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Dating: Help and advice

Yikes, do I rekindle the old flame or cultivate the new one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I have an old love (over 20 years) that I reacquainted with this summer after finally ending a messy divorce last year. My old boyfriend lives far far away and works in remote jobsites so he is rarely available. In the months since I last seen ...

I didn't go into specifics with her but I didn't lie either... is this enough for her?

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26 October 2010 (M) - I am getting pretty serious with my girlfriend. We've talked about things of our past. Things we regret and wish we could have back, such as people we've slept with that are still involved in some capacity of our lives. A few weeks ago, she told ...

I need help. I don't want to give up on us, I just don't know what to do...

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26 October 2010 (F) - I promise to make this as short as possible. Me and my (ex) boyfriend were together not that long but 6 months. We were not together 3 months out of the 6 and basically lived together a month and a half out of the other 3. THe months we were apart ...

She wants me to cum in her face but I respect her too much to do that...

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - Ok guys dont give me hell or call me a pansy. My gf asked me to cum in her face while she was giving me a blow job last week, and I totally froze up and couldnt do anything. I have watched it in porn and I dont see it as a turn on at all. Honestly...

How to ask a boy out without being awkward?

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26 October 2010 (F) - I really would like to know some techniques on asking a boy out with out being awkward. Normally I am a really confident person but when I get around him, I tend to get a bit weak in the knees. HELP!...

Are the vibes I'm getting from him correct and he really DOES like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, Im 18 years old, casually dating a guy that's 20. Now one thing im unsure about is whether he is actually interested in me. I met him at a friend's birthday and we got on well as friends so we swapped Blackberry pins so that we co...

I need to learn more about the Spanish language...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - For this one I'll need the help of some native Spanish speakers (preferably Mexican Spanish). There's this girl that I have been out with a few times. She's from Mexico and even though her English is fluent there are times when she doesn't catc...

I don't know the kinds of questions to ask when dating

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26 October 2010 (M) - Please i need you people's help, i need a person to help me out i don't no how to date i don't know the kind of question to ask a girl when dating,i don't know the type of disccution to bring up i don't even know when to as a girl for a friendship,i ...

Boyfriend doesn't kiss, want to hug or have kids..what is up with this?

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26 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now. Throughout the time we've been together, I've learned several things about him. 1. He won't kiss me until the day we get married, if we do. 2. He hates hugs. He'll hug me when we're ...

How can one improve a relationship using the Law of Attraction?

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26 October 2010 (F) - Has anyone had any exp. with improving a current relationship using the Law of Attraction? I have read many success stories...many have been able to revive they're relationship after cheating, lying, lost of chemistry and etc using this principle. ...

Why do I never give guys a chance?

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26 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm REALLY scared to have a boyfriend. I've liked guys in the past and they've made moves on me but my fear of relationships has stopped me from taking things further and just genuinely enjoying myself. Its really bothering beca...

What does "on the take" mean?

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26 October 2010 (F) - What does it mean when a a guy is "on the take?" When he is consumed with being taken advantage of by a woman? Or when it says that it will take a very "special" person in order for him to open up even when he knows without a shadow of a doubt that ...

How can I use my personality being reserved to my advantage?

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26 October 2010 (M) - I am a college student who has come from the UK to America, and I just don't know what to do romantically. I am rather shy and anhedonic, so I have difficulty just relaxing and having fun with women. There is one girl I really like who's really ...

Should I go for him or leave him alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - Ok. So I have a crush on this guy, it may not be that. I want to tell him I think he looks good :D why? I don't know. But if he were to ask me out I would go. But the problem is my cousin said he flirts with her and her coworkers @ work. She said ...

I found naughty texts do I confront her?

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26 October 2010 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for a little over 3 months. My friends don't think she is trustworthy. The other day I was going through her phone and I noticed a text from a guy named John. I clicked on it and it said thing like I want you so b...

Her smile says one thing, her words another.

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26 October 2010 (M) - Christ, where to start... With the cliche, I suppose. There's a girl. She's not like anyone I've ever met... beautiful like a marble statue, fresh as the morning dew, funny and clever, a free thinker with more than enough brains to keep up and a...

What should I do with my girlfriend?

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26 October 2010 (M) - I'm 29 years old and I met my girlfriend 5 months ago. The question is what should I do with her? Situation is as follows: She has 2 sons (5 and 7 years old) and she separated from her husband about a year ago. They grow their children "togeth...

Will or relationship survive now that I've found out I'm pregnant?

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26 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together just under a year (10 months), and I've just found out I'm pregnant. It wasn't planned, we're using contraception. We both have decent jobs and live together... But I'm worried as to whether we're going to ...

Will our relationship last?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - hi! am 23 years old, dating a 45 year old. he is married having three kids, his relationship with his wife is complicated. the wife left him with kids and went back to her home. the man is struggling so hard to raise the kids. will our ...

He's obsessed with making everything about "us"! How can we get past this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together a year now. i am his first serious relationship and sexual partner, however i have had a handful of serious relationships before him. we have a great relationship except for his problem dealing with my past. i...

I don't feel comfortable at my boyfriend spending the night with her ALONE!

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26 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has a female friend, who he was in love with before he met me. Nothing ever happened between them, except that eventually he told her how he felt and they talked it over. Now his feelings for her are platonic and he's been with me for ...

His addiction to video games is destroying our relationship!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - What would you do? I am with a man who is lovely, upbeat, faithful and generous, but over that last 2 years, it seems his demeaner to me has changed in a negative way. The way he talks to me, and about me, seems to be not to put me down, but to say, ...

Am I a lesbian? I'm in love with my bestfriend, but no other girls.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I've just turned 17. Me and this girl have been best friends for about 5 years. No exaggeration, she's absolutley gorgeous, she's a model, she's so funny and really genuinely nice. She used to say "Oh, I love you" (as a friend I persumed) which al...

Should I tell her about my past with my ex?

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26 October 2010 (M) - My ex gf cheated on her then fiance, now husband with me. It happened after a night of drinks, a conversation that we wanted to be friends, and that she wasn't as happy as she was when she got engaged. I in a way started to think there was a chance ...

Is it fair on the kids to try again with him?

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26 October 2010 (F) - Hi need some advice. My Husband and I have had separate houses for the past six months.He although lives at mine most of the time. The reason we ended up in separate houses was he was unable to bother with my two children from a previous marriage ...

We have a 2 year age gap, is this a big deal?

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26 October 2010 (F) - I am 15 years old and I am dating a 17 year old guy. I was just wondering about people's opinions on the age gap? Both of our birthdays are in August, so he is young for his age, as am I. Since we live in the UK the legal age for sex is 16. I am ...

Guys! What can a girl do/wear to make your head turn?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - What really impresses a guy? What will grab his attention (in a good way) and make him return that attention to you? I'm asking this to use on my boyfriend for a spark, and for future reference should I ever need it. Thanks =]...

Why hasn't he asked me out yet?

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26 October 2010 (F) - I sarted liking this guy i hang out with about a month ago....then i noticed he started showing the signs that he liked me back like staring at me, standing by me, being extremely shy, always walking beside me in a group of people, flirting with me, ...

Am I lovesick for her? What can I do to stop it?

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26 October 2010 (M) - Hello to everyone, I have a few for me relevant questions that I can't get answered by myself... About relationship. I'm together for almost 3 months with the person for whom my feelings have gone wild, REALLY wild. The same thing happens to he...

I feel like I've traded one dad for another!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - i recently turned 18. Like most teenagers, i have been long awaiting this time period in my life. Well the time came and all i want to do is have fun. but its like i cant. iv been with my boyfriend for 3 years. hes always been kinda controlling and ...

I have never felt the massive butterflies in a relationship

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26 October 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2years (with a 1 year break between) He is my first boyfriend and i do love him. However I sometimes get doubts about our relationship. Its nothing he has done as he is wonderful to me and always puts 100% ...

How can I show her I'm telling the truth?

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26 October 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and three months. I am very much in love with her, but I have done things in the past which made me lose her trust. I never cheated on her, nor have I ever checked out any girl. I talked to this ...

I really want a boyfriend! Everyone else has one!

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26 October 2010 (F) - I really like this boy at school but i dont know how to get him to like me i really want a boyfriend soon because all of my other friends have one please help asap! thanks...

Signs a guy likes you...or not?

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26 October 2010 (F) - What are some signs that a guy likes you? And what are some signs a guy doesn't? Please include body language, eye contact...etc. I need help ):...

Do guys like curly hair?

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26 October 2010 (?) - oky i want to get a perm ... this well make my hair go curly. I have wavy hair but i straighten it like almost everyday. however im thinking about it a lot because i wonder if guys like really curly hair? or are atleast okay with it.?...

I love dudes but can't get one!

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26 October 2010 (F) - dear cupid, i dont know whats wrong with me i love dudes,but cant seem to get one! im not ugly at all but i am awkardly tall does that effect the guysopionon on me? i mean i get guys, but mostly out of town and if i do it really dosent work o...

I'm getting bored, and wondering about his ex

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26 October 2010 (F) - Hey guys, thanks for reading this long question. I dont quite now where to start. So i'm with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. And we spend all the spare time we have with each other, which is everyday. And once a week he goes out to the pub with...

I don't want to be disappointed again but I don't want to send him the message that I'm not interested because I am.

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26 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid~ I've liked this guy for years, literally. We're both in high school, he's kind of perfect even though he obviously has imperfections. But I accept him and, when we talk, he seems to accept mine. I swear we connect in a way I've never fe...

Is my relationship with my father influencing my dating?

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26 October 2010 (F) - Do I have daddy issues? About 3 years ago my dad stopped talking to me and yes, we live in the same house. I don't know why but I was a bit of a rebel. Nothing dramatic but I use to skip school and come home late. He used to lock me out of the ho...

Why is he withdrawing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I had been dating this guy for just about 2 years. I guess back in February his company was bought out by another. They cut his pay in half, cut his hours. he started getting very withdrawn. About three weeks ago he decided that his depression wasnt ...

British reserve getting in the way of approaching an American girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - I am a college student who has come from the UK to America, and I just don't know what to do romantically. I am rather shy, and anhedonic, so I have difficulty just relaxing and having fun with women. There is one girl I really like who's really ...

Do I tell my g/f about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

Started out great... Now it's fizzling!!

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26 October 2010 (F) - I started seeing this guy about 6 weeks ago, we have known each other for like a year and a half but not socially. He was so sweet to start with, I would hang out with him at work then he'd drop me home at like 3am, he took me out, he was love...

Are these questions leading up to Xmas?

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26 October 2010 (F) - Yesterday, while driving with my boyfriend on a very very long trip we somehow got to the topic of proposals. He then wanted to ask me questions for future reference and to not "look too much into it." He asked what kind of metals (gold, silver, ...