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Archived questions from: 1 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He just got a new girlfriend--how do I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. my ex broke up with me 2 months ago after 2 years together i was devastated.So last night i was at a party in my friends boyfriends house and he was there.I saw him with a girl all night long and they were talking and laughing.At about ...

Why is my boyfriend ignoring me?

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1 January 2011 (F) - I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 16 we've been together for nearly 7 months now. I love him and he claims to love me too. I live about 1 hour 30 mins away from him so it is hard but I see he every two weeks which is good cos we have school and all of ...

Should I tolerate this madness or just call it quits?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

1 January 2011 (M) - Help me. my girlfriend and I have been having so many problems. for one she had a lot of guy friends that flirted w/her on her facebook "that picture can bring a man to his knees" "I miss you, love you punkass" "those eyes I never get to see" etc ...

Are we over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - Have been with my bf for 8 years, engaged for 2 of them. Last month he said that we were having problems and had been for some time. Wanted to work it out but really shows no interest in doing this. I loved him but now I am thinking it's time to ...

Nothing ever works for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

1 January 2011 (M) - Nothing ever works for me. I know I have issues, as I've known for quite some time. I always mess up every relationship, yes, it's always my fault. I'm 26 at this point and I don't see things improving anytime sooner. I fall for people easily ...

Does this mean we're through?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - I was seeing a guy only for a couple weeks. Only had a couple dates. Well last night I texted him cause i wanted to hangout and he was just a jerk, and he has been from the dates. I started getting mad, then i showed up at his house for him to not ...

I kissed another guy while I was drunk!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years now and sometime lately i'v had a crush on one of my guy friends. on night we were at a party and right from the start i felt like kissing him ..after a few drinks my guy friend told me he wanted t...

Do nice girls really finish last?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - What do guys think of nice girls?? I was just in an emotionally abusive relationship and ppl told me that it was not worth it to be nice all the time? Do men find playing hard to get and bitches attractive?? I mean I believe in being honest and ...

It's like he wants to be close, and then he doesn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

1 January 2011 (?) - I am so lost. I have been dating this guy for about two months, and everything was going great at first up until about two weeks ago-right around Christmas, and now New Year's it's over before it even began. We were never exclusive yet, and last ...

I don't see why she doesn't feel for me the way she used to!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

1 January 2011 (M) - my girlfriend and I had a talk the other night and she said that she doesn't feel the same way she used to for me. I don't know what to do. I don't see why she doesn't feel for me the way she used to. I mean things used to be great between us, and ...

Boyfriend is not ashamed of being nude in front of others...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - Last night, we had around 20 people over for a New Years party, and I was trying to fall asleep a little later in the night. I was nearly asleep when someone ran to the bathroom (which is right outside of my room) to inform his girlfriend that my ...

What should I do? She is my best friend and now I have these feelings I've never had for anyone for her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

1 January 2011 (M) - Hello Hi guys ive come to ask a question about this girl she my best friend and we do everything together i mean im 13 and get bullied at home and school and she's the only comfort i have my face has tiny scar just bellow my check bone after my dr...

Why am I like this with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - Can anyone tell me what my problem is?? I am with who I think is a lovely guy but at the moment I am angry with him and I don't want to see him tonight...why? I have been with him 7 months this month,I am a very insecure person due to my two ...

Why does he keep mentioning her? Does he really like me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - i have had feelings for this guy since we met 4 and half years ago. soon after fell in love with him. we didnt really keep in touch mouch and something alwyas connected us. about 2 years ago we started working together and now we are best friends. ...

His dad read our MSN conversations and stopped him from seeing me...and its pretty much over now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - About a month ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and two months. I still love him, and he says he still loves me. It's all very confusing. Basically, his Dad installed a tracking device on his laptop, and read through our MSN conversa...

How to start a new phase of life after betrayal by my boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - i loved one person very much. we wanted to get married but due to family reasons i got married to some one else. after my marriage . i divorced my husband to marry my boyfriend as he had promised me that once i divorce my husband , my boy friend ...

I don't trust him! I'm so afraid my boyfriend will cheat on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - I have a big problem with in me emotionally and mentally. I am so insecure,jealous, or so afraid my boyfriend will cheat me. whenever i am on relationship and if i know he is in love with me, i start to investigate, asking so many questions and ...

He says I'm being unreasonable because I want to see him

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - It's New Years Day. My mother is in hospital after suffering a massive stroke three weeks ago. I have had little/no support from my partner since this happened to my mother. I phone him, I talk, repeating the details of my day, he listens ...

I love him but he's always lying!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - Hey guys, So me and my boyfriend of 1yr 8 months broke up in november. The last 3 months of our relationship was a LDR because the army moved his family 4 hours away. He was my soulmate, he understood me, made me laugh and smile. I loved him so m...

She is all over me one second and then the next shes not. and her ex boyfriend always gets in the way. what should I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

1 January 2011 (M) - im so confused. is she messing with my head or is it just me ?? so basicly i met this girl in my music class at college. we didnt really speak to each other at all at the beginning then we were put in a group together and tbh we still didnt really ...

I've been love sick for 14 months should I crash the wedding?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

1 January 2011 (M) - How do I get myself out of the dumps of my gloating selfpity for passing the love of my life by? This is doomsday for me but the wedding day for her? Should I crash the wedding and vow my love to her to be my wife. It's been 14 mos that I was a ...

Why didn't she tell me she was married??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - I don't know what I should do about news I got last night about my partner. We've been together for just over 1 year. SHE'S MARRIED TO A MAN AND LIVING WITH HIM! This explains a lot of odd incidents. Where and how do I handle this mind fck Newyears ...

I'm confused and distraught at my uncertain situation. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

1 January 2011 (M) - hi; i now have no where else to go but get a strict answer from dearcupid. i was searching for a simple resolution to my love problem. i read several questions but none of that defines my problem. ok first of, i'll write all of the story. i c...

I'm hurting because I don't know where my relationship with my GF is going.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

1 January 2011 (M) - i've been with my gf for a whole three years and i've had the time of my life. but she gets defensive if i even say his name . she talks to other guys and hugs them and when i ask to see her phone, she changes the subject. i've had a lot ...

We've been engaged for 8 years! Why does she keep putting the wedding off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

1 January 2011 (M) - I have been engaged to my girlfriend for around 8 years and dating for some more. She always says: next year, this is the year, in few months and finally once again next year. Also gives excuses to delay it, you name them. If I ask her about her ...

I'm married, also have BF who's going to leave his GF and I'm possibly pregnant plus I'm in a panic. Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a man who is 14 years older than me for 10 years. I got with him when I was 17. We had a lot of problems through the relationship, however, we kept going. I couldn't get pregnant, and it took 3 years of trying ...

Mother in law's gifts always make me feel extremely bad

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - My mother-in-law keeps buying me gift vouchers for a certain shop which is known as an plus size shop and also as the old woman(granny)shop. She has been doing this now for 5 yrs, birthdays and xmas. I am overweight size 16-18 but i have had some ...

My boyfriend cheated on me with another women. Now I think I have a STD. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - my b/f recently cheated on me with another woman. Yet we have had unprotected sex two times since he cheated. The last time was the day before my period came. Now my period is finished and my vagina feels different. He didn't tell me until like ...

How can I fix those missing feelings and get them back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - So my problem is, I cheated on my boyfriend and now have no want to be around him or be intimate with him. My feelings for him, well I don't know if they've changed, but I know I still love him. I've been trying to to dump him because it hurts too ...

Online relationship is difficult because she's very protective of herself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

1 January 2011 (M) - Alright, I have a very strange situation here. I'm in a long distance relationship (Haven't met in person yet, but yes, she definitely is who she says she is) with a girl 3 years younger than me. I'm 18, she's 15. She's very mature for her a...