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Archived questions from: 16 October, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Working in a prison, I've fallen in love with a prisoner

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - I work in a prison as a librarian and seem to have fallen for a prisoner. He has told me that he likes me. I just don't know what to do. He's out in 6 weeks and seems very geniune about the possibility of us. I havent given too much away to him as ...

I can't stand being single anymore!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (M) - Hello I am 17 years old and still in high school. I can't stand being single anymore. I really can't. I have never kissed a girl before never been loved by a girl before I can't take it. I see all these other people getting all this love but for ...

I do want a boyfriend, but I'm shy. Why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - what can I do? Well you see, when ever I get real close to a boy, I wait for him to ask me out. What's wrong with that? The reason why I don't ask him out, first is beacause I don't feel close to him. Is there anything wrong beacause I alway...

Why wont he kiss me when we're having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - Well, my bf and I have been going out for a month and a half now. And everything, has been going quite well. Though, there is a problem, he wont kiss me when were having sex, or when i give him a blow job. I dont get it, is it me, he use to not be ...

My past is destroying my current relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

16 October 2010 (M) - Hello In the past I have had quite a few relationships that ended badly and im not in good terms with my ex's My last relationship ended because my girlfriend cheated on me then dumped me for her ex that she told me she hated and never told me ...

He's cheating on her with me and she doesn't know, but he doesn't know I KNOW he has a girlfriend!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - I really like my boyfriend but if i say honestly i am with him to have a good time till the end of next year because i dont have much to do and then i will be moving to another country. the problem is that i dont really care what he does but he is ...

What are some of the negative effects that lying to one's partner can have on a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

16 October 2010 (M) - Is honesty really the best policy when it comes to one's life partner? I hear people say that it's better to live with one's guilt rather than tell one's partner if there has been a one time betrayal. But wont guilt over lying eventually take a toll ...

Are my boyfriend and his sister in love???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend has a sister in a different university who visits him after every two weeks and stays at his place for one week sharing the same bed. her university is in another city, she dresses badly and i got love letters written to my bf from the ...

I just wish I really knew what he felt...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - For the past year, I've had this relationship with this guy. We started out as friends, and we flirted a lot when we texted and talked online. So he comes to visit one night, we kissed. Every time he came to see me after that, we would go a little ...

How to find a girl for our 3some?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are looking to have a threesome and we are excited about it. I'm 21, he's 33. However I have no idea how we can find a girl we both like, who likes us both!! I've been on about every dating site looking for a girl, found noth...

I need some help with trust issues!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (M) - people plz help. i have been in a relationship with this girl for last 3 and a half years and i really love her but the thing is last some days i have been feeling a lot lost and wanting for space.... actually started my masters recently, so new...

I don't want him to play me... I'd rather play on him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - I met a guy about a month ago and we were hitting it off pretty well. We were spending every day together. He was sending me flowers, chocolate, took me on lots of dates and never failed to compliment me and tell me how special i was to him and how ...

My partner wants to date her admirer!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (M) - HI just want ask some advice what to do, my partner agreed that she going for a date with her admirer, but for the last few weeks she been open all about what they talk, where they been but just lately i heard her saying over the phone, you love ...

Have any of you guys dealt with this kind of insecurity and jealousy before?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

16 October 2010 (M) - I was recently dating this woman who I felt very strongly for. Unfortunately, she was very insecure. Her ex had cheated on her numerous times. Anyways, she began accusing me of seeing another woman, which wasn't true. Nothing I said to her could ...

Wife wasn't happy about my marriage proposal, what can I do about it now?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

16 October 2010 (M) - Hi there This is a question for men and women! I'm looking forward to get answers from both, male and female! I proposed my now-wife 1 1/2 years ago. She said yes, but was very disappointed by the way I asked. So I asked her a second time beca...

He thought I deserved better!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - My (ex)boyfriend about 3 days ago. We were about to make 10 months. We had a great relationship until Sept. We work together and our relationship slowly faded out. He told me he needed space to want to miss me. I tried to give him space but we work ...

I find out my boyfriend is a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - Heyy, Well my problem is seriously confusingg so bracee yourselff guys ;] i wrote a letter on here ages ago about a boy called Noah, he wouldnt talk to me? Even though i was almost certain i was inlovee with him. Well for six months more he c...

Is it a date? Or just friends going out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - ok my ex and i are friends and i asked him to dinner alone and to go clubbing on friday night to me it was a date and he said yes but now i'm thinking those he think it as two frieds or a date i can't ask him because i do wish to strain whatever you ...

How do I introduce my 12 year old to my new partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (?) - How and when should I introduce my 12 y.o. son to my new partner after my divorce? It has not been long since the divorce, but I have been separated for quite a while, and it is no secret to my ex that I am with someone new. I suspect my son knows ...

How do I ask the shy guy out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - question dear cupid i meet this very shy man at my sister's party i was wondering how to ask him out. a friend told me he has not had many girlfriends and very inexperienced with women i was wondering how to ask him out for coffee or tea. he looked ...

Boyfriend went for drinks with best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - dear cupid I am dating this guy, we have been going out for a bout 2 months,and he gets along really well with my best friend. But at this time we are having a few problems and we haven't been speaking. But he decided one night to go out for drink...

Why do we go through periods where we don't talk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - Hey I've had a situation with this guy who is 10 years older than myself. He has had many female friends before and after me. when we met we became really good friends and he told me multiple times that he thought I needed a good guy and that he ...

I'm dating the wrong gender?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - Just recentally got into a amzing relation with lets just say fluffy. He is amzing guy and cool to be around and we always have a blast but i still cant help to think im with the wrong gender....what to do ...........what to do........

I worry my girl might be sexually frustrated

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (M) - hey. i cant get the thought out of my head that my girlfriend is sexually frustrated. i ask her all the time and assure her that it is better for her to tell me and to not worry about my feelings but she says everythings fine. how can you tell if ...

I feel he doesn't want to be exclusive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - What if ive been dating a guy for 3 months now, tho it doesnt feel like he wants to get exclusive...About 2 weeks ago he said he loved me for the first time...He says it all the time now. I feel like he really means it...So, I took it that we were ...

I hope there is still a chance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend for 2 years just broke up with me 2 months ago. We are both 23 years old and I can say that we were happy and so much in-love in the first 1 year and 5 months of our relationship.We rarely argue and we care so much for each other. She ...

So he tells me he loves me but he has a girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5157 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - i now this boy his name is Alex he says he loves me but only by texting me and telling me but not face to face.so anyway i am in love with him ill do whatever to go out with him.so he tells me he loves me but he already has a girl friend one time i ...

I ruined it with my girlfriend's father!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (M) - Well, I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now, I know we are sort of young...im 18 shes 17. The point is that I had a great relationship with her father, which was very important to me and very important in keeping the LDR alive. Last summer ...

I was married and dating a younger guy of 20

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - Hello, I dated a guy who is 15 years younger then me. I was his very first true love (as he said). We started dating when he was 20. The relationship was wonderful as i feel myself young again and wanted him so much. I had a strong sexual at...

I am really confused about liking a girl who has hurt me so much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5101 days ago

16 October 2010 (M) - Here's the situation: My girlfriend broke up with me around 3 months ago and im having trouble getting over her. Now, she wasnt perfect. she was insecure, somewhat hypocritical and judgmental at times. but so was I (insecure that is), so i couldnt ...

Girlfriend Troubles!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (M) - Q: 1 i need help. i love my girlfriend so damn much, and yes i will admit i have fucked up a few times for example during the beginning of the relationship i had looked at a few girls and made some comments, it has now been 6 months since Ive done...

Can I trust his wife around my child

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - Moderator's Note: Two questions combined. Q: 1I need help and understanding of what I should do. I was in a relationship/affair whatever u wanna call it with a married man. I am now pregnant by him and due next month, and he is also back with his...

What do men consider to be a controlling girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - Is it normal for someone's boyfriend to go to the gym with his coworkers who are female (like 1 guy and 3 females?) I don't feel very happy about it, mostly because he is physically attracted (in his words, if he was single, he would like to date ...