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Dating: Help and advice

Stuck with old lover,new person treats me better

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - Basically I was with this girl C for nearly two years, for the first year the relationship was perfect and I fell madly in love. But as time went on, the relationship fell to pieces, she left me. Everything came out she cheated on me, and id ...

How do I get our spark back?

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12 October 2010 (F) - Hello, I was wondering if someone could give me a basic answer on how to get the spark back, from a "could of been" thing. I liked this guy and he liked me, and now that we are back in school and we never see or text each other anymore. And to ...

Girlfriend is too busy, so she dumped me. How do I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about two years now. I have been attending a millitary-esque college and have only just been allowed to go home to see her(about a 3 hour drive). She is a senior in high school and has two foreighen exchange ...

Why do I find teenage girls attractive?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

12 October 2010 (M) - Hey, I'm a 22 year old guy and would just like to know why I still find teenagers attractive, nothing under legal age of course, just barely legal really turns me on. My last few girlfriends have all been 16, it's not that I don't find girls my own ...

How do you do something spontaneous?

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12 October 2010 (M) - i wan to do something spontaneous/be moe spontaneous for my girlfriend?how do i do that? any suggestions? :D...

Will our relationship last if we refrain from talking about our feelings?

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12 October 2010 (M) - I don't know if this is weird, strange, problematic or w/e but me and my gf rarely talk about our feelings towards one another, we don't really need to, usually we know we love each other by the way we we look into each others eyes or when we cuddle ...

Afraid my friend is moving too quickly?

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12 October 2010 (F) - My friend has been with her boyfriend just less than a year now, and six months of that time he has been in different country. She talks about "their wedding" all the time and even emailed him pictures of the ring she wanted and told him her ring ...

Should I date my roommate/best friend?

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12 October 2010 (F) - Um, I'm not really sure how to put all the information out with the question, but hear goes. I have a roommate that likes me. Here is the problem: 1-neither of us could move out if it didn't work out. 2-I am interested in her, but I don't know if is ...

Do guys stress about first dates?

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12 October 2010 (F) - do guys get just as nervous as girls do on first dates? what are some of the worries they have? i always get stressed out before the first date and the guys always seem so nonchalant and calm. why is this?...

Why does she hide posts to her ex from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

12 October 2010 (M) - I am really in a state of panic and unrest over my current situation, and need serious advice. I have been with my girl for over a year, and we love each other very much. We had some problems early on when our relationship was not clearly defined ...

Should I disclose a past prostitute visit to my girlfriend?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

12 October 2010 (M) - I am in a committed relationship now. However, a few years before, I lost my virginity to a prostitute. I did so because I was feeling depressed, things were looking bleak, and thought I wouldn't be in a relationship. I don't have any desire to ...

Why does she have to have the same name as my ex?!?

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12 October 2010 (M) - Dear agony aunts and uncles, I am currently friends with a girl who has the same name as my ex. Me and this girl have been spending so much time together in the summer and getting closer. We are not exclusively goin out but we have kissed once...

How do I show her I'm back to being the man she fell in love with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

12 October 2010 (M) - I have been going out with this girl for eight months. We have much in common and have had lots of great times during this period. Sure we have had our downs and well, and a few arguments along the way. We pretty much hit it off from the first date, ...

Should I leave him alone or wait to see if he realises that I really care?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - I am confused this guy says things like I went overseas with the wrong girl, if you had of been there with me it would have been awesome! and I wouldn't care if we did nothing at all as long as we were together! Then he suddenly changes and pulls ...

Should I work on becoming friends with her instead, or just completely forget about her and move on?

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12 October 2010 (M) - I’ve known this girl three years ago, when both of us were twelve. We were classmates. Now we’re in different schools. I fell in love with her. I sent her two letters and a gift and I think I went a little too far, because she then started calling ...

How could I possibly find a way to strike up a conversation with her when she is in her office all the time?

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12 October 2010 (M) - Hi, this is my conundrum: This new girl just started at work (by just started I mean A week, maybe a week and a half ago). She is always in her office and I never get a chance to bump into her outside of that damn office (by the way, there are o...

He is so confusing!

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12 October 2010 (F) - we were friends for a long time.. we met during our review for our nclex exams. we were always talking during our review about our life, lovelife, dreams and hopes.. he is silent but becomes talkative when we talk.. after our review, we go to coffee ...

How should I take things from here?

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12 October 2010 (F) - hello i am 45 he is 42, i met him quite by accident and we have started to date, things were looking fine but now i have the feeling he is backing off.................not sure whether heis feeling insecure and i should try to reinforcre or i should ...

Should I tell him how I feel?

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12 October 2010 (F) - I work away on a mine site. I work away from home for 2 weeks at a time. I met this wonderful guy, called 'Matt' about 3 months into my job. He had noticed me as soon as I started and telling my friends he really liked me. I ended up giving him my ...

When is the right time to tell someone you love them?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - When is the right time to tell someone you love them? I've been with my new bf for 2 months, and I feel I've fallen in love with him. I wasn't expecting too, and wasn't looking for a relationship when I met him, but he is truly lovely. He tells ...

Is he realizing he might be as into me as much as I might be into him?

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12 October 2010 (F) - I recently met a guy (J) who at first I wasn't very attracted to but after getting to know him a little better I began to see something in him. My best guy friend (D, who I happen to live with, along with a few other people) has been hanging ...

Can you date your half brother?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - is it ok to date your half brother?i didint know him till the start of summer, i didint know i had a half brother till dad died then mum said we had a half brother...

What does he feel for me?

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12 October 2010 (F) - Hey, i met this guy, we are friends, he was always helping me, then he introduced me with his mum, dad, mum boyfriend, brother all his family, anyway we have been drinking so much one nite, then he told me how much he likes me and he has been in ...

Does he like me or is he just leading me on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5161 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - Okay so. I really like this boy, he is cute, nice, and funny. We flirt a lot when we text each other and over the phone he seems to like me. But when I ask him to hang out, he always ruins our plans. The one bad thing is, is that he has a girlfri...

I have a fat fetish and want my girl to be even bigger!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - Okay so i have a big problem. I've been dating the same girl for a year and i told her i have a fat fetish and i needed her bigger. so shes gained about 20 lbs for me but i am still not nearly sexually satisfied. i know for a fact im in love with ...

How can I find out if he is interested in me?

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12 October 2010 (F) - hi i would appreciate alot if i get help. Theres a guy who i have in class i think he is gorgeous i think im staring to like him. How can i know if he kind of like me or something?? i would really like to have a relationship...with him.. we started ...

How do teenage guys act when they like a girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - Hi, my question is kind of general, but I've been wondering this lately. I have a lot of guy friends, and they all act in different ways around me i.e. shy, goofy, show-offish etc. so I was just wondering what you guys (mostly teenage guys or those ...

I'm so confused..what should I do? It's so stressful..why can't it be easy??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up September 17. Its been a while since then. We still talk and hang out at school. I still have feelings for him, and he knows. My feelings for him are slowly going away. See before we were dating we were great friends,...

How does this work? Do I wait for him to call or text?

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12 October 2010 (F) - I am a new widow as of March..yes, I am grieving, and yes, I miss my husband tremendously, but lately I find myself wanting to just be with a man. I don't want a relationship, but just someone to you know be with --be touched-- kiss-- and whatever. ...

I live in the States, he lives in Spain!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - Sorry guys for so much details I just figured the more the better and also I am not an organized thinker so please excuse my spontaneous thinking! Ok so I met this guy on my last night in Spain and I really like him. The only thing is I live in ...

HELP , should I MARRY this girl ?

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12 October 2010 (M) - I met this girl and I fell in love with her , it was in a different city where I live and she was coming for a visit to Denmark , we hanged together for two days , and in the end of the second day I told her that I liked her very much and she said ...

I'm so sick of his hot/cold behavior!

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12 October 2010 (F) - Well, theres this guy I've been seeing. We started seeing eachother in like early april. Then at the end of may, i suddenly didnt hear from him, so I was wondering what was going on. So after a week of not hearing from him, I found him on myspace, ...

GUY GIVING FREAKISHLY MIXED SIGNALS?? PLEASE HELP!!

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12 October 2010 (F) - There's this guy I've had my eye on, and while he's uber-confident and has no problem talking to other people, he always seems to have trouble talking to me. (Mind you, this guy is somewhat of a womanizer, and has no problem being super physical ...

She's not the same girl I was dating 2 years ago

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12 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now, and it doesn't seem like she is the same girl that I began dating so long ago. When I first met her, she had several friends, was funny, enjoyed hanging out with people and didn't necessarily ...

B/f asked me to move in with him but I'm afraid of losing myself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has asked me to move in with him. It's a big deal to me because I've never lived with a guy before and I usually need a lot of my own space in relationships. I'm wondering if anyone else who likes their own space has experience with ...

How can I say "I love you" to my ex when I'm dating someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - My ex said he likes being single and he wants to go back to that but we only broke up 3 days ago. I'm dating my best friend right now and it's great so far but I miss my ex. He said that he wants to get back together in a few years. Now he's like ...

He's not putting in the effort anymore, should I worry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - When I first got with my boyfriend he was the most romantic man I've ever met/known. He used to do the loveliest things for me all the time that used to make me so happy and I totally knew how into me he was. This carried on for almost a year, he ...

Does he fancy me and is he worth pursuing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5161 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - Ok this is beginning to drive me mad. Where to start? I've known this man pretty much my whole life but we haven't been in constant contact, last year he messaged me saying he was going to be around where I was staying for studying and wan...