "virtual sex partner."

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31 January 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy that i've been friends with for a little over four months now. back when we first met, i had a pretty big crush on him. when i told him that, he basically told me that liking him would be a waste of my time, as h...

Is it to where I don't want to be with him anymore?

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31 January 2011 (F) - I have been living with my bf for 3in a half yrs. And I have for a long time that I have got that strong feeling of not wanting to be with him nomore. I have been wanting to break up but I get the feeling of not breaking up with him. Why I'm I ...

I have an annoying friend that I want out of my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - My friend..lets call her A..is the most annoying person i have ever dealt with. She is judgemental, ego-centric, rude, inconsiderate, annoying, won't shut up, and...how do i say this...she does stuff "just because its popular". For ex. She tried out ...

How can I break the hold her mum has on her?

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31 January 2011 (M) - i really need help my girlfriend's mother wont let her go she treatens her and tells her she will disown her her father died when she was a baby and as far as i see her mum has been brain washing her from that time she tells her stuff like i have ...

I know its wrong for me to snoop on him, but its wrong for him to be talking to other girls this way! Should I confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. It has always been an issue for me to trust people. I have been trying very hard to trust him, but he talks to a lot of girls because he is in the entertainment business. Once he left his ...

I cant accept his religion, but I cant be without him either!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - hey..im really confused and stressed out lately. i m in this relationship for 5 yrs. well i love him so much.. and he does too. but there is a religion difference between us..i mean its okay with me of being different, but he want me to convert to ...

He already has a child and doesn't seem to want another, but he is the love of my life...What should I do?

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31 January 2011 (F) - i am 30 years old and have never been married and never had a child, my boyfriend whom i love more than anything, has been married and has a child with his ex wife. i know in my heart that i want to get married and have a child someday. on the very ...

Despite all the bad things he has done, he is the only one I want. How do I get him back?

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31 January 2011 (F) - Hi everyone it would be really appreciated for help on this because I'm completely confused. My boyfriend of 2 years and I have been off and on since October but on Christmas eve he broke up with me via text not giving me a reason then ignored me ...

I was unsure about trusting him, so he got fed up of waiting and left me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I REAALLY NEED HELP! I was dating this guy after i broke up with my boy friend...actually; he was the reason why I did break up...It was at a stage when my rel'ship with my ex was almost dead and i met him. At that point of time i was totally...

How do I persuade my boyfriend to perform oral sex on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - How do i convince or persuade my boyfriend to perform oral sex on me,i have talked about it a couple of times but he said that he is not comfortable with it.What else do i do cause i really enjoy oral,moreover he doesnt last long during sex and i ...

My ex is ruining my new life!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (?) - Hello everybody. Here goes. I split up with my ex about 6 months ago. It turned out she was having an affair. I basically lost everything. She now lives with him in our flat, etc. The thing is I'm not bothered about this and I'll tell you...

I feel like this girl is replacing me more and more each day....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I have been going out with this boy for 6 months, I met through my friend and its been on and off as he moved over to Australia in November, but yet we are continuing to try stay together for him coming back this November. We argue quite a lot now ...

The grass wasn't greener on the other side.....

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31 January 2011 (M) - I want to work things out with my flame but I don't know how to cope with possible rejection. How should I go about. Keep in mind I crapped on her. Bailed out on her for another woman which flopped because my heart wasn't into her. It's been 2 ...

Which one is better? To love or be loved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - My bf is an egoist person. He always asks me to stay online 24 hours for him. And always said that i must reply his chats. If i late reply 1 or 2 mins, he will get angry. He never allows me to attend someone's call when i chat with him. While he...

My fiance has online profile looking for discreet casual sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I have been with my Fiancee for 3 years. We are both in our 40's. A few months ago he was in a car accident and was house bound for three months. During that time, he got very upset with me for not giving him more time and attention while he ...

My boyfriend is still married, living with his wife and having a baby with her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend of 5 months is married but seperated and has a baby due anyday now. He lives in another city with his mom and dad and wife. He come to see me when ever he can. So many times I've tried to end it because of the situation but we just ...

Will he ever be ready to commit or am I putting too much pressure on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 and a half years, and I have recently been sent interstate for work. There is no definite time for us to live in the same city again, unless we go de-facto or marry (we are both in the military) We have ...

He wants to give us another try but I don't feel anything for him anymore! Should I work at getting the feelings back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Ok this is a long shot so here it is. My exbf broke it off with me and I took it hard. I cool now and guess what? He's pressuring me to give it another try. Ok so here's the deal. I'm tolerating him and I'm bored. I've lost every feeling of love ...

Dreaming of my girlfriend's sister!

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31 January 2011 (M) - i've started having dreams about my girlfriends sister, and wanting her, what do i do, i cant get away from the sister because she lives with my girlfriend, help. ...

Tips on how to make your relationship work.

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31 January 2011 (F) - ok well im going to attempt to help people all over the place to make sure their relationship works. I hope to help people make their LDR work(it does work with the right frame of mind) i also want to help couples get through when one or the othe...

I lied about taking a pregnancy test, how do I get his trust back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I recently lied to my fiancé about taking a pregnancy test, which I did but I didn't pee on it ..because days before he ask me to take one..he was telling me we are not ready for kids..so I decided to not take it cause I was scared to be and make ...

The wandering eye......

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31 January 2011 (F) - My guy and I had a little spat in regards to the wandering eye and loyalty to me and the relationship. He says that my constant banter of telling him how upsetting it is to me to see him looking at other women and physically acting like he's not ...

I want to get to know this guy better, but I cant leave my boyfriend because of his threats each time I try! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Please help, I don't know what to do. This is a long story and very confusing too. I'm in a relationship for 6 years, on and off. When i said on and off, I meant, i was looking a better different bf. However, my current bf and I fight all the time. ...

I get mad each time he goes to visit his son at his ex's house!

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31 January 2011 (F) - I'm living with my boyfriend for more than two years now, we have a 6 mos old son and he has another 3 year old son from his ex also. everytime he visits him i always get mad. i know i should not to but i just cant stop thinking that his going to ...

I feel really betrayed that he'd get over me while we were in a relationship, talk to this girl who was his "friend" behind my back and then breakup with me after I tried really hard to change.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - OK before i start i want to thank everyone for taking the time to answer my question. Ok my boyfriend for 10 months recently dumped me about a month ago. He said i was too controlling and i didnt trust him. Before this huge breakup i dumped h...

Boyfriend has a terrible reputation, is in and out of jail and I cheated with a married man....where does that leave us??

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31 January 2011 (F) - Ok here goes.... my boyfriend of almost 3 years, spent 1 year of it in jail.I messed up I cheated on him with a married man..I broke it off before he came home, told him what i did and how sorry i was. He has forgave me he says ,I dont think so. It ...

Stuck with my current GF because its the easiest option, but my physical attraction for her is weaning and I'v cheated on her....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - Hi there, Im going to sound like the bad guy in this but hear me out, I would appreciate all opinions, good or bad. Thanks! So, Ive been with my girlfriend for 6 months now, and she is very much into me, almost infatuated and although I do li...

What do I do when I see him again at school? How do I come across as perfectly fine in front of him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I started talking to this guy about two months ago, that i saw in school and i thought was really cute. He added me on facebook one day, and then i IMed him on there, and we started talking and he asked for my number. We ended up texting everyday ...

My boyfriend got mad that we weren't friends on Facebook?

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31 January 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have now(today) been together for 10 months. (BTW hes in a different state right now and has been for 2 months now but we're working it out till he comes back)Today out of all days he decides to get another one of his ...

He left me to have a good time with his ex, and now that she's out, he wants me back again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I've had many trust issues with my boyfriend. Most with his ex girlfriend. Many issues in general, including: When they first broke up he started talking to me a couple weeks after.. then we started 'talking'. Before I left for Mexico in the summ...

I am scared I lost my chance with him, and scared to lose my best friend too! What should I do?

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30 January 2011 (F) - I need advice about this guy i still really really like.We have gone out off and on 3 or 4 times. He has dated my friend first but i ask permission to date him him she said yes, so we went out and now he has went out with 5 of my most best friends ...

Is there any way to make him pay maintenance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - hi can anyone give me advice 25 yr ago i had an affair which i became pregnant my daughter is now 25 years old out of the blue after 25 years he wanted a parternity test which was positive (which i knew it would be) but since then he has not ...

My boyfriend calls my best friend names when I am around. What should I do?

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30 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and my best mate(boy) are also best mates. However, my best mate feels like my boyfriend doesn't like him because of the way he acts in front of me because my boy friend calls him names. What should I do?? ...

My boyfriend has anger issues, but I don't want him to leave. Will he ever change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I really dont know what to do anymore! I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have a 6 month old son. He works nights and I look after our son. He gets really naggy over the slightest thing and will shout, swear, and punch the walls....

3 years after husband walks out, I still grieve, when does it stop?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I was with supposedly the "love of my life" for 32 years. In 2008, I found out he was having an affair. He left my son and I for 2 months, and then returned, stayed for 3 months, kept seeing the other person and then left again. I have not seen ...

Can't figure this guy out! What is going on?

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30 January 2011 (F) - I met this guy back in November and we were hanging out a few times a week, having a great time, and it lead to me sleeping over when I would see him. Every since I met him I questioned if he was a player.... his cell always being off when I am ...

My boyfriend's mother hates me and refuses to see our child because I told her he was bisexual! How can I clear the air?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I really need help. I've been with my boyfriend 4 years, (were 18) and we have a 14 month old daughter together. The problem is that his mother hates me because I once told her my boyfriend was bisexual (which is true). He cheated on me 3 times wi...

Fell in love, married, had children, & struggled with monogamy. Now the wife wants to leave. Why are we doing this to our kids?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Is "male nature" setting us back again? No where in the animal kingdom do we see monogamy more prominent as we see it in human nature. Or is monogamy just something woman have come to believe as true? I, like most men, fell in love with a beautifu...

Not 100% happy in 2 year long distance relationship. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Okay, well I am 17 (yeah kind of young, I know right...) and I am in a long-distance relationship. He lives in a place all the way across my country. I really want to be with him but it's hard. We have been together for 2 years. We are both too...

Is he cheating? And what should I do about our relationship?

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30 January 2011 (F) - What should I do? Is he cheating? I love him so much:( I told my boyfriend to take a break from our relationship because I feel that he doesn't like the fact that we are always on the phone or texting. So yes I told him to take a break and he said...

We both have partners, but we're in love! What should I do?

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30 January 2011 (F) - My situation is awkward! I have been close friends with a guy in another country for a couple of years. We get on great together, have so much in common, and have met a few times in real life, which were fantastic. The problem is he has a partner ...