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Archived questions from: October, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

By the hair of my chinny chin chin...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - hi my question is a quick one, im dating a smart beautiful girl whos been great so far and i have nothing bad to say about her, theres just one thing that bugs me - every time im with her, she has a few hairs on her chin and i just dont have to ...

Can a gift get an ex back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Do men really care if you put a lot of thought into a gift for them or not? i bought my then boyfriend a vintage concert t-shirt to replace the one he got destroyed and had to give it to him after we broke up cause i don't need it... He was ...

Are baby steps the right way to go about this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I am in love with my ex still, its been 3 months till our horrible break up and well, he called me (i was strong) and he said he wanted to work things out, things were okay and kinda flirty, but if hes working things out or trying to work things out ...

He's smoking again and I consider this like cheating!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 20 (almost 21) and have been together for a little over four months now. He was a smoker for two years before he started dating me and he told me he would quit once we started dating; that was the ultimatum I set for him ...

Ex says he can't trust me but I want him back.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were very close friends for 3 years before we started going out, i thought he was amazing, then suddenly there was just no trust in the relationship. He constantly went through my phone and I admit, I don't really have ...

I don't know if I should dump my needy boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - well im dating this guy he is a very nice guy but he calls 24 seven. he never leaves me alone. i need time for my self and he wants me to be around him and i have things to do he would yell at me some times for saying i couldnt come over or talk he ...

Only one date in eight years; need some reassurance

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - Hi. I am 34, single and never been married. I have had one relationship, with a woman, for 10 months, eight and a half years ago. Since then, I have been on one date. I have made friends, like I had an older gay guy friend for two years. Then...

Is he pulling my leg here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - i've been working at my job for 3 years, just like 2 years ago this guy started well like 3 months in to him working then we started having sex but he says he didnt want anything serious but is talking about he wants me to be his baby momma number ...

Why do they only seem to want to be friends with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - Hi! My situation is wired because I'm 22 and I'm still virgin. I'm not ugly but always I have problem to have relationships. Some of the girls are curious to know me but after we pass some time everything changes and most of them want to be only be ...

Sometimes it's clear for me to see how much he loves me but other times I feel like he doesn't care at all.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I don't really know what to say about this situation so I'm just gonna vent and ask for advice. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months. I've had my share of boyfriend and he's only the second one I've ever loved. He loves me too and I can ...

I would like to see her more often but I don't think she feels the same way...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - Hi. I am in a new relationship about 16 days. We met with each other from a social networking website. Our first date was great. Afterwards, the problems began. She was and is talking about freedom, her own personal space etc. and i told that it's ...

Has he met someone else or just busy with his studies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - hey, I am 22 years and an indian. I've been in a relationship with a guy from almost 8 months but we've been friends for about a year. we plan on getting married after 3 years. we are both are still studyin(pg). he has been acting strange lately, ...

I'm 16 and think I'm in love with my 23 year old boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 and I've been talking to a much older guy for about 3 years now. I really like him and feel like I'm in love with him. I know he knows I have a thing for him and he did say he does too but it's hard because of the age and a few other ...

Is it normal to not be affectionate with my family but I am with my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - I don't cuddle my family and rarly kiss them or tell them I love them, but I cuddle and kiss my girlfriend ands tell her I love her alot, is this normal?... Or am I crazy?...

He says he really likes me but doesn't want a girlfriend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for a few months now (I have not been sleeping with him) ... He comes down basicully every night after work and college and we watch some t.v and chat. We do sleep in the same bed, although we are not having sex. He seems ...

Opinions on the minimum and maximum ages to date.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I'm a 16, and curious as to your opinion as to what the minimum and maximum age to date would be and why....

He distanced himself from me after my father passed away

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I had been dating this guy for about three weeks when my father died suddenly. When this happened he told me that he wasn't the one who should be there for me and that I needed to be with my family and friends. This was about a week ago and sin...

I have feelings for my boyfriend's best friend but he has a girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Okay, so I've been dating my boyfriend for a couple months now. And the one thing on the back of my mind, is his best friend. I've started developing feelings for him, and it's just come on so randomly. There's just something about him, that clicks ...

B/f dates all these other girls but calls me his "wife"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend who loves me a lot and whom i love a lot too. he has had 2 other girls in his life which he truly loved. am the 3rd one. apart from that he dates 4 girls with whom he does not has true intention. it happens that last time i...

I can't even get a one night stand!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Why is it so hard to get into a relationship? I can't even get a date only a one night stand. The men that want me are too feminine, if i wanted a sensitive partner id turn to women. All the stuck up preps get the guy while the socially awkward girl ...

His text to his friend has hurt my feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - ive been together with my partner for 2 years, earlier this feb he wrote a fb message to his female friend about her friend. he wrote OMG WHO IS YOUR FRIEND? i might have to marry her. and his friend replied oo got a crush? ill let her know. he ...

If he needs to watch porn does it mean I am not enough?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I am not sure whether to be offended or not I've been with my boyfriend for roughly 2 years and the only time ive known him to put porn on is when he is trying to wind me up by putting it on the computer so i can see it, but i have recently noticed ...

I have a crush on my bank teller!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - So it's been a couple years since I've really liked someone. I had my heart crushed so I decided to take some time to focus on myself and what I want out of life. Recently this new guy started working at the bank I go to, and it has certainl...

How to deal with a girl who is always bored

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I have a girlfriend that is always bored. before i met her i was never going anywhere or doing anything. she likes to do things bt get upset when she ask me what i want to do but i always say i dont know. what should i do?...

Going to sit at a table full of girls, the same one that the girl I love sits at. what do I talk about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - Ok, there is this girl I like a lot, but I would more say it is I love her a lot. She doesn't know I love her. I just want to be friends with her and build a relationship. I am planning to sit at her table at lunch on Monday and I don't know what to ...

What's up with the 'wink'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5142 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - This is something which has been puzzling me recently. I started a new career/job about a year ago and there is a guy who works there occasionally. When he started seeing me around he winked at me. We hadn't really introduced ourselves properly or ...

He's jealous because of the sexual things I did with my ex!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - i have a question... my boyfriend of 3 years is jealous of the fact that i gave my ex boyfriend oral sex and he ejaculated in my mouth, and ive been with him for 3 years and he has not done it 2 me. first of all my ex boyfriend treated me like a ...

I just lost the love of my life... how do I get over him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I just lost the love of my life I'm so sad. I can't believe he said we should go our own way. I feel dead, my heart is broken. I really love him. How do I get over him? ...

Am I being taken for granted or am I just seeking for too much?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - My fiance who I have been for with 7 years is a nice guy but I do not know if he really cares about me. He has forgotten by birthday twice, does not buy me things unless I ask and never comments to me about looking pretty or anything. Even my ...

Threesomes... good or bad idea???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - What do you think.... threesomes, good or bad idea?? in general! Ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years now and our sex life is just fine, we still have just as much sex now as when we first started out but if im being honest, I would ...

Can 6 inches be satisfying to women who have been with very well-endowed men?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - My penis is only about 6 inches long on a good day, but have decent girth at about 5.5-6.0 inches. I need an honest answer from women if you think this is enough to be satisfying if you've been with well endowed men before. I'm older, and ...

How to really ease into the relationship again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - We were in a time of "space that he wanted". It has been 1 month now. He has talked tome briefly, he is taking it slow. I had plans already before all this happened and got a job and am moving next week. Last time I talked with him he was very ...

What do I say to him when we meet tomorrow to talk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5142 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - hey guys im sorry if this is a little long but you need to know the full storry to understand. my best friend is a guy and he likes me, hes liked me for over a year and about 2 month ago he asked me out and i ended up saying yes because i thought ...

Crush gone wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5142 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hello, well, I need some advice on this guy. You see I liked him for a long time, sometimes he used to give me small signals that he liked me. He would try hard to get as close as he could to me. (That means outside my personal space bubble, or not ...

I'm wondering if its stupid or foolish in a sense that I'm 'waiting' for another chance at 'us'.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - to make a long story short, i was in a relationship with this guy for about a year. in the beginning, i lied to him about my past, which really hurt him and tainted the relationship. we took a 'break' after that, and since then we've been in this ...

Why does sex hurt so much when I'm on top?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - OK so im 16 years old and sexually active, but theres a problem and i dont know if its normal or what should i do. whenever me and my bf are having sex and he is on top it doesn't hurt me at all not one bit, But then when he tells me to get on top ...

How to avoid being used financially

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I have tried to keep my relationship problems away from this site as I do not want my advice to be assosiated to my own questions. However I have now learned an important lesson that I want to share with the rest of you, in the hopes that you will ...

He asked me why I broke up with him. Should I tell him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a man for just 7 weeks. After spending more and more time with him, I realized that he makes rude comments, says condescending things, interrupts conversations to be self-promoting, and is generally more antagonizing than ...

Does this mean I'm fat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Okay, well me and this guy got together over a year ago, He wasn't a virgin, he lost his virginity to a slightly over weight girl. which I didn't mind at first. I was a virgin but later in our relationship I lost my virginity to him. I'm not ...

Newly returned to the dating scene -- how to intoduce a "friend"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5142 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - i'm divorced and have been out of the dating scene for quite a while. i am 50 y.o. i have a girlfriend so do i introduce her as my girlfriend, or my lady friend? she introduced me as her man friend. im new to this since being divorced....

Still feeling horny for my cousin, even although I now have my own girlfriend... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - My cousin is my first love. She didn love me. But, we did make out twice. We were close. I moved on. That was three years back. I met this girl in college. I am 21, she s 20. She s not hot or have a body that everyone will crave but she is cute ...

He calls me horrible names

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - hey guys im kind of new at this thing but i really need an outside perspective. me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year and half now. when he gets mad at me he calls me some horrible names ex:lard ass,bitch,exc.. and it makes me ...

Shouldn't she just trust me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5142 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - im seeing this girl now for 6 months now and we really get on well, we cant believe how things are after happening so quick but we didnt try slow them down because everything feels right. but latey we are having a few little arguments. when we are ...

Girlfriend not interested is sex any more

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend on and off for about 8 years, and we have a 5 year old daughter together. We have been back together now about 8 months, and I am making a very sincere effort to work things out this time around. She had wanted to ge...

Do I just kiss and say goodby to this man, or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - hello,im a 46 year old woman on disability, less than $7,00.oo a month, and im in this relationship with a man 66 years old. he shows his love when im with him, i mean the kissing, holding me, telling me how happy he is to have me, but theres 1 ...

Anyone have any advice on how to better my sex life with my fiance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Okay, I'm new to this. My fiance and I have been together almost 2 years now. When we started out, we constantly on a regular daily basis would have sex. After about six months things started to calm down we would go from every day to 3-4 times a ...

Mixed signals... or false hope?

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30 October 2010 (F) - My bf boke up with me after one year and 5 months. We never had a real fight a couple disagreements but other than that always had agreat time together. I let him get to know my children and now it is over, cause he said he is scared, confused and ...

I think I'm hanging on to hope here purely because of the 25 years I've known this person.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5142 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - In January this year an old friend from university came back into my life - we met up for a drink and had a lovely evening together. A week later he called and said he'd love to see me again, but not as a friend. I was really shocked but flattered. ...

My boyfriend was naked with his cousin in our bed!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Me and my bf have been with each other for 8 months. we asked his cousins to come play cards and they did. we all got totally wasted on vodka and beer and they were takinh pills. well i passed out in the next room and i woke up wondering were my bf ...

Do men really get stuck emotionally between two women? Looking for male answers but females are welcome

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Do men really get stuck and can't choose between two women? If you have been in this situation please share. Who did you ultimately choose and why?...