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Dating: Help and advice

I finish her, but she never makes sure to finish me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend never finishes me off. I love her very much, but i find that her lack of sexual interest pushes part of me away. I have tried talking to her about it straight forwardly, and tried to insinuate it by making her feel sexy by praising ...

Is it over? Have I been played?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am so confused. I met a nice guy online, I live in UK and he lives in Norway. We started chatting for a few days, all seemed to be going well, so I suggested a phone call, which also went well. We spoke for about an hour, and seemed ...

Threesome gone bad...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - i just had a threesome with my boyfriend and another female that i have known and now i feel like all the attention was on that girl and i dont know if i still wanna be with him... the threesome was his idea and i feel like maybe it wasnt a ...

I finished with him yet I can't seem to move on... help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - I keep tryin to move on but i can't.. I'm always thinking about him no matter who i am with. And i was the one who let him go... How do i cope? I need help.....

Why would a guy not want to do it with his girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - I'm a little confused by the problem because in most cases a girl cuts her boyfriend off of sex, but in my case my boyfriend cuts me off! sometimes its for a few nites but there has been times where I'd only get it maybe once a month if I'm lucky. ...

Will he lose interest if I don't let him see me naked?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - This is really personal.. Ok, so im like really shy about my body. I'm pretty with a petite figure but when i take my clothes off i feel ugly. I feel like im driving my boyfriend crazy, i wont have sex and the lite nor n my life has anyone but my ...

I'm debating on dumping her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - I'll try to keep this short for you. I'm debating on whether i should dump my girlfriend or not. We've been dating for five months, We're juniors in highschool. I really like her alot, but our relationship has flaws i just cant ignore anymore. ...

Why didn't boyfriend cum?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - I gave my boyfriend a blowjob for the first time last night, and he didn't cum/finish. i was doing it for about 10-15 minutes and i didn't really feel like i was getting anywhere so i stopped. except i did a lot of like "research" online before we...

Cant believe he said this to me!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Well we have been together 7 months and if im honest things have gone pretty slow and i feel sometimes like hes not after anything serious. I put a guard up and sometimes act like the tough girl who's not bothered but i do really care (i guess im ...

I feel like I'm risking so much by staying this relationship...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - hey all, well just about half hour ago, my boyfriend of almost 5 yrs told me the same thing. we are both 23 btw. he told me that its like a stressful "need" for him to go with other women. he says this crying as if he's guilty 4 feeling this way, ...

I need more ideas for kinky sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, me and my boyfriend having being going out about 2 months but have been seeing each other for over 2 years. He is slightly older and we like that whole dominant submissive kinky thing and seem as we seem to have tried almost everything ...

He's choosing the wrong friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Any help would be so greatly appreciated! Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about three and a half years and we went to college together, graduated together, and now I am working and he is in law school. We barely get to see each other s...

How to cope with a possible bad decision to end the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - I dated this girl for about 4 months not long I know we are both in college we broke up obviously I dated other girls and what not and I was happy, plus I cheated on her. Yes it was wrong and yes I felt like shit after. Anyways, we end up getting ...

If he was interested in me he wouldn't be falling asleep, would he?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - I'm not very good at picking up on social cues and I have absolutely no sense as to whether this guy likes me or no. I went on a date on the Friday night with a guy I met through a friend. We had been out the Saturday night the weekend before b...

So... is it true???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - We have been brpoken up for four months now... any chance that we could get back together? Does it happen that people who were in a very long relationship get bored and need to break off and get back with the person they do and is it truth that on...

Has she got a sixth sense or something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - Hey all. Am in a relationship with my girlfriend for over 2 years now. Its been hard since its a long distance relationship and we're both at colleges. Bt we've managed so far. Is it possible 2 end up together later in life? Coz thats what she and i ...

What can we do about his jealousy problems stemming from his past relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend's marriage ended due to his wife cheating. His next 2 girlfriends also cheated on him. Now in our relationship, I can not go out with my friends or visit my son who works as a bartender without it starting verbal fights. If I look too ...

Lost virginity?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend fingered me hard by inserting 3 fingers into my vagina. Then the very next day I found brown stains on my panties. Have I lost my virginity already?...

Insecurities about my dick!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - My penis is just shy of 6 inches long and 4.75 inches around - my girlfriend had a larger than average pussy - I can get 4 fingers in her when wet easily and she says she has had larger dicks than mine before - she reckons 7/7.5 inches long and ...

Having sex with him, but what if he's not the one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend loves me a lot, we have been dating 3 months. He wants to have sex. Despite everything i'm still not ready to have sex with him. I don't know what the problem is. My question is what if I have sex with him and he's not the one?...

I refuse to be with someone who would be into that stuff!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Ok so im dating a guy for about 3 months now. I moved with him and everythng seems fine. Except one thing. We got a computer from his friend and downloaded limewire. A few times i caught him downloading porn. I didnt make a deal about it. But then ...

Dating for 2 years and living together - No sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - Reading on other questions which are similar, people come with the religious responses. Trust me, I understand where she is coming from. The religious responses aren't going to help me. So here's the situation. I've been dating the same girl fo...

Am I wrong for wanting to meet his family???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for two and a half years. He is Italian. I am American. He does not have as close of a relationship with his family as I have with mine and given that he's going through a bought of unemployment (which is unacceptable to ...

Break up or make up again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Well a four days ago I found out my boyfriend had a face book without telling me and so I wait to see if he tells me and he still doesn't so the next day I stayed home it was a friday night and I went to bed early because my mom is in the hospital ...

I like him but I'm not sure whether I really love him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - I like him but I'm not sure whether I really love him. maybe i do... but the fact that his family background aint that good that my mother will get me married to him makes me think again whether ive made the right choice. I've got plenty of time ...

Long Distance has killed my relationship... help me get him back!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - So, I've been with my boyfriend, for about 11 months. He lives 70 miles away, about an hour and a half in up the motorway!! He has two jobs - a full time 8-5 weekday job, and does shifts in a bar over the weekend! We were going along quite nicely, ...

Sick of sleeping on the couch without sex or intimacy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - I have living with a man for apprx 6 months now. He never seems to want to have sex, maybe once every 2 weeks. He was never any different but I had thought that in the beginning it was because he was a bit shy and insecure. But after so long that ...

Guy actually got beter when I took him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Ok so ive been with my boyfriend almost a year now and its been up and down. When we first got together it seemed like i was chasing someone out of my leaugue but he did things for me that let me know he was interested. We moved 2 hours away to a ...

I'm having some red flags about this relationship now. What do you guys think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - I am in a relationship with a man for 5 months now, we were friends for 2 months before that, so weve known each other more like 7 months... we get along good, and when i met him I thought i not be with another man again, because my ex-fiancee ab...

Uni... or boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - I have recently started at university which is about 1 hour 30 mins away from my boyfriend and were both finding it quite hard. He is now starting to question if he can handle a long distance relationship. I love him so much and im torn because i ...

What he did hurt me now I don't know what to do and can't talk to my friends about it. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - I'm really confused now. I just found out that my boyfriend has been talking to some men on the internet about wanted to experiencing being with another man. Okay i can say that i understand him a bit, because i have always been curious about how it ...

Heck, she won't have sex with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - So iv'e been dating my girlfriend for 3 months now and we totally accept each other and we are totally open with each other, we really really like each other. The thing is it's been 3 months and she still is acting a bit strange about having sex ...

A choice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - I have been in a long term relationship with John for 4 years. We have had a lot of ups and downs throughout this time and many guys have liked me and tried to get me to leave him, but i always stayed. I feel as if John and I have nothing in ...

Despondent in love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Am so tired of all this, i feel like crying, i have never been lucky with guys and can't find any reason why. ok am 18, tall, slim and fair in complexion, people say am pretty so why do the guys i like not seem attracted to me and the two guys that ...

What should I do if I'm falling for an unhappy married man that I truly care about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - I live in LA. I met this guy that is married he says hes not happy. We met at a karaoke bar. he was really honest told me he was married with 3 kids two are adults one is 14. i am 24 and he is 35. he is a very nice respectful guy. we talk ...

Is he playing hard to get and why hasn't he returned my call?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - okay my ex broke up with me over the summer and i was heartbroken but we've been talking to each other, in fact i know more about him in the last two months than in the last months months of his relationship. now i told him if he starts to see other ...

Help! I feel I'm stuck in the middle...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Ok, so my husband passed away about 2 years ago, and I have been seeing this guy now for over a year. We had our ups and downs. I think mainly because I wasn't ready at first. But he truly cared for me and stayed with me through my grieving process. ...

Should I give up on tough love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - im so in love with a girl i told her how i feel about her,but she is giving me a hard time the thing is that she tells me that she wanna know if she is trully commiting her self to a right guy,she first wanna feel the same as i do feel about her but ...

Comunication Breakdown

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - i have posted her before and was happy with the mature responses i got so im back for some advice and opinion. my on and off girlfriend have had some huge communication issues. I am a talker and she is not. i am dealing with the fact that she had ...

I believe he was my soulmate, and now cant get over him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - I want to know if a guy I dated was my soulmate, and if so how to do I get over him? So my sophomore year of high school I had a class with this guy... and immediately felt a connection. We both wanted to take it slow and not rush into things, ...

Do I really want her, or am I just feeling sorry for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - Hello, I met this girl in my second week at university. She sat beside me, and I talked to her. She was basically the first girl to ever positively respond to me, and she even facilitated the conversations, which was a wholly new situation for me...

She's just not that type of girl at all...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - hello guys, i really need every single bit of advice and feedback from you guys. I've been with my LDR gf for 2 years, we knew each other for over 5 years but we just got back together after i went abroad for studies, so i never even had the ...

I am a bit jittery about being intimate!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Hi Aunts, This might be a long one -here's some b/ground info - I've been going out with my boyfriend for just about a year now. A while ago I had an incident where some guy basically felt me up while i was asleep - it kind of left me a bit jitt...

My boyfriend is more focussed on his sister in law than our wedding plans

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Hey.. I am 19 yrs old girl, having trouble in understanding my bf whom i am dating from almost 2 yrs. He was my best friend and now bf. Things were cool before but now i feel he has changed. We were talking yesterday about our wedding plans when sud...

My boyfriend thinks I don't understand so he wont talk to me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend thinks i dont understand so he wont tell me whats been bothering him what should i do ?...

Would him showing his friends naked pics of me be a deal breaker?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

17 October 2010 (?) - I just found out my boyfriend of 2yrs showed a bunch of his friends and co-workers pictures of my breasts that he and I took during our first year of dating. I don't know at what point he showed these pictures--possibly during a big fight...or ...

My boyfriend feels my problems shouldn't affect him in any way

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Iv been a bit depressed lately,because my family is going through a crisis, and iv been feeling very low, my PhD work is all stacked up..i have so much to do and i dont even know where to start from, and to top it all, I have a clingy boyfriend (Im ...

I am 21 and not married yet but can see lots of problems ahead

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 21-years-old and we've been together for 5 years. We have a precious two-year-old son together...but I don't think I'd still be with him if we didn't have a kid. We've been talking about marriage since we first got tog...

How can I pick myself up and stop feeling so down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - How can i pick myself up and stop feeling so down? I am 21 and a half years old and I have no reason to feel unhappy, I have a great family, good friends, and a caring loving boyfriend. I have my whole life ahead of me but i find myself just f...

After a rocky start I have told her I am fine with being just friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - Ok im a male and 24 and this girl is 21. I dont know if this helps anything but I havent had alot of relationships with girls. so sometime I dont know how to act around them like when to make moves or stuff. Im a good looking guy so ive been told ...

I am sick of being single, but too shy to ask guys out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Im really sick of being single. And Im shy and never been good around men. I dont wanna ask them out and then have them have a girlfreind or soemthign. It makes me really normal. what do you think that I should do...

On again off again for five years but I can't let him go

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - dear cupid my ex and i have been on and off for five years. everytime he is the one that breaks up with me, but we always get back together with in a year or two. Both of us have been with others, him more than me, but i always compare other gu...

I've developed feelings for a man that's still in prison!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - I'm 21 years old and the daughter of an Alabama all-men prison's warden. I'm a junior in college studying to be a psychiatrist for prison inmates. For the last two months, I've been working with a 23 year old white male accused of raping an 18 yea...

I can't attract the right type of woman

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - Hi, I am a 30-year old male who is single after a 4-year relationship that ended 6 months ago. I have been trying hard to get back on the dating scene with no success. I am not sure what the reasons are but I can't seem to attract women or shall I ...

Why is his ex still hanging around him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Agony aunts and uncles, I just don't know what to do. My boyfriend and I have been together about three months now and are very much in love. We were both out of extremely long relationships (mine lasting six years and his lasting four) before we ...

I lied about being sexually experienced, and now worry I will disappoint

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - hello everyone, Ive got myself in this somewhat awkward situation. First of all im a 19 year old male, and still virgin. A few weeks ago I met this Girl and I really like her, we get along quite well. We went out for 2-3 dates and always had...