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Archived questions from: 20 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why did he give me an engagement ring but he can't marry me? We broke up because of this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I've been seening a wonderful man for over 3 years. We were engaged briefly last year but he just couldn't commit. I was very confused last Christmas because I decided to accept that we were never going to marry and told him so, he seemed really ...

I'm like a ticking time bomb ready to explode!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I'm having a problem with getting VERY annoyed over dumb little problems and causing a fight, its as though I can't let things "slide" and like I am a ticking time bomb waiting to explode and its really taking a toll on my relationship, what's ...

How do I explain to my friend's wife that we are just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5060 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - ok this may sound a bit weird but here goes. i have this guy friend who ive known for ages and he is married with 2 kids, he has currently been seperated from his wife 4 a year so far and even before that they had this on off relationship they wou...

I only seem to be able to talk to guys I'm not attracted to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5060 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I'm 16 going on 17 and ive allways suffered from a huge lack in self confidence. my low self asteem holds me back in almost everything which i would apprciate advice on; but the actual reason im on this forum is because ive never been in a serious ...

How can I turn this back into a "chase"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - How can I turn this back into a "chase"? Lately my boyfriend has gotten a little bit too into the routine of things. He's a party animal, he loves to go out and socialize with other people, he's not a big fan of 1-on-1 time, however he doesn...

How can I bring my boyfriend to my parent's messy home?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - hi! I am a senior in college, and I love my parents, but I cant stand to go home myself. The house is extremely dirty. They say the excuse of working 7 days a week, but I cant stand it. I dated my last boyfriend for 7 years, and he never cared. But ...

Why is he still here, is it to make my life more difficult?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - [Mod note: 2 questions combined by poster.] Q2. my boyfriend and i always fight, an i'm sick and tired of it. i hates when he restricts me ... ime not allowed to do anything. but he gets to do anything he wants. and whenn i say its unfair, he just ...

Online sex dating sites, should I be worried my boyfriend is on it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I want to know if I should be worried that my BF of 1.5yrs is on an online sex dating site? He has a "standard" account so he can't send emails to women, only send "winks" or add them to his "hotlist". Why do guys feel it necessary to be on online ...

Younger woman said she loved me, but now that she's single, she is avoiding me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

20 January 2011 (M) - Ok, I met a girl about 6 months ago at her work, and when i walked out the door to leave her manager came outside to tell me that this girl said that I was going to be her husband one day. Well after about a week or so me and this girl exchanged ...

Our relationship just isnt right. The little spark that should be there just isn't

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

20 January 2011 (M) - Hi all, I'm in need of some help because my feelings are so messed up I dont know which way to turn. I have been in a relationship for just over 2 years with a lovely girl who treats me really well and is head over heels in love with me. The rel...

Is he the guy or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I love this guy that i'm wondering about.i'm wondering if he is guy or not. we have been seeing each other for about 4 yrs. I meet him at a gas station it was close to christmas time. He bought me underwear, bras,short skirts, I thought of it very ...

I'm insecure and I don't feel beautiful to him. Should I persist trying to make it work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend who I have been on and off for 4 years with, recently got back together with me. He wanted back in. However, I'm finding it hard to be with him because of my own insecurities. He hates make up but I have some acne scars that I'm really ...

I am hooked on this mystery with a very private man!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I have not been so out of wits in relationships...this man totally confuses me to the extent that i have no idea if he is using me, or lying to me, or he is so into me that he worries and withdraws.... we met on line and were attracted to eac...

Was I wrong as I was not behaving professionally?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I recently had a stomach infection. When I went to see my doctor, who knows my family very well, advised me to be hospitalized. He used to check my whole abdomen daily in the hospital and I never felt shied from him. He was also very friendly with ...

Is my friend out of order or am I too sensitive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5060 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I’ve been having some issues with my boyfriend of nearly four years and so has my friend.. I tell her most things but recently she doesn’t tell me much at all. She goes on like her relationship is so perfect now. He cheated on her, she forgave...

I lost my girlfriend and my baby boy because of World of Warcraft!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

20 January 2011 (M) - hi could someone help me, my life is a mess because of WOW - i lost my gf and my baby boy.. i never use to be like this i changed a lot .. all this started 3 years ago my life was fine i used to go out do everything work a lot like 13 hours a day ...

Is he just using me or is he actually struggling with his decision to break up with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - Hello All, I am in need of some serious advice. My boyfriend recently broke up with me and I was totally blindsided. He said things were moving too fast and that he didn't think he could love me the way he should. He was emotional and even got tear...

I want to pull back, but he'll just think I'm busy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - Hi, so I asked this question before but didn't get any responses. I'm thinking maybe the one I asked before was too complex - like 3 problems in one - and I should just handle one at a time. My problem is this: I feel my boyfriend (of a ...

I just want to be happy together and not feel alone and sad all the time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5060 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and just had a baby 7 weeks ago. We have had some times apart since our relationship started andI spent most of the pregnancy alone. He moved out days before I found out I was pregnant and decided ...

How do I get over him if he is everywhere I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I dated this guy that was a lot older than me and he left/cheated on me for another girl. It was horrible and took me a long time and a lot of emotions to finally get over him. He did apologize multiple times to me and told me that it was our age ...

AmI just over -reacting or is something wrong here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I am interested in this guy....he was a very close friend of mine. A few months ago ; when both of us were a bit tipsy , we kissed. Then a week later, we met again and we just couldn't keep our hands off each other. We stay in different cities...

Should I hang around and support him or is it time for me to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - So I have gotten myself into a real mess and I do realise it. I have been dating a guy that lives in a different country, for several months. He has made several references to getting married, as well as asked directly. The problem is he has ...

He's with me, says he loves me, but he isn't happy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5060 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - okay so im 4 months pregnant. and my boyfriend and i had a little break up like 1 and a half ago and we worked things out. but he said he only did it because my mom asked him too but she didnt she told him that if he wanted to work things out with ...

My boyfriend has complex relationships with all three of his ex girlfriends, and I don't know what to make of this situation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend stays very close with at least three of his ex-girlfriends. We met over a year ago and got close through email, etc while he was out of the country. During that time, he had a girlfriend that he told me was basically on the outs with ...

What should I do with a man who states that all he needs in life is his children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I met a divorced man about 10 months ago. We have been talking and seeing each other on and off over the last 8 months. We have become intimate and enjoy each others company when we are able to meet. Recently, he mentioned that he didn't want me ...