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Dating: Help and advice

With someone but getting old feelings back for someone else, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend a bit ago, and he forgave me and we're very happy. But the guy i cheated on him with is still in my life. We're friends and what not. Just friends though. But i'm getting my old feelings back from him. But i love my ...

Why won't he take his relationship status off Facebook???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - My Boyfriend and i just started dating like couple weeks now but we knew each other back in high school. I Have Him As A Friend On Facebook and it says that he is in a realtionship with somebody else, i asked him about he says it's his ex and dont ...

I don't know how to communicate with my boyfriend about his career move

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I don't know how to communicate with my boyfriend about his career move. We are both 27. We are together for 2 yrs and want to get married after I finish studying.We love each other and want to start a family soon.I am still studying. He is...

My boyfriend finds it hard to cum when his laying on his back, any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend finds it hard to cum when his laying on his back. He gets the feeling but nothing happens, and he can just go on and on.. Can you suggest anything??...

Is my boyfriend falling out of love with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Is my boyfriend falling out of love with me or lost interest? I'll try to keep this short. But here goes. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 4 years. I love him so much and I am stilll soo in love with him. I like to think that he's ...

What are some tips on making sure the bf is completely sexually satisfied?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

20 October 2010 (?) - What are some tips on making sure the bf is completely sexually satisfied? Anything that may contribute to them not going eleswhere......

She seems to listen to her sister now more than she does me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid: Me and my gf have been together for a year and a half now and well everythings going great until lately.. You see she's been hanging around her sis which honestly I have no problem with since that's her family and all. That's n...

Halloween Date Ideas?

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20 October 2010 (F) - What is a good date for me and my boyfriend on Halloween night? We have to double or triple in order for us to go, but what are some good suggestions?...

Paralyzed by not knowing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

20 October 2010 (M) - After reading a string of questions today I started really thinking about the topic of: "do they like me back?" It happens a lot. We develop a crush on someone. We think about them a lot. We read into every little thing they do or say. We ...

How do I know? What Should I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - ok i met my boyfriend on myspace... we fell in love over the internet and became very very close! after about 5 months of that i moved down to texas to be with him.. and we have a great relationship, good sex, very open and we both love each other ...

He thinks I'm cheating on him and is losing interest in me... but I'm not!!! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - I need some help.. I have been with my partner for nearly 5 years and have a small child together. Everything was fine until one day he came home and said he had a feeling i was cheating on him (something i would never do) and said his feelings were ...

How do I confront her about the ex boyfriend back in touch?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

20 October 2010 (M) - OK here's the story A few weeks ago I found out my girlfriend was still talking to her ex. Her ex, who we'll call ken, goes to school about 40 min. away and my gf and I attend the same one. I met my gf at the beginning of summer and she always b...

There is no trust there any more... should I just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - My fiance has cheated on me. He has gone on chatlines and has gotten girls numbers. He says he loves me and that was the past and cant understand why i have trouble trusting him. We fight more now and he says he was immature back then but back ...

I hate him!!! How do I get even?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for 6 months and in that 6 months i got pregnant but i got so sick and was in hospital for a month and a half. i lost the baby. few months later, out of the blue he breaks up with me over facebook.. for someone else. 2 weeks ...

My boyfriend's DAD acts like he's his girlfriend!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - My bf's dad acts like hes his gf. Kinda hard to explain. First of all i think family is important and would never try to interfere or keep him away. Ok his dad gets butthurt if he doesnt call him like 20 times a day. My bf will call him like every ...

I'm tired of my heart ruling my mind.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Hi, My BF and I have been together over two years. I'm very much in love with him despite what has transpired between us. For the duration of our relationship he's lied about several things to me. Mostly about gambling, and the extent of it. He...

How to handle your breakup-for the Dumper against an Angry Dumpee

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Dear Readers, We all have been in these spots, where we have to use the lines, "I think we should break up" or "It's not me, it's you" am I right? If we haven't used them we have surely had them said to us at one point in our lives. How do you hand...

He's texting me but screwing someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - I'm really annoyed cos i like this guy and we text each other every night, we seemed to get on well but i found out that he's screwing another girl. do guys do that... text other girls while sleeping with another one? Is he a pig? Should i w...

I cant understand males and their sexuality!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (?) - I have had an unfortunate past of men. Ive dated guys who beat me up then stalked me for months after i left them. I married and had kids with a guy who came out of the closet. And a lot of players. also although im not proud of it but i used to ...

My boyfriends parents really dislike me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Help! So I like this guy, a lot. He and I were unofficial for a month when a week ago he asked me to be his girlfriend, but there is one complication. His parents don't want him to have a girlfriend, and in turn they found out we were a couple, a...

My social circle thinks it's too big an age difference

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (?) - Hi! I'll just jump straight in and say I've got an age gap issue that's really bugging me. I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 29 (30 in 5 weeks) and basically I'm just getting a load of flack from friends and family. I - unfortunately - come from a very Bri...

BF wants a Prenup...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Before I got into a relationship with my current bf, he told me that if he ever ends up with someone, he would ask for a prenup. He told me he did not want the relationship to be based on money, and that he does not have a lot himself and that tons ...

Do guys wait to text?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (?) - Well my mate gave her guyfriend my number because he liked me and he text me last friday and saturday. I been texting him first for a couple of days now and he asked me out, we are suppose to be going for food sunday. We talked for hours last night ...

I don't want to take her viriginity but I need something

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (M) - i'm 18 years old,i'm having a relationship with my girlfriend for a year now,we are happy with each other,but she's been a faithful to her parents she doesn't like to fulfil my sex needs,i don't want to destroy her virginity,but being a playful boy ...

Could he like me or am I just a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - I Really like this guy and I think he likes me because earlier he told me something extremely personal said that he was telling me the secret because he can trust me. Also the other day we had this moment when he looked into my eyes and said they ...

Why did she tell me she doesn't have the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (M) - I'm a 26yrs university student. i met this lady who is also a student and we became friend and she really likes me. i then told her we should start serious relationship, then she told me I'm a nice,kind guy who every lady will like to be with, but ...

Afraid that he'll run again -- how to play this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - I meet a guy a week and half ago on a dating site. in his profile he said he is looking for long term have a family etc . so we went out and after that he was all over me, sending cute text msgs, hanging out every other day saying how pretty i was ...

Does his stare mean anything?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Hello. I just want to ask a question about something that happened to me today. Today, my crush and i catched eachother's eye. i smiled at him, looked down, looked back up and carried on smiling while he just looked at me. what does this mean? a...

Does he want to get me pregnant or is he just traditional?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - my partner and i of nearly 2 years were talking about my friend who was pregnant and got dumped by her boyfriend. he then said he would have freaked out like my friends bf and done the same thing and goes, i hope youre not pregnant. then i asked ...

He seems to tired to see me since he's move house... what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Okay well I've been dating this guy for about 3 months. We both like each other very very much and usually spend a lot of time together. However he is a bit older than me and recently he moved out of his apartments into his sister's apartment ...

Guilt is playing on my mind... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (M) - hi everyone. im needing some help. i have been in a relationship coming up two years now and i am totally head over heals in love with my girlfriend, and i know she loves me as much. we are both realy happy, but i have recently been thinking of a ...

Is he still attached to this girl from his past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Ive been with this guy for a while now but about two years back while we were still in a relationship he started seeing this other girl for his sexual needs bc he wasnt getting it from me. We had oral and fooled around but never sex. Well they lost ...

Has anyone ever heard of keeping in touch with an ex boyfriend's child after a breakup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - I am 24 years old. My bf has been living with me for almost three year now. He has a child that I have known since he was 18 months. We have the child 2-3 days out of the week. I have no children and have become very attached to this little guy. ...

Boyfriend bores me sometimes... is it time to call it a day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 1 year and 10 months. We have broken up many times but it wasn't serious ones. the reason we have broke up was because I was bored of our relationship. His a really nice person I've hurt him few ...

Should I follow my dream?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - I am 23 and currently studying for a degree in history which has been my dream since I was 14. The problem is I also have a dream about studying or volunteering abroad after but I have a boyfriend of six years and he wouldn't be able to come with ...

He's rubbing my face in it showing me pictures of her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Hi Cupids, I just want to know if its just me with an issue about this subject or would other women do the same as me? I've been with my boyfriend now for 1 year and 2 months and im currently 5 months pregnant with our little girl, he constan...

I have suspicions that he might be cheating on me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - my bf, and i have been dating for about 2 months now, our relationship, is more sexual than emotional. Which personally i do not mind, because i am not in love with him. The only problem is that, now, i think he is cheating on me, and i told him, ...

Should I stop talking to her or should I still try (because I know she loves me)?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

20 October 2010 (M) - Hey: My ex-girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly two months ago because I was studying for my medical boards, working full time, and not giving her enough attention in the 5 months preceding. In addition, she got a new sales job (her f...

Is he gay, or does he just have intimacy problems?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - I think my boyfriend is a closet gay, or else he has big intimacy issues. I'm hoping someone here can tell me which is more likely. I think he may be gay for the usual reasons, i.e. that he is obsessed with decorating, loves shopping, and he...

Did I make the correct choice in letting him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - hi, I've this guy ve been going out for 2 years but i broke up with him about 6 months ago. We started as friends later one thing lead to another and we started kissing but i noticed after that he was different cos he gets angry easily and all ...

He seems too good to be true and I'm very scared of losing him. Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5145 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Wel i'm dating this charming and respctful guy and we ar in a long distance relationship we normaly see each after a period of time.. sometimes i usually have this feeling of doubting myself and this thing keep on coming, we even discussd it but ...

Was that the moment that made me realize that I should start having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Could someone please explain me this? I've been going out with my b/f for over a year now, we're both virgins, and we said that we're going to have sex when I'm ready. Until a few months ago, I was scared to be alone in the same room with him, t...

I have herpes and feel like scum!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Can someone help? I'm really anxious, upset, stressed out, and depressed. A couple months ago I met someone. I have herpes. He is a really special, kind wonderful guy. Unfortunately I let things get a little too far before I told him (mutual ...

Do you think he's sterile?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - I'm nineteen and my boyfriend is a thirty-seven. We've been dating for over a year now. Our sex life has always been great. We have sex at least once a week if not more. (Usually on weekends due to busy schedules.) We're not interested in ha...

How I can make her mine???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

20 October 2010 (M) - Hi Cupid, My question is that i recently met a girl on a dating site we have had a good time together, she lives about 2hrs from me,we have seen each other 3 time and I've been making the drive to see her as she is recovering from a broken leg. We...

IS he really my soulmate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together just under a year now. we have had a lot of ups and downs, and although all the great times we have shared outweigh the arguments, it's beginning to get too much. He is my 5th serious relationship and...

Is he in denial?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of five months has a really colourful past which I find so difficult to deal with in the context of a relationship. He has had sex with men numerous times, in ridiculous situations - a gay cinema in which they show pornography and a gay ...

I don't know what to think about how she feels from her actions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5153 days ago

20 October 2010 (M) - I met her a year ago and we met at her school cafeteria and talked a lot and I walked her to her dorm and left. We exchanged emails about plans but she left the country for a while. About a month ago I received a random text from her and all of a ...

How Long was it Before you said 'I love you'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (?) - How long was it before your current partner said they loved you (or you them)? My current girlfriend told me within two weeks of dating each other. I did think at the time that it was a bit soon to tell me that but she said that she 'just knew'. I ...

He's a guy, and he just doesn't need to talk to me....and I am a girl and have these emotional needs that get in the way of our happiness. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - I've been unhappy in my relationship, and have been contemplating having an emotional affair. I love spending time doing things with my boyfriend, but it always seems like I want so much more than he is able to give...we seem to be very compatible ...

How do I approach her before she sets eyes on another guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (M) - [Mod note: Two questions from same user combined here for clarity.] Ok here is the deal people, i really like one of my sisters very good friends and i dont see her much ( just in school or sometimes at a party) but i love her personality and real...

What makes a girl 'girlfriend material'?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

20 October 2010 (?) - Have you ever noticed how "girlfriends" tend to be pretty average looking? I mean, think of your guy friends' girlfriends, the ones they've been with for 3-6 years... they're usually not drop dead gorgeous... Meanwhile, a lot of beautiful women, ...

I'm in love with him and he's dating a friend of mine

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Me and this guy have been best friends for ever. He lives right beside of me, we go outside, hang out all the time. We have so many things in common, we just "click." We started dating a few months ago, but we broke up and decided it was better off ...

Am I being insecure or is he being insensitive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - I feel really insecure about how attracted my boyfriend is to me. We were having an conversation about how women r sexually attracted to men when they love who they are and men r sexually aroused more when the woman is "hot". This was in the cont...

Us "hanging out" usually just means me giving him head or us having sex. I'm feeling used!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Okay soo.. Ive been seeing this guy for over a year; we just started dating 3 months ago officially. It's my junior year and his senior year. Homecoming is in a couple of weeks and he won't take me. He also never wants to go out with me on a date or ...

I love my "Nice Guy" who doesn't reveal much of himself, and I am feeling shut out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Hello all. I guess I can call myself a “Nice Girl”, and if you met him, you would definitely call my guy a “Nice Guy”. We try our best to do good to each other and community, and we handle disagreements with honesty in a sane manner. We have a ...

Should I continue things with my sort-of bisexual boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - I just recently became involved with my one of my best friends...who also happens to be bisexual (which he discovered 6 months ago). The last two months have been tumultuous because we would hookup and then I would find out he was also texting other ...