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Dating: Help and advice

Should I move in with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - ive got a boyfried who ive been with nearly three years, we are going to be moving in together in a few weeks time although i have doubts. this is because ive just started a new job where i have met a really lovely guy i cant stop thinking about him ...

I miss her so much! Can I try to get her back again? Can't even imagine my life without her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I were together for close to five years. About 3 years in, after living together for a year, she broke up with me and decided to move out. She said she'd lost that spark and felt like I was taking her for granted. It comp...

Is this wrong or not... what my boyfriend said?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - ok so thursday was me and my boyfriends year anniversary so we went out and had dinner and yesterday was a second part to it we went and saw a scary movie and went to a haunted house well i know he checks out girls cause i see him but last time he ...

I just want to tell him to fukc off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - okay i put a post up here before about me going for dinner with the ex, now in it i flirted slightly not too much but he didn make any comment, he wasn't really looking at me to be honest he couldnt wait for me to leave but then he said can i met ...

My fiance got arrested, am I being selfish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - My fiance got into some trouble with the law a few days ago. We are all pretty upset about it, including him. When we went to bail him out of jail, he went straight to his dad and hugged him for minutes and broke down. He hugged me for about 5 ...

I think he is only with me because of our baby. How can I be sure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - I think he is only with me because of our baby. How can I be sure? He in no way shows that he loves me or even cares about my feelings. When I'm angry at him he never apologises and tries to make out like I'm the bad person. He never wants to spend ...

Aaaah!!! He loves us both!!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and I, had been arguing about the fact that he still keeps pictures, on both shoebox and on his laptop of his ex girlfriend. One time, he told me that he love his ex girlfriend and that he will always love her, but that he ...

I hate the thought of him with someone else and I am angry with him for lying to me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years about three months ago, mainly because our sex life had declined and I had started liking someone else. Since then nothing has happened between me and the other guy, and I have been seeing a lot of my ex ...

Is this considered cheating on my long distance boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - Is this considered cheating on my long distance boyfriend? We are in a LDR in different countries in Europe. We are both in university. I am supposed to go for a walk with a guy I've met recently in my uni. He's fun, I've had dinner with him and ...

Does anyone have a boyfriend with a super-hot or successful ex-girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - Hi, ladies! I've been reading this site forever, and it's inspired me to write a story for a women's media outlet that I hope will help a lot of girls and women. I'm looking for women who have a boyfriend with an amazing, successful, super-hot ...

I'm really missing my ex-girlfriend after breaking up with her and realise how good we were for each other.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

23 October 2010 (M) - I'm really missing my ex-girlfriend after breaking up with her and realise how good we were for each other. Here's my story. I met my girlfriend at 18, she was quite out of my league but we were at university together and just had an amazing chem...

Why won't he admit it??? Are there any MORE lies???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (?) - I actually was talking about this on here earlier. The thing is ive been with a guy for almost a year now. Weve had our ups and downs before. After petty breakups for no reasons, we got back together and went to our home town for a visit. We got a ...

Can anyone explain this weird phenomenon?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

23 October 2010 (M) - Can anyone explain this weird phenomenon? When I was single I had barely gotten any female attention. Now that I'm not single anymore, it's like suddenly they are lining up to hit on me, seduce me, even try to kiss me. Okay mostly they are drunk ...

Does that gesture mean "I love you" ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - Hello, people. I just wanna ask you something.. Ok, first off, let's make things clear: my boyfriend of 15 months doesn't say "I love you" too often. When he does, he says it with a low voice, he's not used to express his feelings, never ...

How can I encourage him to show his feelings more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5148 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - So i'm 21 and in my first long relationship and it's almost 6 months now. I'm white and I'm dating an Indian guy who asked me out after getting to know each other at school in chem class. The relationship is secret from his family which i totally ...

I want to start looking again but I just can't. My heart was broken

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (?) - My last break up was a year and a half ago and proberbly my worst. I did so much for her and she cheated on me, I suspected and found out on my own. I actually thought i was gonna marry her. Like they always say - lets be fucking friends!i told her ...

How can I stop being a menstrual bitch?!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - It's my time of the month at the moment and I am being such a miserable cow. All I want to do it sit on the sofa, watch tv and eat Chinese food and chocolate cake. The worst thing is that I'm being so horrible and mean to my boyfriend. He's ...

I'm really afraid that I will go back to him, which is the last thing I want.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - I was finally able to end very emotionally abusive relationship. I'm not saying it wasn't any of my fault--I still blame myself for being an enabler and not setting any boundaries with him. He stalked me for a while afterwards and while I thin...

Why is he doing this after a year?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - Thanks in advance for reading! First, some back story-- a year ago, I was in a FWB/ casual dating type situation with this guy, we'll call him X. After about six weeks, I ended things with him, and started a serious relationship with another guy, A, ...

I slept with a prostitue and it wrecked my love and wrecked my life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (M) - 4 months ago, the girl I love broke up with me, justifiably, because I hurt her. We had met whilst both studying the same course, and when we got together, she had already been besotted with me for some time. We we're together for about a year, and ...

How can I keep our relationship a bit challenging without giving him the impression that I'm not interested anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - The guy i like says he likes a challenge but shocked me when he told me that he loves me so soon into our relationship. As i think so too, i replied back with "i love you too". How can I keep our relationship a bit challenging without giving him the ...

What to do when your boyfriend comments on his ex's picture?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - Ok, so my boyfriend and I have been together for a month and 9 days so far. He already told me he loved me and i told him i love him too, but yesterday i found out that he commented on some other girls picture. Its not the fact that he commented ...

How can I get closer to him... (he has autism)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - hey, Theres this guy i really fancy from a club i go to *Jacob*. he's not down all that often, and when he is, it's never really for more than 2 weeks. anyway, i'm not all that good at flirting, and he's also autistic, so he might not be able to i...

Does my boyfriend love football more than he loves me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is obsessed with football. Absoloutly obbsessed. and many times i think to myself that he loves football waayy much more than he loves me. He's told me he loves me but the truth is, he'd much rather be playing football. How can i conn...

I don't know what to get my boyfriend for his birthday!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - Its about a month until my boyfriends birthday (and mine.. because its on the same day) anyway.. I dont know what to get him, ive asked him and he's just told me to get him a football or something .. I probrably will get him a football but i want ...

Why does he keep bringing up this other girl???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - Background information : So there is this guy, I met him when I first moved here. We went through a lot of drama together but then I finally said yes to going out with him. We dated for 5 months and then abruptly ended the relationship. I found out ...

DO women have better sex than men???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (M) - My partner was basically saying in not so many words that I should be jealous that women have better sex than men. I.e. better and longer orgasms. I felt quite annoyed about this, as I had never really thought about it until this conversation. No...

I want him to make me WANT to be his girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - There's a guy I'm seeing. Its been going on for about 6 months and we've gotten pretty close (no sex) and he wants me to be his girlfriend but I keep saying no. Not because I'm being difficult but because he doesn't treat me the way I would like a ...

Does he just want the physical with me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in a relationship with a guy from past ten months.. but everything seems to have changed by now.. earlier he used to be all luvie-duvie, talking to me all night.. but now he wants to sleep early, does not want to listen to what I g...

Why won't he just leave me alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - Hi, i was seeing this guy for a few months, i then saw he was quite a jealous person and was after control of me. Slowly i have begun to detatch from him and told him we are not compatible and just to leave it now, as for another thing i dont think ...

Should I still try to meet my boyfriend's friend who I liked before I met my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - well heres the thing, i have a boyfriend who i really do care about but before i started going out with him i met this other guy, well not exactly met i just saw him and thought he was really cute so i started to like him. Hes my boyfriends friend, ...

I feel I'm stuck in a rut... Great advice needed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (M) - Hey guys i recently been having problems in my relationship with my girlfriend. we have been together for about 3 years now we have a 17 month old baby and shes fantastic. the best thing that ever happened to me. the issues i have been having with ...

Help!!! How do I confront her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (M) - Okay, so I'm 18 and a senior in high school. I have been raised a gentleman and I keep fit playing various sports and going to the gym, so I'm not unattractive. I have been in a relationship for a year now, and I have very strong feelings towards ...

Been dumped but not actually told?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - Has anyone ever been in a situation whereby you have been dumped but not actually told and you are given the silent treatment? Me and my boyfriend have not been speaking for a week now due to an argument (my fault), I tried to get in contact but hes ...

He says he loves me yet he's snogged someone else!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - hiya, im 15 and ive been going for my boyfriend for 5 months but a couple of weeks ago he was at his best friend's party and got completely drunk and snogged another girl? but the girl was sober and shes liked him for ages and she pulled him into a ...

How can I get him to see things from my side?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - I am in a relationship with a guy in another country. I am planning to go there to see him, because we want to spend time together. The thing is that its cheaper for me to just buy him a ticket to come to my country, but he says he doesn't want me ...

He's making me feel worthless... what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - I'm a 23 year old female who is dating a 27 year old man and our relationship to me is going nowhere. he never wants to listen to my feelings or how i feel. he is always right and im always to blame. i had to basically stop talking to my guy friends ...

He's changed since I found out my mum had only a few months to live...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - Hiya guys not really sure what im asking for here but ive been on the site a while and have a problem and would like some outside opinions. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 18 months it was the typical started as friends and it g...

What if we like each other and then cant afford to visit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - A while ago I met someone online who told me that he liked me about a month ago. I know to be careful on the Internet as people may not be who they say they are, but given the site I met him on, as well as seeing photos and talking through Skype, he ...

I told him I quit my escort job and now he wants to date me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - We met about a year ago in strip club where I was working. He tipped me good and told me that he want to meet me outside of the club. So I gave him my number. He knew I was escorting so he asked to meet. I really liked him so i went to see him. I e...

I am falling for my ex's cousin!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - For about a week my feelings for one of my closest friends have grown even more. We talk every night on msn because we don't see each other at school and talk for hours on end. And on Tuesday night I wrote on my personal message saying 'your so ...

We want to have sex but what goes where?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - I've been going out with the sweetest guy anyone can get and we are starting to think about sleeping together. He isn't pressuring me into doing anything i don't want to because we made a decision on it together and we arranged a date. The thing is ...

ITs been 14 months and we love each other, so why wont he commit?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 14 months. He is 39 and I am 31. He has a little boy age 3 and I have 3 children ages 14,9,9. We accept each others children but he just won't commit in any way. We live separately and his son lives with his mum! We ...

Does anyone have any idea what this discharge could be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - So i stayed with my boyfriend for a week and a half, and as you could imagine there was a lot of sex. Just before he brought me home, the discharge from me was tinted red with blood and i had already had my period and havent bled anymore since, now ...

She said she just wanted to be friends but then we made out a lot.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5150 days ago

23 October 2010 (M) - A couple weeks ago this girl im friends with told me she just wanted to be friends theres more to the story i posted it on here before. So me her and a friend went to a concert and she was touchy feely with with me so i was confuzed and last friday ...

I am a little bit scared at meeting her parents!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (M) - ok im 14 going on fifteen and im not a virgin but i got a problem. my girlfriend and i just recently got back together we have been together 3 times now but my question is i'm going to meet her parents and im a little bit scared that they wont like ...

My boyfriend complains that I am not pulling my weight!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - My relationship is on the verge of breaking... or I think ...and the sad thing is that I am not sure how to fix it or if it can be fix at all. The thing is that I moved in to another city to be with my bf about a year ago. About 6 months ago, I ...

We think she has become an attention whore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - I have known my best friends, "Yve" and "Kali" for my entire live. I'm the youngest of our trio however I was always the most "Mother Hen-ish", but as recently as two years ago Yve became much more independant than always clinging onto me. At fir...

He is a good guy but often bails out on me, tells lies and puts me on the back burner!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - I've been with this guy for almost 5 months now (we're both 19). He's a good guy. He means well, and I know he cares about me. The only problem is his lack of maturity. He's a month away from possibly losing his license for a year, and he's yet to ...

Should I tell my boyfriend I still have nightmares of being sexually abused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, my boyfriend and I were talking about our relationship this morning and he asked me what my first time was like. He's my first lover and I didn't know how to answer. It took him four different tries to really...do everything ...

Boyfriend wanted a break and said we may get back together in the future

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - What does it mean when a guys he needs a break and says we may get back together, but we may not? We had been dating for 14 months and were suppose to be getting married this summer. We broke up about three weeks ago. He had said I was the one for ...

I'm ashamed for people to know that I'm attracted to big women!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

23 October 2010 (M) - Hi, Over the last couple of years I have been very attracted to big women but havent told anyone about it. Its my deepest secret and I have a huge problem with it. I am attracted to all women but there is just something about a big woman that m...

Will my boyfriend notice that I am a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - i'm 22 yrs old and i'm a virgin by december im going to cabo to be with my bf and he thinks im not a virgin ive masturbated and donde sexual things but never had a man in my life and im freakin out and im scared to be with him will he notice im a ...