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Archived questions from: 11 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is this love or if not what is it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - I have been with my current bf for 6yrs however within one of those yrs i had left em twice. I do love him dearly but im pretty sure im not no where close to being in love w/em like b4. I have confronted em on numberous occasions regarding issues ...

Why do these young, hot, cute girls flirt with my man in front of me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - What tears me apart is when a younger hot or cute girl is openly flirting with my guy when we're both out together. Obviously they see me but that doesn't stop them from doing it. Granted, I see them doing this but he's oblivious to this. Why do ...

I'm begging for a conversation with him, should I go visit him at college and settle this face to face?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5068 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years. I cheated on him in the beginning, but after healing he decided we should stay together and said he knew our love was stronger than ever which I felt too. We went to separate colleges because he was ...

My girlfriend told me I was the best kisser she's ever kissed, when she asked me I told her she wasn't the worst!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

11 January 2011 (M) - The other day my girlfriend and I were together, and we were happy and flirty as usual. Then she brought up that I was the best kisser out of any of the boyfriends she has had. Then she asked how she was, and when I thought about it in my head, I ...

I suspect a student is dating a lecturer, should I report it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - I am a student at university and I think one of my friends is having an affiar with a lecturer. I have asked her and she says she is not but I don't believe her. They are always together around campus and I am sure I have seen them flirting. Like he ...

She is driving me insane! And NOT in a good way! :S

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

11 January 2011 (M) - Alright, Where to begin... I've just been dating this girl for about 2 1/2 months now, but after the first month everything changed... You see I'm currently unemployed and unable to drive due to the drought of money so i cant afford my car ...

How do I stop being clingy and needy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - How should you treat a boyfriend/girlfriend?! Do you treat them like a very close friend? A best friend? Something completely different?! I'm having some problems beeing too clingy and dependent on my boyfriend and I would like to stop but I'm...

I need to know if he wants a child with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - I have been with my guy for going on 2 years. He has a 7 year old son. When we first met I told him I wasn't sure if I ever wanted to be married or have children. But within 3 months I knew that I wanted to be a mom one day. Knowing that he does ...

My boyfriend says really mean things to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - today I got out of the shower and I tried to get dressed and my boyfriend wanted me to come next to him and I Wanted to get ready because I had a d.rs oppitment at 1:00 p.m and he was playing around with his belt and hit me in on my butt I told him ...

My girlfriend broke up with me but she doesn't want to lose me... what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

11 January 2011 (M) - before i left my country to work abroad, the girl of my dreams became my girlfriend. it was tough having a long distance relationship. but somehow on the first few months we managed to cope with the situation. she's been telling me she loves me a ...

My friends say I have to ignore his texts or calls to make him realise what he has lost!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - Ok, i'll try keep this as short as possible. Me and my boyfriend broke up about 5 days ago. We were together happily for eight months solid but 15months on and off. Two months ago, he called up to my house and seen that my ex-boyfriend was here ...

I've lost my sex drive!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - been with my bf for few months,seem 2 have lost my sex drive latley and have he cant seem 2 make me orgasm through sex or forplay. never had problems in the past! also can being too drunk affect an orgasm??...

He is verbally abusive, how do I get him to change his behaviour?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - Hi Whenever my bf gets angry i.e. like when i try to call him when he is at work or when he is busy, he verbally abuses me. He calls me names, if i have known that he is busy i would have never called him in the first place. We discussed a ...

Married but don't love him anymore, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - im eighteen years old and married i love this guy but i dont wanna be with him anymore. when he does something wrong i tell him its really over but he always has someway to make me stay and i do even thought im really unhappy, im torn between the ...

My fiance watches porn on my teenage daughter's computer!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - Is it unreasonable to confront my Fiance on his recent porn watching on my computer that my young teenage daughter uses as well? I am another one who is not thrilled about him watching the porn, but he can do what he wants (I'd rather not know ...

Have I missed the opportunity to resolve this argument?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is on a business trip to Germany for 3 months while I am in the UK. We both took annual leave the week before he left and were supposed to go on holiday but didn’t manage to book anything. So we decided to spend time together where he ...

Drunken mistake or fate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5069 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - Okay so I'm stuck. I got with my ex Tyrone about two and a half years ago. We didn't go to th same school but we made sure we saw eachothrr at least twice a week. We weren't exactly. Comfortable around eachothrr but we really cared for eachothrr. We ...

What does it mean if the doubts have stayed this long?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 3 years and its defiantly not a bad one – I love my bf dearly. However I have been having doubts for over a year and there are problems in the relationship. I have shared my thoughts with him and made effort to try ...

I feel like my heart is encased in ice since she rejected me. I want to go forward

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - Hi I am here to ask how to stop hurting over my ex. We were together for over 5 years. She was nice to me most of the time and said that I was a wonderful person but she did not love me anymore. She said I didn't do anything wrong, but I feel ...

I said it was just a joke? My boyfriend was upset about my remarks on culture

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5069 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - I am in a mixed race and mixed culture relationship. During a discussion with him about my friends’ mixed race and culture relationship I told him that I reassured her by saying that different cultures just come down to differences in music, dancing ...

My friend doesn't simply cancel, he goes silent!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - I have a male friend who I have a purely platonic friendship with. I've known him about 18 months and in that time we have had quite a few arguments. Its always regarding us arranging to meet and him then blowing me out. I appreciate people are busy ...

I can't seem to accept that she likes me and I get depressed when I don't hear from her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

11 January 2011 (M) - I've met this girl who I think likes me. Infact, her actions suggest she certianly does. We've had 3 dates so far, and have talked a lot on msn inbetween. At the end of the third date she invited me for coffee and we held hands walking to her place. ...

After 2 years of dating, he's not ready for a relationship. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - I really don't know what to do I've been with a guy for 2 years now and he still tells me that we not ready for a relationship even though we act like we going out. Should I stay and wait till he comes around or walk away?...

Complicated Relationship Ended With A Complicated Break Up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5070 days ago

11 January 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend had so many problem and arguments in the past. I'm 19 and She's about to be 20, we went out for 3 years. All the fighting caused our love to be replaced by resentment, and don't believe we didn't try because we did a lot. It was ...

Does she cheat on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 January 2011 (M) - I had a difficult relationship for one year. she was always being very rude to me. And she was always with a guy that was her colleague. Then, she broke up with me and went to work in a new school where her colleague was going to work also. A fe...

How do I leave him without feeling guilty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - Hello Cupid, Well I have been with my guy since 1998 and now we are 32 with a 10 year old daughter. The issue I have is I have grown apart from him, I stay with him because I feel I have too but in reality nothing is really holding me... I'...

Should I ask my boyfriend to the Sadie Hawkins dance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - Okay I have a few questions. The Sadie Hawkins Dance is soon. I have a boyfriend of 1 month, I should probably ask him correct? If I don't ask him, what do you think that would mean? If I do ask him would I have to dance with him the entire tim...

How do I deal with my boyfriend's overactive child?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - I love my boyfriend, I always have, since we were in highschool I just never got the chance to be with him, until now (10 years later). He has a 5 year old son (with his exgirlfriend) who is completely overactive. They broke up just after he was ...