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Archived questions from: 19 October, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Why did it take 2 years and an ultimatum for him to be attentive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - You guys may remember me from my previous questions : I am the 24 year old virgin female with the 40 year old partner who just wont have sex. Well, things have changed a lot now. Let me give you guys some background: For the past two years h...

I like this guy who doesn't make conversation with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Hi thers a lad i like and have liked for nearly 12 months...I;m quite shy...I think he knows i like him..but we have never spoke about it i do work with him..But just lately i have noticed he doesnt make any conversation at all ..He looks over at me ...

My ex wants me after I moved on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - 3 years ago now i fell totally head over heels for a guy i met. We instantly clicked and had a lot of positive energy to the poitn where at times we we're inseperable. We had the same hobbies, interests and goals in life and i was smitten. After ...

Ideas for a special date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (?) - Hey. I know this is kinda dumb but... I need some ideas on where to take or what to do for a date with my girlfriend. We just officially got together and even though we've been out on dates before, I want to do something different, like special with ...

I love my girlfriend's sister and don't want to lose her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (M) - I am 25. I live with my girlfriend and her younger sister. We just moved in together, all three of us moving to a new city. I have been dating my girlfriend for 5 years and her sister has been my best friend for almost as long. They are both the ...

Does he like me? I think he likes me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I work with a guy, its been a few months now. When we see eachother he always gets a big smile on his face, he notices the smallest things I do different IE: wear my hair slightly to the left or wear lipstick when i normally do not. When we have a ...

After 5 years into the relationship, and don't know what to do..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 and a half years now. We were only 18 when we started going out. At the beginning i was completely crazy about him. For the last 6 months things have been going a bit strange for me. I really thought i wanted to get ...

Is it necessary to tell someone you're dating about your past?

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - How much do you tell a guy you love about ur past, about passed hook ups, stupid things uve done, is it really necessary? wouuldn't he have a bad image of me when i know that im not this person. Im afraid he wont trust me if he knows about my past ...

Am I right to be angry about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I have recently started seeing a guy. We have been talking for 2 1/2 months on email and skype as he lives in another country. We went to school together 20 years ago and started talking on facebook and developed a friendship. recently he spent £700 ...

Is this relationship salvagable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (?) - My exgirlfriend and I have a long-term, ongoing dysfunctional history and fights. She fights dirtier than anyone I've ever met. After one break up, she said the most nastiest stuff she could think of--making fun of every aspect of my life and my ...

I'm not sexually attracted to my girlfriend anymore!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (M) - I love my girlfriend very much, we have been dating a good 2 years. The problem is is that I don't find her sexually attractive anymore. Because of this I have cheated on her a couple of times, once was on a break. I don't want to break it off ...

I'm torn between three guys, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Pull out the popcorn and get comfortable, this is gonna be long. Hiya Aunts and Uncles, I'm in quite a confused space with 3 really great guys at the moment. Lets call the first guy Jarvis. We dated for about 7 months but it took 3 months...

How do I tell him I haven't had sex in 8 years?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - just started talking to an old boyfreind. Its been 19 years! We want to be together again and he is out of state, but coming back. How and do I tell him i havent had sex in 8 years? What will he think of that? Don't know what to do!...

What could his actions mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid I take private piano lessons. The teacher is near the same age as me,(about 43). He seems shy and a bit nervous around women; you know, 'academic' looking; a bit 'geeky'. He also does transposition work for me on my music. ...

Dating a cop who behaves very strangely, should I flee??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I am dating a cop... started out great, he told me he was crazy about me - dated a few months, we were very much into each other and things turned REALLY weird. On one date, he actually was a complete jerk -I purchased expensive tix to a football ...

I love her but this relationship is tormenting me, what should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (M) - (Taken from a previous forum I posted in) I love her, she's my best friend too and we've already spoken about a future together, etc. but I'm having doubts now. We probably haven't spent more than 2 days away from each other. When there's t...

I need to decide which one, my feelings are stronger for one of them??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I really like this guy. The problem is I'm already going out with someone but this guy is single. My bf is the sweetest guy on the planet but I don't really want to go out with him anymore because I don't love him I love this other guy. My bf is ...

How do I tell him nicely I don't want to go on this trip??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - ok so this guy asked suggested we go out somewhere next week during half term, like as in a date and im really nervous about it. all my friends are pushing me forward saying this is a really good opportunity because we both like each other but i ...

How do I tap into that part of her that does still want me and break down the barrier?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (M) - Okay so long story. Me and my girl have been on and off for nearly two years. I love her a lot and I know she feels the same way, we adore each other. Earlier this month I betrayed her trust, big time, by lying to her. She was devastated and I...

He's gotton someone else pregnant and I don't know what to do any more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I am completly in love with someone and we are going out. The problem is that he already has a girlfriend who is one of my best mates and is really sensitive. The thing is I've heard he slept with her and he promised me he wouldn't and I did a test ...

Same sex relationship... How can I get her to be more sexual with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - hey, I'm writing to ask for advice on an issue im having with my girlfriend. this is our first gay relationship although i've slept with other girls before i met her. we've been together for about a year now. in the beginning she was very n...

How do I get out of and over an emotionally abusive relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Hi ALL, I need some help and advice please. I have just come out of an abusive relastionship as in he was messing me around, using me for sex, being unreliable, claiming we were just freinds, stringing me along, and generally being a nasty brute. ...

Is something hand made for your boyfriend seen by them as being too mushy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Is it a good idea to make a hand made gift for your boyfriend? I mean... do guys appreciate stuff like hand made cards/poems/a home made dinner etc for them or is it considered to be too mushy? -_-...

Should I waken him up and confront him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I spent the night at my boyfriend's apartment. I slept in the bedroom while he slept in the front room. I got up this morning to find a condom wrapper beside the bed. Then i found a receipt to a lingere shop. He is sleep now. Should i wake him up ...

Is it worth sending an apology letter to an ex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

19 October 2010 (?) - About 3 weeks ago, my g/f suddenly broke up with me. It was done badly - on both sides, and I posted a question about it here. We've stayed NC since our last call, but I'm starting to feel guilty about pushing her into the breakup, as I wa...

Did I cross a line? Was I interrogating him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend runs a business with his friend and they're having some problems at the moment. I'm worried about him and the future he has in that job. He tells me about his job and when I see him I ask how work is. The other night I told him that ...

Any tips on getting her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (M) - Hello guys. im really grateful that you took some of your time in order to help me . my 2 years long distance relationship gf just broke up with me and honestly i dont blame her at all. i was bein so selfish lately. I even tried to make her stop...

Feel like she's deceiving me and has secret Email account...what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (?) - I have had trust issues with my girlfriend ever since I found one of her emails about 9 months ago that showed she was planning to cheat on me earlier in our relationship with one of her ex'es. Ever since I confronted her about it, I have had no ...

What does a guy feel when he's squeezing your breasts?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of one year likes to squeeze and rub my breasts. I love it when he does that. We haven't had sex yet, but we want to do it soon. I'm ready for this, but we don't have enough privacy - we both live with our parents, and there's always ...

Should I try to make this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - this female is having this guy's baby after knowing him 3 months.in fact the guy is my ex-boyfriend who wants to get back with me. should i kick him to the curb or try an make it work....

I need help on talking to my boyfriend's parents

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I need help talking to my boyfriends parents. I'm incredibly shy and so have trouble talking to people I don't know well. Can anyone give me any advice on how to keep a conversation? I'm very grateful to them as my BF and I were long distance an...

I'm tall and he's average height, is that ok?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - There is this boy I'm totally in love with and I can't stop thinking about him! The thing is I'm really tall and he's average height. This has always been the problem in my relationships but I seriously like this guy and want to ask him out but I'm ...

My boyfriend is nice to me some days, but not so nice on others!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - So I'm hoping to attempt to make this question relatively short. I really need some advice because there's no one else in my life right now *sadface*. Soo I recently moved in with my bf and it goes well on some says, not so well on others. Sometimes ...

All the girls just want to be my friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (M) - Ive been searching for agirlfriend quiet sometime but no luck they keep saying they want me to be their friend but i had a girlfriend before just that she's sturbon and also she threaten everyone that i meet so what must i do...

I haven't heard from him yet, is he not interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - So I added this guy on facebook a few weeks ago because I thought he was cute. We have one mutual friend and thats how I found him was on her list. We started talking last week for a few days. When we were emailing each other back and forth he was ...

What hold does this married creep have on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Okay...so, I'm the one who asked how to truly rid myself of this married man. Well, he disappeared (or popped out) again and I have the nerve to be angry, hurt, upset, used, defiled, etc. What's wrong with me? What hold does this creep have on ...

How do I overcome my embarrassment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - hi, so i've recently started dating a guy and i'm a super shy person and get embarrassed quite easily. my boyfriend also works away for 3 weeks at a time and would like to see me on skype but i'm embarrassed of showing him my body although he's seen ...

How can I ask her out without feeling hurt that she rejected me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

19 October 2010 (M) - How do I ask a girl out who probably doesn't even like me because of how I look but doesn't know how I am in the inside? How can I ask her in a way where it won't hurt as much if she rejects me? Why do most girls now a days look for what's on the ...

How to ask if she's seeing other guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

19 October 2010 (M) - I have been seeing this girl for about two weeks, I'm 20 and she's 21. We have done everything but sex however she said she already wants to have sex. I told her i wanted to get to know her better and she agreed. The other night she invited me to ...

My boyfriend danced with and texts another girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Having problems with boyfriend and another girl he just met? Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years. Were both college students, only 45 minutes away. But the other night, my family was up for family weekend so i couldn't see my ...

She can't decide what she wants, should I even bother anymore?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

19 October 2010 (M) - Ok, first off sorry for the length. Here's the preface. I'm a 23 y/o virgin. The girl in question knows this before we start hanging out, thanks to an ex-friend I have since cut out of my life. So I tell this girl I've been hanging out with ...