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Dating: Help and advice

How do I make conversation with the guy at work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - hi, I'm really confused and not sure wat to do...I fancy someone at work i'm very shy...not sure if he knows or not...I get the feeling he might..we dont really talk, but there are those moments when eyes meet and he looks other way...or on lunch he ...

He's a transgender.so dating him would be awkward. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - Hey, i hope you all can help me! Okay, so i will set the stage here. I am a sophomore in high school now, and i met this really great guy who is in a ton of my classes and is hilarious and cool. The problem? He's a transgender! He was born into a ...

We talk every single day, non-stop, without fail.. But I'm not sure if he likes me the way I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5161 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 18, and the guy i'm "seeing" is 20. We met through one of my friends at a birthday party and as we both have blackberries, we exchanged pins so that we could talk on blackberry messenger, as it is easier than texting and it's...

Dating two guys at once?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - I'm kind of seeing two guys at once, but am not "offically" a girlfriend to either of them. We'll call the first guy T and the other guy C. I met T last years summer, and we just started talking and hanging out a few months ago again, and i'm quite ...

don't want to be her friend when I care about her and don't get any recognition for it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

10 October 2010 (M) - About 3 months ago the girl of my dreams told me I like you as a friend and being the nice guy I said sure lets be friends. I thought being friends could possibly mean down the road she might like me or want to hang out with me like a friend would ...

She won't let me kiss her properly... she says she's scared. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

10 October 2010 (M) - i really love my girlfriend. we have benn together for a bit now and were fine. now when i try to kiss her properly she tells me no and when i ask her why she says shes scared. what should i do?...

Do you guys think he likes me? And how to make this into a steady relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

10 October 2010 (M) - Hello everyone, So I posted a while back and I got great responses. So there is a guy that I really like, and I think he likes me too, but my biggest concern is that he rarely is the one to call me. I don't call him too often (maybe once every ot...

Does anyone know how I could catch him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - Hi everyone! Um i'm not sure how to tell my story so i'm going to try my best. I have been working at my current job for 4 years and in my 3rd year we employed a chemical engineer ever since the first day I saw him I fall head over hills for him. I ...

He can go 2 days without contacting me! Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - my bf will last up to 2 days without texting me, n if he does, he doesnt say much, n sometimes he doesnt even respond. still like tat, he says he loves me. what should i dooo???? hes not going to change. ...

How do I tell my boyfriend that my friend hit on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - I love my current boyfriend. He is kind and patient. We are doing well overall. We have been together for over a year. I asked my boyfriend for permission to hang out with my guyfriend for his birthday. I missed it. So I hung out with hi...

I'm devastated! She offered me friendship, and said that was all!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

10 October 2010 (M) - Okay guys so here is MY problem, I am an extremely good looking handsome young man (mainly very cute), everyone in my life has always told me that. I also am very stylish when it comes to clothes and always maintain a good look, I am the type of guy ...

She's not happy because I have more sexual history than her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5161 days ago

10 October 2010 (M) - I'm currently in a relationship of 5 moths and it's been going good if i would allow it too, and accept her love and accept/believe the things she says. Short background information: my best friend and i went out one night, met up with some gir...

He broke up with me, went for my friend 3 days later, but I still love him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - Okay, well basically.. I'm still in love with my ex boyfriend. It sounds like a typical problem, but I'll just tell you the whole story.. I started dating him in February, we broke up once along the way, but ended for good in early July. And ...

Is it true that guys prefer non-virgins?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - Okay, so as me and my friend were walking she told me the reason why I don't get guys is cause I'm a virgin. She said if I lost my virginity then that would be better. Since she said a good percent of guys prefer non-virgins rather than virgins. ...

Everyone keeps calling me ugly, but I don't feel like I am!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - I havn't had a boyfriend in ages and ages and everyone keeps calling me ugly but im actually not. I don't know what to do please help me???...

I'm ready for sex! Now where's the boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - My problem, in a nutshell, is that I feel ready to have sex but I do not have a boyfriend. I feel like I have reached a point of emotional maturity where I know myself and my body very well and I am also very knowledgeable when it comes to protecti...

My boyfriend wanted a break because he says he takes me for granted!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend wants a break, it has been exactly a week. he told me that he wants some time to appreciate his company, and that he is really taking me for granted right now. he also has other issues, saving money for a holiday and moving into a new ...

How do you broach the "What is this relationship" question?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I'd love some advice from girls and guys about how to broach the "what is this relationship" question. I've been with my new guy for 2 months...he contacts me every day, we hang out whenever we can, go on dates, and have been sleeping together ...

He always stops before he ejaculates

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - So I'm not sure what to make of my new bf's sexual technique, and I'd love some comments about why he doesn't ejaculate from any female and esp. male readers, please. We've been together 2 months, sleeping together for a couple of weeks. He's ...

How do I make a move on a shy guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - I like a guy. I think he likes me. He is quite shy and so am I but when we talk to each other we get on really well. I talk to him at school, when our group of friends meet up outside of school and i can sometimes spend hours talking to him online. ...

I saw her undressing to take a shower, but she doesn't like me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

10 October 2010 (M) - There is this girl named Hannah we have been best freinds for 9 years. Well 2 weeks ago i skiped one of my classes so i could go to the weight room and saw her in the locker rooms undressing to take a shower. When she saw me she didnt think anything ...

We are more like friends than lovers

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have dated for almost 2 years. Well, I feel that we are more like friends than lovers. He won't even kiss me, as in french kiss me. We have kissed before but since months ago he has shown no interest in kissing me passionately. I ...

I'm afraid to talk to him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - Hi! I am so confused about a guy in my marching band. I'm a freshman and he is a senior, but I think he may like me. I've definitely shown him i'm interested by looking at him and trying to hold his gaze; that happens a lot. The thing is, I'm not ...

Why do men disappear giving you no closure and think it's OK?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - Why do men disappear or dump you and give you no closure and think its ok? This is what my ex did....

My heart and my mind are at war

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

10 October 2010 (M) - my (ex?) girlfriend slept with someone else. i didnt realize that were officaly broken up sisnce we were still doing everything that couples do like go to a show,dinner, sex, etc.... we have had out differences that could have easly been worked out ...

I am caught between 4 guys, and don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - I sent a question recently, but it's been lying around and no answers yet. That's good, my situation has changed since then. I am caught between 4 guys, and don't know what to do... what would all of you do in my situation? I don't know how I get ...

We exchanged numbers, how soon before I can call?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - I met a guy at a party last night, we seemed to hit it off and we exchanged phone numbers. I'll be honest and say I'm a bit of a novice in this regard, but if he's interested when would he call? Or should I? If I am to contact him, should I text or ...

After 18 months my boyfriend says sex isnt stimulating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for 18 months and he tells me he cant get stimulated through sex, and he has always been like that.Is this true, some please answer as this is ruining our relationship Thanks....

He wants to take my virginity... and I'm scared I'll lose him if I say no.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - Am a 14 year old girl with a 17 year old boyfriend who wants 2 have 6 kids with me in the future. the thing is now he wants 2 break my virginity. I am still a virgin and am not ready. I dont wanna loose it. He's the best boyfriend ive ever had ...

Is there a right way or wrong way to handle this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - Basically, I'm in a bit of a situation. I know what I want to do, but I don't know how to go about doing it. Advice and opinions would be much appreciated. I was in a relationship for six months with a guy, call him X. Nothing remotely sexual ...

Should my girlfriend have told me that her ex was going with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

10 October 2010 (M) - My GF of a year, has been divorced for almost 3 years and has 3 children. Today her and her kids were going to a apple festival. Well last night her daughter told me that her dad was going with them. Just a little background, he is not from this ...

I need help with this... What do you class as cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - Hiya all... Well im a 20 year old girl and i think i am bi-sexual, i have never done anything with a female but really want to. The only thing is i have a boyfriend. I have explained to him about everything and he says he doesnt class me being...

I feel he is just taking me for granted!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for about 5 years now. We kinda live together. I stay at his house every night. Most of my clothes is at my parents house. Some stuff is at his house and I would like for me to have all of my belongings at my bf. I have ...

How do I get more time with my LDR without actually asking for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

10 October 2010 (?) - I've answered a few questions and I've stated how much of a sweetheart my long distance love is. He's sweet, kind, always makes me happy and full of laughter. He's cute, smarter then people give him credit for, makes sure im happy. He knows when ...

I'm really pretty but can be rude unnitentionally!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - okay I'm 16 and i have never had a problem with a guy liking me or noticing me because im really pretty my problem is that im really rude and most of the time its not on purpose and idk what to do plus im scared to do anything like even make out ! i ...

Stuck in the middle between friends and boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - I'm at a point of no return with my friends. I have been with my boyfriend for a little over ten months, and we are very in love. I am 17, and he is 19. Before me, my boyfriend dropped out of high-school, and wasn't planning on going back, but I ...

I dont' want to waste my time on something that will lead to a dead end later in life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - So i've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now. We used to argue alot (on and off). But everytime we learn from our mistakes and just learn how to manage our relationship better. But lately ive been having trouble with my mom. She was fine with ...

Why did my b/f say "If we ever break up I want you to get with my friend, he's a good guy"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - What do u guys think about this strange situation?? ok well my bf n i have been dating for a little over a month now. yesterday, he told, me tat his bestfriend liked me, i had met, him, with my bf, once. he told me tat if we ever broke, up, he wo...

My boyfriend is secret and his best friend, who is my best friend, also likes me, and I like him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I have a big problem and nobody to talk to about it, i really need help...This may get confusing but... Well,I'm 14 years old and i'm going out with this guy i've been madly in love with for over a year. In that year we've been 4 times whi...

(User's title) Am I a phantom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - I'm new to this site and I seen that it gives advice, so I figured why not to join, right? I always wanted to know why... Can't I get a guy that will treat me like a princess, maybe I'm misfortunate enough to go for the pricks.. I'm not sure, I ...

How do I get her to fall in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

10 October 2010 (M) - How do I get the girl I love the most to fall deaply in love with me???? Maximum answer please......

I love him but he walks all over me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - How do i break up with my boyfriend of 6 years? I love him so much but he never listens to me, and he walks all over me! He thinks just cause his friends are single and worthless lol he can act the same! When hes with me hes loving and committed and ...