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Dating: Help and advice

What does all this serious blushing mean? Does he like me or is he a stalker?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - Hello dear cupids I need your help please! There's a guy at work, who I get along very well with and always have. We seem to be making a lot of eye contact with each other and always seem to sort of gravitate towards each other. Lately I ...

I thought we were in a relationship but obviously she didn't agree!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

18 October 2010 (M) - I met this girl at a mall, and for the first time, i asked a girl for her number, and i succeeded in doing so. We texted each other for a little bit, then, to kinda test her, i didnt text for about 5 days, she texted me back, and she started ...

Why wouldn't he give his number to a girl he's interested in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - Me and this guy have classes together, and we talk. I knew he was interested from the beginning (I was too), and one day he asked if I would like to "go somewhere this weekend." I declined citing the reason why I can't. Basically, he got the idea ...

How can someone that loves you so much let you go so easily?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - I am 34 yrs old with 4 children, 2 live with me, the other 2 decided to live with their dad. A year ago, I met this wonderful 28 yr old man with a daughter. I have custody of my children where as he only gets his daughter every other weekend. We ...

He says I shouldn't hold my breath waiting for a relationship

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18 October 2010 (F) - I have started seeing this guy and I absolutly, no doubt about it really like him. he says he likes me too but...theres always a but, he says he doesnt want a relationship with anyone and that I shouldnt hold my breath, though he keeps on talking ...

Am I dealing with a serial flirter?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - I feel a bit of a fool writing this and posting it here, but I hope I can get this off my chest anonymously. I was unemployed for almost a year and in the last couple of months of being on the dole I met this guy who is probably in his late ...

I'm 36 and ready to take the next step, but don't know how...

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18 October 2010 (F) - I'm 36 years old and just getting out of a shitty 15 year marriage. My husband and I never loved each other and I'm ready to find love and happiness for the first time in my life. I've never really known what a 'crush' was, but I think I have one ...

Keeping the spark alive?

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18 October 2010 (F) - Hi. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, and everything has been wonderful. A few ups and downs here and then but all in all, it's been perfect, and I'm sure he's 'the one'. I really enjoy our relationship but I was wondering if anyone ...

This guy I like asked me out, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - A guy that I really like and I think likes me just got a friend to ask me out for him! I'm not sure whether to say yes or no because he's known as a bit of a player but his mate says that he genuenly likes me and that he has changed and wouldn't ...

Why did he want my information if he was just going to ignore me?

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18 October 2010 (F) - hi a guy whom I had met last year, recently indicated to me that he was interested in getting to know me better. He finally asked me for my phone number and email address, since we live in separate countries and he said that he would like to keep ...

I want to dedicate a song to a loved one! What song would you choose?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

18 October 2010 (M) - Hi, I'm not sure if this is the right place for this....if you could dedicate a song or two (or even 3 lol) to someone..what would it be and why? For example "Luther Vandross - Dance with my Father" ...always reminds me of my dad....

Does everyone here think I am about to make a huge mistake if I go out on a date with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - Hi everyone. I got some good advise over here in the past so thought I'd try again. So, a few months ago I was involved in a very awkward situation with two childhood friends both in love with me (rather, one in love, the other one confused as it ...

My dream guy is only 2 miles away but it feels like 2000!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - I have a huge crush on somebody. I'm 21, he is 25, he lives 2 miles from my house and he has never had a girlfriend, he's still very inexperienced in relationships and even he is not gay or bad looking at all. His friend said that because he's ...

We've been on a break for three weeks and I hate it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

18 October 2010 (M) - So this is the first time I've ever done anything like this so bare with me. I've loved the idea of love for as long as I can remember. So my story is I met this girl that I feel in love with about 4-5 months ago. We dated for almost 2 months and ...

It feels as if the spark is going!

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18 October 2010 (F) - I am confused, on what to do. I am 20 but quite mature however by having a abusive childhood this has affected me alot. My B.f (A)who I have been with 3 months is lovely, no 1 has ever treated me like h has. But recently it feels spark going he ...

Up to now its been nothing but a smooch, but I want to tear his clothes from him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - Hi Everyone Really hoping for some advice and reassurance. First some history. I split up with my ex husband 3 years ago, and apart from a fling right after the breakup (definate rebound fling) I havent slept with anyone since. Partly throug...

I am angry he lied to me, or am I just being silly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend used to be a heavy pot smoker but now says he hardly does it anymore. However, the other day while I was out he kept asking when I would come back to his house and when I said I was close he said he had to go out for a while to run some ...

How can I stop thinking about the opposite sex??!

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18 October 2010 (F) - Am always attracted to every handsome guy that i come across. . Am always thinking about them and i want to stop but ave tried everything nd its not working. . I really need help on how to be myself and stop thinking about the opposite sex....

I worry that if she keeps flirting, he might change his mind!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - Well me and my boyfriend went out for 10months, before he broke up with me due to not missing me when we werent hanging out. Then like 2 weeks afterwards he told me he found another girl. They went on like 5 dates, and even hooked up. But even dur...

He doesn't talk to me much and his work takes priority

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - my boyfiend doesnt seem to talk to me much anymore, and his words were " but theres nothing to talk about" i dont see him very much,and work always seems to come first in absolutly everything, i know i really really like him and have deep feelings ...

What song would you dedicate to a loved one?? any ideas?

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Please wipe away my tears

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18 October 2010 (F) - i have a relationship of almost three years with my boyfriend,and we now staying together in the same house.am famaliar with his family and he is famaliar with my family also..for the past month i started to suspect he is cheating on me,i went to an ...

Why would my boyfriend do this? am really hurt:(?

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18 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend told me his ex messaged him on facebook and said she misses him.. she then added him on facebook and blackberry chat and theyve been chatting since. she says she wants him back..i asked my bf if he loves her he said he lov...

I didn't pursue her! Could she still have feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

18 October 2010 (M) - So there's this girl I like. At one point in time she told me she liked me too, that was about a year ago, for some reason I didn't pursue her, looking back I think it's one the dumbest things I've ever done. As it is now, I have zero contact with ...

I don't know what he wants and it confuses me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

18 October 2010 (?) - i dont know wat he wants..?.. he confuses me... okay im a highschool student last year there was this guy he is really shy and quite however im a loud and an out going girl, but we still have so many things in common.. he was kinda invisibl...

He got mad when I wanted to chill out with a male friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - So I started talking to this guy on Facebook. And my homecoming was a week later, so I invited him to my college to see me for homecoming. He said he was coming, and surprisingly he did. My college is 5 hours away from where he lives, so I knew he ...

I don't understand why she wont even talk to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

18 October 2010 (M) - So this girl Taylor seemed into me. I had a girlfriend but we weren't doing good and it ended. So i was going to ask Taylor out but then she said it would be best if we stopped talking. i'm confsued. she wouldnt even tell me why. she just bye. she ...

B/f says he'd be happier if he didn't have feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been having problems. He says he loves me but thinks he would be happier is he didn't have feelings for me, yet he doesn't want to risk going without me. we are each other's first loves. What should i do?...

How To Flirt With A Shy Boy?

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18 October 2010 (F) - So this question may seem very primal and maybe obvious to some, but I'm a girl who normally rushes in and pushes a little to much when it comes to her affection with men. I met someone how I really enjoy getting to know and am trying really hard ...

I'm her half boyfriend!

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18 October 2010 (M) - my ex girlfriend has me like a halfway boyfriend...even though i know that she still really does love me still it doesn't make what shes doing fair...i kno i need to tell her that shes needs to decide what she really wants but i don't kno how to ...

Torn in two--boy 1, boy 2

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18 October 2010 (F) - Okay. So I have a big decision on my hands and I need some serious help. Preferably from someone older than I am. When I was in the 7th grade, I began dating a boy (Boy #1) who was in 8th grade. We stayed together until the very end of my freshm...

I broke up with my girlfriend because I wasn't happy and I was paranoid. What happens next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

18 October 2010 (M) - I just recently broke up with my girlfriend of almost three years on my 21st birthday. I did it for a number of reasons. Even though we love each other immensely, we had a few issues. I broke up with her because I felt like I needed a little bit ...

Really confused!!! What does this woman mean??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

18 October 2010 (M) - Hi guys I wonder if anyone can help me with this matter as I'm confused. I work as a bouncer in a nightclub and over the last few monthes I've started to really get along with a woman who works behind the bar. First we started with general small ta...

My boyfriend thinks I eat too much.

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18 October 2010 (F) - So my boyfriend is telling me that I eat too much. After he thinks I've eaten too much at a meal, he tells me when I should stop. Everything else in our relationship is good, but I think he thinks I may be gaining weight? I love him too much to do ...

I cannot choose between my ex and my current boyfriend!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have never been more confused in my life. I am 20 and a sophomore in college. I have been dating my boyfriend "Fred" for 10 months. We met a little over a year ago through work. When I first met Fred I had been dating another guy "Tim...

Feeling insecure about my relationship with her now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

18 October 2010 (M) - I fell in love with a 19 years old girl for 2 months now and we seemed to get along very well. She also loves me. We had an argument lately and she said she wanted to break up with me. I didn't take her for serious but then, I found out that a ...