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Archived questions from: 5 October, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I have to change my life... help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

5 October 2010 (M) - hi ive been having an affair for 14 years with a married woman, she has got two children and her husband is a good man who treats her good, but I'm still having this affair and i love her deeply, she says she loves me but she still flirts a lot and ...

How do you KNOW if it's love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - How do you know if its love? I have never been in love, I've had plenty of crushes, but that's not the same thing is it! Yet I have to admit to myself that I cannot get a certain man off my mind. Whenever we meet, he is always teasing me and I...

My girlfriend is a mooch!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (M) - my girlfriend and I were in a long distance relationship and she moved in with me about 4 months ago, she has no job dose not go to school and I have to pay for evrything includeing my pot that she smokes, iv bugged her scince day one to get a job ...

Can he still be put away for his past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Okay so I am "seeing" a man who just turned 29 and I am about to be 19, I am legal now but I have a problem. My aunt and a few other relatives have a problem with me seeing him and theyre against it. I had sex with him when i was almost 16 and he ...

A girl confused choosing between two guys

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - This might be a long post, but please bear with me. I have been with my boyfriend for the 5 years. A year after we started going out I moved in with him and his parents since I was living in a little basement, and my boyfriend thought that was not ...

Our hotel break...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - My bf and I are having a few days together in a hotel for a nice break. Need your advice lads. Shall I suprise him by buying some sexy underwear for it? Reckon he'd like that or think it was silly?...

Going away with my boyfriend's family who hardly speak English! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5161 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Going away with my boyfriend's family who hardly speak English help? First and foremost this is the problem. My boyfriend is from Congo and my parents are from Jamaica and Ghana My boyfriend and I, his family and his brother girl friend are ...

Reasonably angry or crazy sensitive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has very special ways to just completely enrage me. Normally I am very even tempered but he has a way to just make me lose it! We have been to many sporting events together. We are usually cheering, drinking, having a great time and...

Wow! Is there such a thing as love at first sight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - I've been with my bf for a year. I met his friend for the first time 3 months ago. Where we both fell straight in love with each other. Love at first sight. No joke. We've seen each other only twice since, both occasions lots of mutual friends were ...

We will be separated for one month when I go this trip, reassurance needed!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - I am leaving my boyfriend of 6 months to go to the other side of the world for a month in 6 weeks time. It was booked and paid for long before I met him. I am absolutely dreading leaving him, I trust him completely but i feel terrible I'll be there ...

Paranoid thoughts... or is he really cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - I've been with my bf for 6 months but ive always had this suspicion hes still seeing his ex, I know hes still friends with her but i cant think of a way of finding out without saying something which i dont really want to do as if its completely ...

Hellllp!!!!How much porn is too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Recently I've found my boyfriends porn stash on his hard drive. We've been together a year and I know he has always watched porn but it has never bothered me before. I watch it myself and use toys, plus we are both very adventurous in bed! Howe...

I'm a bit of a novice where sex is concerned... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - I'm a 15 year old girl and have a girlfriend of the same age, I'm soon to be 16 and I think she will want to have sex. Now I don't mind it, it's just, she has had past experience, and I haven't, so I wont really know what I'm doing and I would have ...

Is there a relationship between self-worth and the way you are treated in relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Is there a relationship between self-worth and the way you are treated in relationships? Is it really too much to ask for someone to just be good to you, to not play games, just be honest with you and love you for you? ...

Masturbatory problem...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (M) - i have had a problem with masturbation for 20 years and my penis is so small now. i am planning to take some tablets to increase my penis size. is there any way i can stop myself enjaculating before my girlfriend takes off my boxers? i cannot then ...

Do I continue talking to him or what...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I been together for almost 3 years but suddenly we broke up. we were fighting a lot and he told me that we couldn't be together and the best thing for us is to be friends. I didn't want to accept it but i had to. its been about 2 ...

We've been together for 3 years but we've never had sex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - I have been with my partner for three years now. As a partner he is wonderful, he respects me, he is loyal and we love to spend time together. I am 25 and he is almost 40. He is my first serious relationship and I have not had sex with anyone. ...

Shouldn't I be a little more over her by now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

5 October 2010 (M) - I need help. My ex and I of 3 years broke up in dec. She started dating a highschool friend immediately after. We continued talking, hooked up a few times 3 months later, talked about getting back together and "hung out" multiple times between then ...

Why does my boyfriend act so differently in front of his friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - ok my boyfriend always seems to act different when hes with his friends. it really annoys me but i dont have the guts to say anything becuz i think he might get mad. should i keep quiet or speak up? ...

He just cut me off...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - I was going out with a guy a year, he was my best friend and we were so in love. In the Summer we had a few fights, he moved away and starting acting different (saying he cant take me out for meals etc and started to making things "his way" and I ...

Too soon to rush into marriage...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

5 October 2010 (M) - Hi, I am in a relationship with a girl. We're both 23 (in 2010). The problem is that her family will try and get her married not after 25 or 26 years of age but i will still be pursuing my higher studies at that age and so wont be able to talk abo...

He wants me to go and see him... should I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Hi I had argument with my boyfriend and stopped talking to him for couple of days. I went to a party at that time and a guy was very interested on me. I gave my number then told my friend who told him this story. After days she told him and he was ...

This is normal right...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - ok i had sex with my boyfriend and when we were done i went to the bathroom and i was bleeding. this is normal right? how long does the bleeding go on for? ...

Do you always have a thing for your first love...?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

5 October 2010 (M) - Hi DC, Just a general post from something that I saw on TV the other nite about a couple who reunited after 40yrs apart (leaving thier respective partners/families) Do you always have a thing for your 1st love? Is the expression "1st Love neve...

B/f says he's over his ex but I don't believe him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - My bf and I have been dating for almost a month now. He says he is over his ex, but I doubt it. He's a really nice, sweet, caring guy but sometimes I feel like he lies to me. He still talks to his ex ( she has a boyfriend). They broke up about 2 ...

Relationships vs. one night stands

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

5 October 2010 (M) - Why will a woman hook up with some random guy she meets at a club or a bar, but when that woman gets into a relationship, wait and take it slow with the boyfriend?...

Does she like me, despite only having broken up with her ex 5 days ago?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (M) - Recently a girl who i know from work (She left that job some months ago but we stayed in touch) broke up with her boyfriend of 2years. Then less than 5 days later she starts texting me and speaking to me on facebook a hell of a lot more than she ...

I want to be with him, but I don't want to be obvious about it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - I was with a guy for 3 years, and we broke up in February. In the beginning we loved each other, but there was a lot of arguing throughout. That is why within those 3 years, I broke up with him three times because I was not happy and I thought I ...

Is it over because I didn't visit him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Hello Guys, The reason why Iam writing maybe I wanna feel myself relieved.. Here is what happens, we had some problems with my bf of 1 year.. then he had surgery and stayed there 3 days.. I just got a new job and had school I was so busy that I c...

His ex is getting in the way of our relationship.

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5 October 2010 (F) - I have always had problems with my boyfriend calling other women, is it right or am i being possesive?lately his ex called him and though at some point he even gave me the phone to talk to her, i still feel bad maybe she might go on calling and this ...

How can you do everything right and still get shafted???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

5 October 2010 (M) - I really don't know what to say right now except that my heart is breaking. I'm a very passionate person and much like a Wolf if given the opportunity I will love you forever. After taking a break, which was in her words not supposed to be ...

My boyfriend wants a ''threesome''!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (M) - Hi there, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. He's lovely and I love him so much. I lost my virginity to him and want him to be the only one in my life. Few months ago, he said something that hurt me. He said ''what do you think abou...

This is not how a loving relationship is meant to be... is it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

5 October 2010 (M) - I'm not happy about our relationship, she always seems mad or angry when I come home. Seems like all we do is live together. She said its not me, but it cant always be the kids either. We kiss like we kiss our mothers, just a quick peck. She always ...

Yay or nay to a threesome???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I been together for over 5 years. The sex is great but now I find myself wanting a female, not sure but big breasts are a realy hot turn on for me now? How can I get my boyfriend to agree????...

Asking out a friend? Worried about it ruining the relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (M) - Dear DC readers, I am in a difficult situation at the moment. I know a friend for roughly a year now and I really enjoy her company. In my eyes she is really beautiful and a wonderful being. I really like her and love her so much as a person, and...

Did he like me? Or just like staring at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Im a 21 year old girl,i met a guy (he is 26) at my work place ( its a very small company with 15+ employees , he is the owner of the company),our cabin is very small one ... from the dayone i joined the company, i found this guy starring at me. He ...

Will first time sex be so painful that I won't want to do it again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - hi everyone,im a 15 yr old girl and my boyfriend and i who have been together for 3 yrs (hes 16) want to take our relationship to a more sexual level.not exactly now but sometime in the near future.we're ready now but we're trying to wait till we ...

Ideas on how to approach a stranger to start a friendhship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

5 October 2010 (M) - Hello Agony Aunts/Uncles/And everyone else, I am painfully shy, and I am already 21. I have only been in one relationship and that was with a girl, the problem with that is that I am gay. And so in that relationship back in the day there was no c...

Should I tell him I like him? Or find out if he likes me first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - I reaaally, reeallly, REALLY like this guy in my homeroom. He is like wicked cute and funny and he says hi to me sometimes! I was sitting in homeroom today right before the bell rang for school to start and I happened to look over at him. I gave him ...

Should I really just let go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Bear with me, this is the short version... The last two months I have been "dating" this girl. She recently got out of a year marriage, and when they finally split, we instantly hooked up. During her birthday part this past summer that was at ...

I don't understand.... why would my friend do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Me and a male friend of mine were walking to class ,(we go to college together) and a guy that wants to take me on a date was calling my cell phone. I didnt answer, Im not interested in this guy, so my friend said he was gonna call him back and say ...

Has he Lost Interest?! What to do when the calls stop

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Okay so about three weeks ago I've met this guy in my math class who seems to really really like me. We started talking when we were seated next to each other and he told me that he had a crush on me by the third day! The thing is, is that he ...

I would love to know what exactly can get me a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5166 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - ok, here it is. i'm english, and i'm seventeen- eighteen in december. i'm not the most beautiful girl in the world, but i know that i'm not ugly. both male and female friends have commented that i have a good body (small waist, curvy hips, ...

He said no when I asked him out, Now he's coming around me a lot..Why??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - We were spending a lot of time together and I was starting to like him so I went ahead and asked him out. He said I was cool but he didn't want to be in a relationship. I said that was fine and didn't bring it up again until he started avoiding me ...

He never tells me where he's going when I am with him? Is this normal or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend been together for a lil over a month an was wondering if your boyfriend is supposed to tell you where he goes, like instead of I'll be right back?? Like sometimes he will tell me and sometimes he just says I'll be right back an ...

He is showing a lot more interest...has his feelings changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5161 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Is it typical for people, mainly guys, to assume a girl is their girlfriend if they never formally asked her to be? I'm asking because a year ago I met this guy. We became friends right off the bat and good friends at that. I considered him o...

I don't know if I should ask this girl out cause I can't tell if I'm being to clingy or if she's interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (M) - So this girl from my class invited me to her house party and later that week i danced with her at the bar and she was grindin all over me and had her arms around my neck. Then once everyone left the bars she texted me and we were flirting a bit, ...

How did others get over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Okay this gets straight to the point. How do you get over a guy you've liked for the last 5 years? I just want to get over him now and move on, but it's hard and I think it would help to hear other peoples ways and it may just help me get over this ...

One Year Anniversary Present?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

5 October 2010 (?) - Me and my boyfriend are going to make a year in a month.. what is a great present for our aniversary? ...

He's way out of my league so how would I talk to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Ok so I'm a freshman in high school and I have taken a liking to this really cute and sweet football player/singer. He's so goofy and always is showing off his muscles at rallies. But the problem is the only things I know about him as a person is ...

He thinks I'm cute but, wont talk to me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - so there is this guy and we both know of eachother we have one class together. he works as a bouncer at this bar i often go to. we have never realy talked much just rare casual convos. so one night i was just talking to while he was working kinda ...

Nearly 30 and single, how can I get my love life back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles I'm fearing I'm going to be alone forever. I'm almost 30, quite pretty, intelligent and training to be primary school teacher. But it seems everyone but 'me is in a serious relationship and happy. I had a boyf on and o...