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Archived questions from: 7 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Can this relationship be saved or are the problems just too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - I'm 22, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we have a twoa-year-old son. My boyfriend is a wonderful daddy..I seriously think he's the best dad in the world! Everything is 50/50 with us and we work as a team. He also adores me and I know he ...

I've just given up caring that boyfriend doesn't treat me right

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7 January 2011 (F) - My bf hasnt always treated me right. And as a result I became very insecure for 2 whole years. But suddenly I woke up and I felt I didn't care. Not about him, I still love him. But I feel like I've just given up caring. I don't know what's changed ...

He doesn't want to hang out or hold my hand!

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7 January 2011 (F) - Well. I have been dating this boy for almost 2 months. I really like him, and I *Know* he feels the same, but it bugs me that we never hang out. Although he did invite me to a party saturday. Should I go? I see him once durring the day (at schoo) ...

Why is my boyfriend pulling away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - Lately my boyfriend has acted... Strangely. Usually, we text everyday and talk all the time at school. He used to walk with me home, but he's ditched me the las few days... I may be over reacting, but I'm not quite sure... He no longer hangs out ...

He wants to improve our relationship but spends no time with our daughter

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7 January 2011 (F) - My daughter's father is working on improving our relationship, but he will not spend time with or keep our daughter while I'm at school or work. Help?...

I said the wrong thing now he's ignoring me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - Said the wrong the thing and now he is ignoring me? I met this man 8 weeks ago. we were seeing one another 3 nights a week going good having fun enjoying one anothers company. Then suddenly I accused him of seeing someone and he assured me he wasn'...

Just because we had a foursome with my boyfriend's best friend, doesn't give him the right to kiss me!

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7 January 2011 (F) - Hi everyone so my boyfriend and i have been pretty much a foursome with this other couple since we started dating. my boyfirend has been best friends with this guy since we started dating and i work with him, so through him ive become really g...

Is this boy just a flirt?

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7 January 2011 (F) - right so there is this boy who is a year older than me at school. Me, him and some friends in his year walk home together. Right so here is the thing. For a while now when we meet he and he gives me a really long tight hug (and only me :P), and when...

I want this relationship to work so badly but because of the distance we cant see each other! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

7 January 2011 (M) - I have a problem. I alaways find girls i like and that like me. This time i found one i auctally see myself obsessing about her. I have extreame feelings for her more than any person i have ever met. These feelings i didnt even know quite what was...

Am I in the wrong here? Should I ignore this 'incident' even though she was acting weird?

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7 January 2011 (M) - Me and my had a fight over my concern of her having an emotion affair. We really had good talk and things come to normal for a couple of weeks. But on the christmas eve night she went to church. I called her at 12:00pm and she said they just ...

I lost my virginity to a married man and now his wife is coming back from travelling to work in the same company!

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7 January 2011 (F) - he is married with kids but the wife is traveled.am not too sure of my feelings for him,i lost my virginity to this man.my problem is i work for the man and his wife will return soon and will also work in the same company...

Past experience is spoiling my new relationship, am I right to worry?

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7 January 2011 (F) - Can someone tell me how to get over my insecurities about being played. I have just entered a relationship with a guy I've been nuts about for a long time. He says he has about me too. The relationship has been going to happen for a while, an...

He knows that he has my heart but I am not sure I have his.....

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7 January 2011 (F) - so this is kinda long sorry. sometimes i write letters to my boyfriend that i just keep as a way to get my feelings out. even though sometimes i don't intend for them to really be read by him. well i wrote a letter and put my son to bed and fell ...

I don't want kids but my husband does......

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7 January 2011 (F) - my husband and i have been married for 5 years and we've been together for a total of 10 years.We've made it this far and relationship has been great in every way except that since the last 1 year he has been telling me that he is interested in ...

Should I press him to talk more? Should I confront him about the other girl`s pictures? Is it worth it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - Hello. I have a problem, but I`m not sure if I can explain it. I`ll try. I`ve been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. From the beginning, I had a feeling he`s somehow closed to me. I didn`t know anything about his life, family, friends, except ...

The pain of mistrust

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7 January 2011 (F) - I really love my girlfriend and i don't play games or double date, in fact i hate it. There is hardly a thing about me that my girlfriend does not know. Every day of our life, i always tell her how special she is to me and how much i TRULY LOVE her. ...

What should I do with a boyfriend who is so loving and supportive that I can't reciprocate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - I am in a ridiculous predicament - my boyfriend is a wonderful guy to me, he will do anything to please me. Of course he has his negatives (as does everyone) but he is just so caring, supportive and loving to me... yet I just can't reciprocate. I ...

Every time I start to get over her past, something new pops up!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

7 January 2011 (M) - I have been in a relationship for aprox 10 months and I'm having trouble getting over my girlfriends past. When we first started dating one time after sex we were lying in bed and she started in on the "what's the craziest sexual thing you have ...

Since we got engaged he is getting more and more mean, and refuses to seek help for his anger problems. Help!

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7 January 2011 (F) - Hello, I've been dating my guy for two and a half years. We got engaged around our two year anniversary and have set a wedding date. Since the moment we have gotten engaged he has been progressively more mean. We have had fights before, he would...

My friends are trying to convince me the age gap is a problem

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

7 January 2011 (?) - I'm 20 and my current boyfriend is 33, we've been together for 10 months or so. We met via work (we play pro badminton) and I used to play mixed doubles for a little while before we got together, which is where we initially got to know each other. (...

Its the old triangle thing all over again.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - Any opinions or help will be appreciated :) My best friend liked a mutual friend of ours (lets call him 'J') and they kind of had something going for like a week but it fizzled out when she started going out with someone else (lets call this one...

He touches himself and then denies it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend knows about my 1st relationship and how screwed up it made me especially being so young and finding my bf/baby daddy watching porn and jacking off instead of getting it from me.there were other sexual traumas but this alone affected me ...

My husband has lots of female friends and ex lovers whom he is in touch with...and it makes me very uncomfortable

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7 January 2011 (F) - My husband is a very popular man and has lots of female friends and ex lovers. I knew all about these women before I married him but since then have begun to hate his contact with these people especially his ex flames. He says that I am insecure and ...

Is he cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a bit now, but i've found that our sex life has taken a downfall. we only have sex once every 2 to 3 weeks and his penis is always dirty. His excuse is that he masterbates in the shower and didn'...

What does he get from being with them rather than our son and me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - Been with my spouse for 5 years now, but he has cheated in the past. However the past year he has been the worst to me and put me through an extreme amount of hurt. He cheated twice this year but not just gone and slept with some one he's left our ...

Shall we report her anonymously or hope she will stop being a bully?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - Morning all. Please advise on the following.... Our team leader at work has been promoted to assistant manager and the power has gone slightly to her head. She talks down to us and is quite rude with her comments. For example 1 girl on the ...

Why did he have to be so graphic about this woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - I sometimes work on the holidays, during school vacation...so... I knew this guy for about two years. We are kinda close but I only would like us to be friends and nothing more. We would talk about many topics: marriage, sex, life...in...

How can you be in a relationship without someone getting hurt? Or is this just part of the deal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - i've only been with two people. the first one last fall...well, i met him online and we hung out a few times and i wasn't even interested in him... i liked him in a friendly way - he was fun and funny company - but i knew in my heart that i was only ...

I can't love my boyfriend at the moment because I don't make enough money right now

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7 January 2011 (F) - Yeah, about a month ago I became self employed, so I am going to struggle financially at first, and it will take me time to get very well known. I run my own tattoo parlor. I'm at the pivotal moment at struggling to meet all my overhead. I cannot ...

My girlfriend of two years suddenly wants to break up

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7 January 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating two years and now she wants a break up and doesnt want to be with me all of a sudden. i do not know what to do. i have been through so much. i do not know what i did. i think it might be because i am too jeal...

Can I trust a woman who had an affair with her best friend's husband?

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7 January 2011 (M) - Can i trust a woman who has had a 3 year affair with her best friends husband? My previous post explained that my GF was off to Mexico with friends for Xmas. My concerns were that on the night before her departure she called me by another guy's na...

He wants children but has said he would rather have our relationship without kids than no relationship at all. Will this cause problems in the future?

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7 January 2011 (F) - Hi I am at a crisis point with my boyfriend. I am 38 (very soon 39) and he is 34. I have never been particularly interested in having children - not like many women who feel the desire to be a mother very strongly. I have been seeing my boyfriend ...

I'm in shock over him joining the navy! How should I handle this?

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7 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 years is joining the navy, he told me about a week ago and I'm shocked I know its a good thing and I'm not against it! I just don't know what to say? He wants my opinion on how i feel about it but I'm just in shock he had never ...

Should I break up with her over this? She is texting lots of other guys and refuses to stop

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7 January 2011 (M) - ok my girlfriend and i went on christmas break for school and as we go to the same school we texted each other and seen each other over the break some and we were both happy and stuff till christmas day. on that day we were talking as usual and she ...

She has a boyfriend, me and now a new guy in her life! I don't want to be taken for granted.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5058 days ago

7 January 2011 (M) - ok so i have been attached to this girl for a while and we have been talking regularly since a month. though i know that she acts bitchy sometimes but she has portrayed her image as a very caring and concerned person about our relationship in a ...

I am pushing him away by bringing these issues from my divorce into my new relationship....how do I stop?

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7 January 2011 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for 8 weeks going great we are having fun etc. But I am also at the end of a divorce and I have so many issues I am dealing with. I TRY not to bother my new friend with them. We never talk about my situation. But as of ...

I froze him out and I feel bad about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

7 January 2011 (?) - Recently I stopped talking to an old coworker. I'm not exactly sure why I did it either. We were both laid off on the same day from the same company. When we worked together before, we were work mates and friendly. He would confide in me about his ...

My BF, my daughter, my secret lover, his pregnant wife...my life is a mess of lies and I'm miserable

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 years. We were just kids when we got together. Our relationship has had it's ups and downs and for a while my boyfriend treated me like complete garbage. We ended up splitting up for a few months. When we got ...

Do I give up on the best guy I've ever met or do I hope that things will get better?

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7 January 2011 (F) - Dear cupid, I am becoming hopless and miserable.. I've been with my exboyfriend for almost 3 years fell in love during my last year of highschool. He was a prince charming I didnt believe men exisited like him Ive still never met a guy like h...

He's bottling up his emotions after his friend's death.

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7 January 2011 (F) - Hey guys. Um, my boyfriend and I have been in a real rough place lately. We've been together since freshman year (now we're juniors in HS) and everything's always been pretty great. About 5 months ago, one our really good friends unexpectedly died. ...

I'm thinking he should have left that secret in the past.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a long time and he just told me something my friends have probably known all along about him. He told me something about his past that made him a loser for most of his life and that was absolutely disgusting. I ...