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writes:me and my boyfriend were dating for three years we have children. he lost his job and started hanging out with friends all the time and he pushed me away from him. when i finally got tiered of it. i asked him to leave. he begged me to let him stay and i declined. we where split up for three months. in those three months i had dated someone for two months. but everyday my ex had begged me to take him back. i did. but he told me he had slept with four other women. i dont understand how he could beg for me and sleep with four other women. what does that mean. did he care at all and did he really want to get back together?????
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2011): This is similar to me.... I was with my OH for 5 years and he started hanging out with younger guys who were single, drinking and flirting.. Eventually he said he thought he didnt want to be in a relationship anymore and ended it.. Looking back I should have been stronger and ended it before he did but anyway.. we were split up for 3 months and in that time he dated another girl and i slept with 2 guys... He begged me back and said he had made a terrible mistake and things have been great for 6 months but I still can't get over him sleeping and spending time with another girl.... Let me know how you get on x
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reader, comeonjesusthishurtstoomuch +, writes (18 January 2011):
 Honey stuff like that always hurts. Try to forget or it will eat you up. Just think of it this way 4 women couldn't replace you in his eyes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the advice i am going to cope with it take your advice. i am just be happy we are back together i just cant stop thinking about it. time will get me over it.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (17 January 2011):
 So the score isn't so even, but you need to remember that you were broke up and is after all a guy with needs. You dated one guy and he slept with 4 women. So what? You guys were broke up. Don't you think if he didn't want to get back together he would be one of those 4 women instead of you right now?
If it really bothers you then you shouldn't have taken him back.
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reader, comeonjesusthishurtstoomuch +, writes (17 January 2011):
I know this is hard to deal with but here goes. In the time you dated the other man for 2 months i'm sure you slept with him over four times. He probably was trying to fulfil his sexual needs, maybe to even put space between relationships to help cope. In short you did the same you wanted him back also ask yourself why and that will be your answer.
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