A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I like my boyfriend a lot, it may not be love but I care about him deeply.I feel he takes me for granted and does not listen to me. All he ever talks about is sex and sometimes I feel annoyed by this. He says 'I need sex' or 'its not fair you haven't had sex with me often enough'.I have become so annoyed by this that i have ended up shouting at him. To quote my own words 'whining like a baby is putting me off'. He was quiet for 20 minuites thinking this was long enough.He says he wants me to suprise him with sex but how can i do that if he's always asking for it? He refuses to be romantic. He also seems to think i'm his own personal maid. He didn't eat breakfast the other day because I didn't make any. Then he spent the whole day saying he was starving hungry. We live in the same house I wasn't hungry so i didn't bother. He just kept saying he was hungry and asking me if i was hungry (so i would cook for him). Sometimes i'm half tempted to let him starve.What do I do? I seems like he thinks I should just be thereto look after him. I have spoken to him about it he paid no attention. He just tells me how brilliant he is. Reply to this Question
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female
reader, soft2020  +, writes (18 January 2011):
 A female reader,soft2020,writes(18 January 2011)
Hi anonymous, It seems as though you had enough of of
trying to please the opposite sex. Yes! stand up girl and
start trying to please yourself I feel ya I just got out of
a similar situation myself, but the only thing I am living
in my own aparment and he's in his own apartment. It was a
reunited after 20 years thing for me that just didn't want
to seem to go right like the saying goes " You can't please everyone." It sounds like to me that no matter what
you do it just never right maybe the problem isn't you.
Maybe it goes back farther than that like when he was a
little boy maybe he was trying hard to please his parents
and constantly was scolded and criticized by them every-
thing he did as a little boy to them was never good enough
his parents was hard to please. The brain holds a lot of
information it is like a tape recorder it never forgets.
May you can get an apartment without him and let him get
and fix his own breastfast and just talk to him on the
phone. Keep in mind that you are not mommy it seems like
he maybe beginning to resent his mom and pops through you in some sort of way. You decide, do what you think is best
for you, you deserve so much more.
Good Luck!
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2011): this guy sounds like a loser my advise would be everytime he moans about sex you leave the house and go and have some fun without him and yes let him go hungy, if he wants food that much he'll either makes it himself or runs home to mummy to cook for him.
this gut does not love you at all he wants a maid and sex slave.
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