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Dating: Help and advice

How have you used the power of suggestion to get a man going?

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7 October 2010 (F) - The power of suggestion is awesome. What is some of the things you gals have done or said to your partner to get him going before you ever see him? ...

How can I get my boyfriend to spend more time with me ?

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7 October 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend but he does not spend much time with me and he won't invite me to his house. But the time we spend together is really nice and really romantic and I know he cares about me so how can I get him to spend more time with me ??? xxx ...

How can 2 guys cause so much confusion???

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7 October 2010 (F) - Hey everyone. have posted on here before, and this is a follow on from my last question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-stay-single-and-try-getting-over.html Long story short, 2 guys, Adam and Dave, Dave being most recent ex and Ad...

Should I move on and forget these past 6 months?

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7 October 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 6 months broke up this Tuesday. I'm empty inside and I don't know what to do. He was my first boyfriend, he gave me so much in life, infact...he gave me a point to live. But since we got back to school things had decayed, he ...

Did she cheat when we were first starting out?

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7 October 2010 (?) - My girlfriend has had a series of FWB relationships before me. Most of them overlapped considerably. When I started out with her, we were FWB, but it quickly evolved into a serious, committed relationship after a few months. I found out later on ...

Is there any point in holding on to him hoping he will change his mind?

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7 October 2010 (F) - my bf of 2 years has walked out on me and our 1yr old son, he says not to take it personally he just doesnt want to be in a relationship with me or anyone else, 10 days later we ended up having sex and are still having sex every week, he says that ...

Going down on a girl and tasting urine!

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7 October 2010 (M) - Going down on a girl and tasting urine! I'm 22 and every time i go down on my girlfriend i either taste or smell urine, i'm guessing this is pretty normal? But the taste is putting me off deeply, i am struggling to eat her out even though i des...

If I "do it" with a girl will I know whether or not I'm bi or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - Hey i recently found out for sure i was bi. (i sorta thought i was when i was younger but i would always deny it) I know i would never want a relationship with a girl but i get turned on just thinking of doing sexual stuff with a girl. I also have a ...

First time my boyfriend has ever been violent, should I give him a chance if he goes to anger management?

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7 October 2010 (F) - Two days ago, I tried to talk to my boyfriend about his behavior dealing with other girls, not the first time out of 4 years we'd talked about this. I had prepared myself to finally let him go (or at least I thought I had). I did it all in a very ...

Should I get pregnant out of revenge?

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7 October 2010 (F) - Hello my name is Haibine, i've dating my bf two years, but he had a girl while he was with me but i didn't know that. when find out he told me he leave the i didnt trust him, i was cleaning his room and i find a letter the girl sent him, she told ...

Still going to lunch with an ex boyfriend

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7 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend wants to go to lunch with her ex boy friend I told her I did not want her seeing him yet she said they were only friends and she wanted to remain friends and I had no right telling her who she could see or not see. She claimed I do ...

Hmmm... Does my ex still have feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - my ex and me broke up i left him and he moved out so i went back home with the kids he i never spoke to him in a month and now hes doing things i dont understand like he still might like me? or dont? i cant tell pls help... For starters my question...

Want to move on but I can't! Help!

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7 October 2010 (F) - I just broke up with my boyfriend, of a year and 8 months, last week. Througout our relationship he has cheated 4 times, mistreated me, lied to pe, played games, and disrespected me. Everytime he cheated i took him back and regardless of how he was ...

How do you get confidence up around girls and respond to certain things they say?

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7 October 2010 (M) - How do you get more confident around girls for dating? I am 17 and pretty much never had a girlfriend, i get along well with a lot of girls, i can talk to them about anything, but i can never ask them out as i just dont have the confidence to. I am ...

My girlfriend is still living with her ex! I don't know if I can take it anymore!

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7 October 2010 (M) - Dont know wot to do? My partner still lives with her ex as she has 2 boys with him, we've been together for a year i love every minute i spend her, she cnt move out at the moment as the father of the kids has just been diagnosed with cancer an...

I need help to know if I'm ready for sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - Hey me and my Boyfriend have been together for about 7months and I don't know if we are ready for 'it'. We have been discussing sex for the past few days and I'm scared. I think I am ready but he really wants to do it because he loves me so much and ...

Never got over my first kiss, should I leave my boyfriend to give it another try?

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7 October 2010 (F) - Back in high school i dated this boy for 1 1/2 months. i know its nothing, but he was my first kiss. It's been 3 years since then, but i cant get him out of my mind. We've hung out a few times since the breakup, but we always end up pissing each ...

My boyfriend is too busy for me, what can I do?

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7 October 2010 (F) - Hello guys My boyfriend and have been together for 5months,but we've known each other for 3years. last year I moved but we kept in touch. we would email and text a lot and at some point we realized we had feelings for each other then we started ...

He took it nonchalantly when I said "I love you"

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7 October 2010 (F) - I am 60 and have been dating a 63 yr. old widower for about a month and a half. He has been telling me for a couple of weeks now that he loves me.. I was hesitant to reply in kind because I didn't think I knew him well enough to respond the same. ...

Stress induced fighting is ruining my relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

7 October 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend of nearly a year got into a fight last week, which ended with me blowing up at her because we had made plans earlier in the week but she suddenly canceled them without talking to me about it. She said that she felt scared after ...

He said he hasn't cheated but I feel cheated!

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7 October 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and half now and I am due to have our baby day now, last year we had problems and he left me but we sorted things out and in january i found out I was pregnant, since then he has been amazing kind and caring ...

Boy drama, help me out... wanna make him miss me!

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7 October 2010 (F) - Ok so me and my ex have been on/off for the last 4 years. We go throught different stages, nice and bad. The bad where we just seem to argue and he breaks up with me. He goes sour and never wants to talk to me. He is super stubborn. He says a few ...

He's an Atheist, I'm not. I love him but we have a few issues...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - I was raised a Catholic but during my early teen years, I started researching everything I could about religion because life made little sense to me. At 18, I don't go to church, don't practice anything but the belief that there is something more ...

I'm sad that he feels the need to compete with me...

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7 October 2010 (M) - Dear cupid, Here is my situation. I have been in a loving relationship for just over a year. My partner is 30, I am 26. He in previous relationships was always referred to as the pretty one, the sexy one, the funny one and the popular one, a...

Advice needed quickly! How do you know if a guy is sincere?

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7 October 2010 (F) - How do you know if a guy is being sincere (as opposed to the extreme of just wanting to sleep with you and then leaving)? Just for context: I was in a more serious relationship with this one guy, but the relationship didn't work out ultimately b...

What do you do when your boyfriend has feelings for someone else?

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7 October 2010 (M) - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost three years. We have had one of the best and strongest relationships that I have ever been in before. We get along great and have really developed a strong bond with each other. A year ago we started ...

He used me, than says he wants to be single!

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7 October 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for about 2 months. Today he told me that he couldn't do this anymore and isn't ready for a relationship. Why didn't he just say so, in the first place? Why did he lead me on for 2 months? He promised me that we'd go out this...

One night stands to get over my ex??? Opinions please!

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7 October 2010 (M) - hi guys, An oppertunity has presented itself to have sex with someone im not completely familiar with, but i may be mis-reading the signs...shes friends with a friend and they have know eachother for quite a while (he introduced us over msn). ...

How can love ever be quantifiable??

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7 October 2010 (F) - I have a question that is bugging me.... why do people say stuff like "I will never love anyone as much as my ex" when they're with someone new? Surely you either love someone or you don't - simple. I can honestly say that I know I loved my ex bo...

Heartbroken but still in love... please help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

7 October 2010 (M) - dear cupid, ive been with my girlfriend for a year and 2 months. but the last few days have become chaotic. i found out she was cheating on me for 6 months while we've been dating. since i found out yesterday ive been throwing up and crying until...

Her losing all this weight is making me feel insecure... help!

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7 October 2010 (M) - Me and my girl have been together 5 months now. She is 26 im 23 she was married for 5 years to a guy that cheated on her quite a few times. She says she only married him because he got her pregnant. She has lived a pretty bad life childhood was ...

I almost raped my girlfiend. HELP!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

7 October 2010 (M) - ok so me and my girl have talked about sex. i'm ready she's not. i'm happy with that. she's happy with that. right? so then, we're happily making out when i feel i'm starting to lose control. i'm starting to go further automatically. so we stop and ...

Performance anxiety... what is it and how do I fix it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - I am in a time of my life where I am so happy. I met a wonderful man back in early July at a time when I just ended a relationship with emotionally unavailable man. My boyfriend is a wonderful man. He makes me feel loved, adored, safe, respected and ...

She likes porn now... so what's the problem???

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7 October 2010 (M) - 9m relationship - fantastic - my girl shes hotttt, crazy about me (brings a long stem rose to the airport), very very hot (did i say that lol - 50kg, great ass, cute waiste, etc) loves to dance, (when im with her), just a bubbly vivacious girl (and ...

I'm unable to cope with my sister's new relationship.

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7 October 2010 (M) - My younger sister and I have always been very close, as teenagers I always looked out for her, particularly when it came to her relationships. While I never once interfered I always pride myself as being a good judge of character and it seemed like ...

Did my boyfriend do something with a prostitute whilst on holiday?

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7 October 2010 (F) - Well recently my boyfriend went on a trip to France with a group of his friends. They were all couples and he was the only guy without his girlfriend there, I couldn’t go because I was in college. Because he wasn’t there as a couple, he told me he ...

Should I tell him I love him?

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7 October 2010 (F) - Two years ago I found myself suddenly and involuntarily attracted to my then acquaintance, now friend. My feelings appeared to come from nowhere because I'd known him for a while previous and nothing had clicked except that he was a nice guy. At the ...

How do I repair this?

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7 October 2010 (M) - Ok this is going to be long but please read cuz I really need help and advice. The past couple of months I have been getting closer to a friend. I have a lot of feelings for her. She knows this and I believe she has the same or at least had. Bas...

Is he just being a friend or does he want more than friendship?

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7 October 2010 (F) - Hello, I have a male friend that I fell in love with, but my problem is that I cannot read him. I told him about my feelings and the only reply I got was "how shocked he was". He isn't direct when it comes to his feelings, so I find myself havi...

I was curious as to where my boyfriend lived, so I drove by his house but I think he saw me!

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7 October 2010 (F) - I was curious as to where my boyfriend lived. So when I thought he was going to be gone, I drove by his house. I think he saw me, cause just as I was going by, he was backing out of his drive. He hasn't said anything, but I think he saw me. I ...

I just don't know when enough is enough. So can you tell me? When do you stop? When do you give up?

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7 October 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over 10 months now. The first four months were great, after that we had more and more arguements, and between 6-7 months were the worst, it seemed like we were constantly butting heads over everything, but I didn't ...

Do I get bored of guys' attention and how do I stop this?

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7 October 2010 (F) - I get bored ? i think i really don't know what or why i do this .... Well first of i am a 20 year old who has never had a boyfriend ,but always have a few guys who was interested. My problem is that i feel like i lead guys on and once i get there at...

Do you think a constructive relationship can be built around such a mess?

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7 October 2010 (M) - I'm not sure whether I like this girl. If you haven't read my last "question" I will give you a quick overview. She is an actress, very succefull in the UK when she was 18, most 16-25 year olds will know who she is. I recently met up with her ...

She says we're going too fast

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7 October 2010 (M) - I am 16 years old and ive just recently got a girlfriend shes a year older then me,, shes not the first girl ive messed around with if u know what i mean,, but ive known her for about 5 days and shes been wanting to go out with me since she met me,, ...

I want to keep my values *and* get asked out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - Hi I'm 13 years of age. A few days ago I realized that I really like one of my good friends. He is funny,and pretty good looking. A lot of my friends have said we would look good together, but I know he will never ask me out. The reasons why are ...

I'm still in love with my first crush!

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7 October 2010 (F) - I'm still in love with my childhood crush! I've never told him how i feel about him should i? I've been in love with this guy since we were in the 1st grade! From the moment our eyes met eachother i've been in love with him! We are now 22 years old ...

Is this what FWB is all about?

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7 October 2010 (F) - I'm so confused!There's this guy that wanted to get hooked up with me through a mutual friend of ours.We've been talking for 5 months now,BUT!! I found out that this girl that i thought was his girlfriend really is.He lied to me.So when I found out ...

Unmarried, 38, no children... is something wrong with me?

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7 October 2010 (F) - Hey everyone.. would appreciate a little help..Im 38 and just realised Im more than likely never going to meet Mr Right or have children..and I dont know if I like that. Ive probably never actually sat down and thought about it before now, but afte...

Is this actress interested in me?

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7 October 2010 (M) - I met this girl when I was 18, she is a bit famous, an actress. We used to hang out quite a lot, we flirted a lot, but I never made a move- I was young and playing the field and she was a bit too eccentric and high maintenances. Then just a mo...