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Dating: Help and advice

I'm overdue to have this baby and I can't get ahold of him, sometimes! What's up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - Ok i been with my bf for 1 year but was with him 7 months b4 he went to prison and i waited for him and wrote him for 2 years so we been living together for a year he has been there 4 me through everything we gotta baby due any day now and he ...

Broke it off with him, so he can have fun and get it out of his system! But now I miss him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - hi im 18 years old and My boyfriend and I have recently broken up after dating for a year and seven months. I broke up with him on like "break terms" because he wasn't happy. he was always hot and cold when we were together one minute he was lovey ...

Falling for my guy friend..but having sex with him will really hurt my bf! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - I've been in a relationship for the past 6 years! The first 3 years of our relationship i was fitting for our relationship he treated me like crap but now things are really good, I'm young but i do love my boyfriend he is living a couple thousand ...

My lack of experience affects my dating life, badly! Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - ok. so here is another friday night poster. i dont know where to start and i apologise for the length of the post. im approaching 30 and still a virgin. never date, dont approach girls when im out etc. i do go out plenty but always seem to g...

I've reeled her back in but how do I talk to her again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - me and my ex recently broke up on good terms. i saw online that when u stop communicating with her u cud draw her back in...i tried and its working...but now wat? i want us to start back talking regularly but i dont know how to initiate ...

My gut feeling tells me something isn't right here..is he gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - Oh goodness me! I really hope someone is listening out there!! I've been seeing a man for 6 months and I'm getting concerned that he may be gay. He has a premature ejaculation problem - he can only be inside me for less than a minute before he...

He says he is shy because I am black and he is white

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - I own a small shop in a town where i live and most customers comes in not realising i own it.. except old customers, if any new one asks i usually say i work here. Anyway this guy has been asking me to come out for a walk with him in a long time ...

I have so many questions after the break up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - Looking for advice from females here. As you can see, I'm a bit younger than most of the people asking questions on here so if you could take that into account, I'd appreciate it a lot After a break up(6 month relationship) if a girl says things...

What does it mean when a guys says he's "smitten"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - Hey, I'd like some advice on interpreting a comment from a guy, please. I've been seeing a guy from work for a few weeks after chatting for a few months. He arranged some amazing dates for us, and we slept together this week :) Today he sent me a ...

Doubting our relationship, but I'm afraid to break up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and things were great. But lately I've been doubting our relationship. It's just not fun anymore, and he's starting to just annoy me. I would break up with him but some things are holding me back: 1) We ...

Does he need a good bye letter?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - I thought I met the love of my life when I went on vacation in the summer of 08. I was going through so much at the time and I took a trip to clear my head, and there he was, the same person I loved as a little girl growing up. We spoke for hours, ...

Why do they all say "lets just be friends?"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - Hello, I personally have problems getting past the friend zone in terms of relationships with girls. I don't know what it is or I am just too nice or so unoriginal that I come off unattractive. I am slightly over weight which is usual in this ...

What was your most embarrassing moment while on a date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - What was the your most embarassing moment wile on a date? :)...

My boyfriend has a bestfriend that is a female. Need help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - dear cupid, I am not the jealous type at all and honestly i didn't even care up until last month when me and this guy im seeing for about 6 months went on vacation together for my birthday. It was supposed to be a group thing but everyone backed o...

How/where do I tell her I like her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - I've recently started uni and met a girl who I know have a big liking for. We'd spoken online quite a bit before starting and swapped numbers and texted. Now that we're at uni we spek online for hours and in recent times she's invited me out when ...

He thought my friend was me testing him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - I've been like together with this guy for almost 2 months. Today while I was driving my best friend started a conversation with him. After a little bit she gave me back the phone and didn't say anything. I know how she can be so I texted him asking ...

Things are not the same and I feel he may have another girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - hi cupid.. ilove this guy so much..but whenever he talks on the phone..i feel he has another girl..lately things are not the same.. he does show me love at times he seems less interested and doesnt even call me every now and then like he used ...

He is inconsistent and I just want to forget about him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - I know how much I am stupid... In this summer my ex-boyfriend sent me broke up mail which is totally mixed message without any sign. He blamed my fault like race, age and past behavior finally even past trauma. The last sentence was "I stil...

Should I just be patient?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5101 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - I met my boyfriend this January during exchange study. Then the following seven months, we spent almost all of our time together. Then during our final month, I went back to his country and met his family and friends. We are each other first serious ...

Me n my girlfriend caught kissing by her parents

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - Ok i have a problem n i hope i really get a positive solution, i was walking my girlfriend home n for some unlucky reason her mom saw us kissing n holding hands. Now iam afraid i might lose her n i don't want that n neither does she. I know her ...

Should a committed girl talk to every wrong caller ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - I want to know about one thing, about one trait of the girl I loved. I took her number from a guy who used to talk to her at night(he took her number from his friend who was also talking to her parallely). When I got into commitment with ...

My girlfriend says she needs to take a break...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - So, i've been with my girlfriend for a little over 9 months. We hang out a couple days a week and really enjoy spending time with each other. However, a few days ago she invites me over to her house and tells me that she wants to take a break. She ...

MY LDR met her new guy while she was still with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - Me ex girlfriend and I have recently broken up we were in a LDR and I was happy throughout that whole time. However one day she decided to end things and about 2 weeks later I found out that she started to date this guy only a few days after she had ...

Does he still like me? How can I move on. Please help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - Hi All, Please can you advise!! I have recently split with a short term BF. I really really loved him, and am finding it very hard to get over him. He had to change his number, and when I asked he gave me the new one, also, I have been very foolish, ...

I am worried he is still in love with her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - Hey everyone.. I know this is going to be on the lengthy side but I would appreciate your thoughts as this is really important to me. I started dating a man in the Navy a few months ago. We had been friends all throughout high school and I sen...

I don't know if I should or shouldn't tell

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - I just read a guy's recent post about losing trust and respect for his girlfriend after finding out she's been in contact with her ex a lot. It got me wondering if I should tell my boyfriend that before I met him, I was briefly dating a guy who's ...

I've been through the emotional wringer

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - Hey everyone: My ex-girlfriend broke up with me last Friday night. Prior to that, it was a long month whereby she first wanted a break, proceeded by us breaking up for a a couple days, then getting back to "try" (she wanted to try), me not giv...

Have not been introduced to his family after 2 years, should I be concerned?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - Hi, all I need your advice. I have been more than 2 years together with him. My boyfriend seems no intention to introduce me to his family or friends. I have no idea how to deal with this situation. He is living far from his hometown at t...

Men only question, would you be interested in a woman like me??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - For men only! I have 34c breasts. I weigh 165 am 5' 10" dirty blonde hair. I am shy. My eyes are brownish green. By what I told u would u be interested in me?...

Confusing on again, off again relationship, any ideas where his head is??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - Hello. I've found myself in a muddle with a guy and would like some advice. I've known him for eight months, and in that time I've seen him on and off for three times, each time ending with a fight because he 'wasn't sure what he wanted'. We ...

Known him for a long time, like him a lot, should I ask him out??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - i have known this guy for a while now and i have anways loved him sooooooooooo much..but he seems to avoid me sorta..we talk somtimes but not alot...he is usally a jerk to people but not to me...should i take my chance and ask him out?...

I cheated on my gf who cared deeply, I hurt her, I have such remorse, now what??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - *Sighs*...Here it goes. I am 20 years old and my girlfriend is 30 and we have been together for 2 years. She is from another country and I moved there to be with her. I became confused and just obsessively negative about the relationship upo...

I don't love him as he seems to love me, but should I stay for my kid's sake??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - Should I stay with Mr. Wonderful or should I go? Summary: I have loved this great guy mildly for years. He moved from another state to be with me six years ago and we have been through much together. We are not married because we are both skittis...

Crush signs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid are these signs HI cupid their is this boy i like star quarter back of the football team way older than me. Any way i feel like a stalker Ive just met him. He really doesn't know me but when i first walked into a lunch i looked...

I'm terrified my parents will find out I am dating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend at the current time, my parents believe that I shouldn't be dating until I'm 16, now I'm not gonna say that "he's the one" or "you guys just don't understand" because honestly I have no clue whatsoever on what love is or who "...

Dating or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - Ok so me and this girl are getting really close. By that i mean, we flirt alot and go do stuff together and stuff like that, but she hasnt officially said we're dating. Im not sure whether to ask her if she wants to be my girlfriend or if i should ...

I had a lumpectomy, what do guys think of that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - I had a lumpectomy 1-1/2 years ago and now one breast is about a cup size smaller and somewhat distorted. Partly I'm okay with it because I think of it as a symbol of life. Another part of me is feeling nervous that a guy would be turned off when ...

I'm obsessed with my teacher!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - I am so confused and lost. I had a huge crush on my teacher last year! Like borderline obsessive. He was so sweet and kind to me, and we were around eachother in a close environment. These feelings just kept growing and growing. They got out of ...

My bestfriend started dating my crush

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - ok my best friend forever just told me this morning that my CRUSH and HER just started DATING that morning and she knows I like him pluse this is like her 5th bf sence school started so i dont them to get hurt cause were all are really close friends ...

Parents say he doesn't deserve me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - in this period of time in my life, i have a really big problem!! im 19 years old, and my boyfriend is 25 years old, we have started this relationship before 3 years ago, and we are still madly in love with each other!!the problem is that my parents ...

Having issues with his past affair.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - Long story short, my boyfriend's "ex girlfriend" (he calls her "friends with benefits but with emotional attachment" aka girlfriend but he refuses to call her that) of three years is just really an unattractive person physically and personality wise ...