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Archived questions from: 14 October, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend has an alcohol abuse problem!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 months is amazing. I love him dearly. But I have started to notice he has an alcohol abuse problem. He does not drink every day but when he does he drinks all day or just enough that he gets really loud, inconsiderate or passes out ...

I punched my boyfriend in the face!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - Help! I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. We are deeply in love but have a few minor setbacks. Our relationship for the most part is amazing. I have been really grouchy lately and I have also been sick and have a rash all over my body. I ...

Are we an item, boyfriend/girlfriend or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - So me and my friend recently got together secretly. No one in our group of friends know about us. We go out together secretly and Almost everytime we see eachother we end up making out in the car for hours. One particular night on my birthday I had ...

My immaturity is causing jealousy of his ex wife and I have to stop!

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14 October 2010 (F) - How can I get over my jealousy towards his ex wife? They have kids, she isn't friendly towards me but they get along good. I don't feel that she's a threat to me really as she has her own man but I'm still very jealous of her and...well, I don't ...

What should I do about my boyfriend's controlling sister?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has a sister who supports him financially (she pays for his university, apartment, car and gives him money to live on whilst he studys). She uses this to control him and blackmail him into doing what she wants. The worst thing she'...

I found pictures of my boyfriend wearing woman's lingerie

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - yesturday afternoon i was looking at pictures on my boyfriends computer of a trip we had just taken. In the folder there was a secret folder that i clicked on and inside i found photos of my boyfriend in a thong and wonmans lingerie aswell asa ...

How can I tighten up when I'm having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I'd love some advice from readers, especially any males, about how to tighten up when I'm having sex with my new bf. He has a large penis and looooads of stamina, and he always tries to pleasure me first, which gets me very wet...when he first ...

She never calls me, so I'm thinking I should make the 2 hour drive and go see her! Any input?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (M) - Hey my question is kind of long so here goes, my girlfriend left town a month ago, she says her mom and dad made a plan to ''kidnapp'' her. She hasnt ended things or anything of the sort, i on the other hand am trying to get over her but i cant get ...

Should I be worried that he sent her this message? Was it right that he did that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for 3 years. Would have been 3 years straight if it werent for this one girl Kristen. He kept cheating on me with her..then they started dating. Things got horrible between them. I mean BAD. It made ...

It's hard to talk to him! what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - i've got a big crush on a boy from our class!! he said to his friend that i'm one of his good friends..i want to tell him but i'm scared and since i'm quite shy,i find it hard to talk to him sometimes. What should i do??What can i do?? help!!...

Is my friend interfering in my relationships? Or am I over thinking here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - hi, i know this might sound silly but when my friend is texting i think it is one of my ex's or boys i have met. i know your probley thinking im paranoid but let me explain lol. when i was 15 i was with this boy for about a year and as soon as i ...

How do I tell my family I am seeing this man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - okay so we are happy together but i am scared that my parents will disown me because of the fact of the man i am seeing .. we have a 2 year old child together and my family know this they just dont know that the man of my dreams that i love truly is ...

Should I listen to my parents or my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - Me and Blake have been dating on and off for 3 years.Were both 17. My parents just stubbornly have their foot down..a positive NO that i cant see him. They think he's a bad person. One night i got caught sneaking out to see him (this was when they ...

She got this odd text from another guy! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (M) - So at the beginning of my relationship i saw on my girlfriends phone a text that said "im craving you rn". i asked her about it and she said the guy was drunk and didn't know why he would text that to her. At the beginning of our relationship she ...

Should I wait or just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - hey, there is this boy where i met on a night out i got his number and we was textin but he found it hard as he had a child and it got too much for him, i understood this and he said he does really like me and wants to be friends and maybe when ...

How do I stop 'bailing out' on a guy, after the 2nd date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - I have a problem. at 21 i have never been in a relationship. i have never kissed a guy, held hands, hugged, or anything else for that matter. it is not because i dont get chances it is because im scared. with every guy i date i end up "running" ...

How can I fix things with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a 1 and 1/2 years. He's the longest relationship I've ever been in (the second longest only being 2 months). We're young (he's 22; I just turned 20), so I don't expect us to be super serious or talking about ...

Does this make me a terrible person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - Im a really spiteful person. Today my boyfriend text me, asking me to get ready and meet him in town. I got ready, drove halfway to town when my phone started ringing. I pulled into a street, stopped and answered it. It was my boyfriend tellin...

I get so upset when he leaves on business!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, My boyfriend of 18 months has gone abroad for three weeks on a business trip. I get very upset when he leaves usually and he is aware of this. This time in order to stop me getting upset we have been talking everyday. I call him becau...

Will it work if we take it slowly this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - i had my first seious relationship when i was 15 till i was 22 and had my son, i have been single since which now is 5 years, i have had interest from males and had funtimes but never wanted to committ to them, i then on a unexpected night not ...

I love my boyfriend, despite our rocky relationship, but just can't get Toxic Boy out of my head!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years. Overall its been a happy relationship with a few ups and downs. Over the last few months however, I just havent been happy, its probably longer then that if Im being honest. We were just arguing all the time ...

Am I imagining things or does this guy like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - Hey...! I met a guy through my close friend, she introduced him as her boyfriend although he doesn't act like it,and i know that my friend have more than just 1 guy thats why its hard to know if she is serious about this guy. My friend is at ano...

How do I get my parents to back off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - I need some serious help on how to get my parents off my back about my boyfriend. I am 18 almost 19, he is 24. We have been seeing each other since january. We met online (when i met him in person i had my mom come with me in case he was a creeper, ...

How to be considered as a potential boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (M) - Hi, I am a 20 year old guy and I was wondering what is the best way to get a girls attention so that she actually conciders you as a potential bf....

I don't know what he wants from me ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - I have worked with this guy for 2 years.. we have been through a lot together. I really really like him and we hang out all the time. Our personalities just match perfectly we have never fought and we really enjoy each others company. The first time ...

Why would she not want her boyfriend to meet her ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

14 October 2010 (M) - I was wondering why would a girl not want her boy friend to meet her ex boy friend. I know it can be because it will be awkward,but if they have been with each other for about a year and she still thinks it would be and just does not want them to ...

I hardly see my boyfriend with his new job!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - My bf has a new job and I barely see him now. I don't know what to do because I am struggling with this limited contact. Please advise me!...

What was your best first date? I need ideas!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - what was the best first date you ever had? what made it so great and did you end up together? im just curious and looking for great date ideas!...