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Dating: Help and advice

Is he interested anyway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - A guy I met is in the band with my cousin at a university where the band is really popular and busy. Said guy and I were introduced by my very overprotective cousin at an event and guy asked my cousin for my number. Have seen guy a few times since ...

I'm starting to get worried about the drugs

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - The guy i'm seeing is getting pretty silly with his drink and drug taking. I'm not gonna lie, i do take drugs myself from time to time, but he's getting ridiculous, that whenever i see him, he seems to be on it, or crave it. Last time i saw him h...

I get freaked out from past sexual experience that I can't talk or interact with women!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - I would like to describe myself as a 29yr old male who seems to be in pretty good health and generally overall happy in life, apart from 1 thing, i will try and explain as best i can and hopefully recieve some feedback to the issues!! Here goes...

Public intimacy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - Ladies what are your thoughts on public intimacy… How do you define public intimacy? What things/actions do you consider to be public intimacy? What things/actions do you consider to be appropriate/inappropriate expressions of public intim...

Is he pulling away, does he like me? What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - Ok, the days are a little mixed, cuz this was written a while ago to my cousin, lol. I've known this guy for a year and 5 months, well, a year ago he stopped hanging out with his group of friends so I haven't heard from him, well one sat he showe...

In the middle between two guys with an issue

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - I have two best friends, Jacob and Sam, they know each other and are very close. Sam developed feelings for me and we are seeing each other. i went over to a friends house a few days ago and Jacob was there. He started doing things like laying on ...

I have severe dating anxiety what can I do to control my symptoms?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - my problem is that i have severe dating anxiety. this is the reason i run out on most guys after the second date. a few days ago i met this really nice guy and he wants to take me out this thursday. i said yes but now the anxiety has kicked in. im ...

My girlfriend misbehaved with my younger brother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - hi i am 27 years old and my girlfriend is 21 years old ,once my younger brother who is 22 misbehaved with her ,she told this incidence to me...and when i asked whom did u told except me ,she told her sister,but after some days she told she only ...

My older lover dumped me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - I'm 28 and i lost my 40 year old girlfriend. She dumped me for several solid reasons after a year and 2 months. She said she loves me i couldn't say it back. I wasn't sure if i loved her if i was afraid to be alone. She wanted me to move in with ...

Do women remember everything about their past relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - Hi DC, I have a Q regarding what women remember. Over the years, I have had a few relationships. I remember practically everthing (good/bad/happy/sad) about them and reasons for the break up. Maybe its because I have a good memory. Durin...

Where are the good men hiding?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - Right now I'm very discouraged. Where are all the good men hiding? In the past years my dating experiences have been bad. I've tried dating friends, acquaintances, co workers, random people.. nothing seems to work. I think I'm a fairly normal pe...

My boyfriend never has any money and always has to borrow from me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - I'm in over my head. my bf and i have been together for 3yrs now. we love each other so much.there are so many issue in our relationship. basically i have to help him out financially everytime. he has no money whatsoever to carry him from month to ...

Why is it so easy for girls and so hard for guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - Me and my GF have been on a break since july 22, but on Monday oct 4th it finally became official. She went from going to the movies with a dude we'll call him "Douche" to now being in a relationship with this guy whom we'll call "Jackass". Why is ...

I keep asking her out but she just wants to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - There is this girl named Hannah we have been best friends for 9 years. Well 2 weeks ago i skipped one of my classes so i could go to the weight room and saw her in the locker rooms undressing to take a shower. When she saw me she didn't think ...

He said he loves me.. what now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - i am in love with a man that i have worked with for a few years. we hang out, go to events together, and i guess have been seeing each other for awhile now, and he has told me that he loves me. he has told our mutual friends this as well. i want to ...

He promised me a poem and 2 weeks later she hasn't written one

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - So me and my boyfriend 6 month anniversary 2 weeks ago. I wrote him a note of how i felt being with him this whole time. I also drew him a picture that had our initials. He smiled and said he really liked it. He said he felt bad about not getting me ...

Getting over my first love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - Okay, I'm only sixteen years old. This is a long story but if you have time please listen. It all started around three years ago when I fell in love. Although this a long story I'm going to cut it short! Well I fell in love with a guy that lives ...

She is jealous but wants to keep her ex in the picture but not mine, what to do here??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - My partner and I have only been together for about 5 months. I have had a total of 2 partners before her. She has had myrriads. She ask me the other day to quit communicating with my last ex because she was afraid I would end up having an emotional ...

He gets very emotional and affectionate when drinking, is it real or not??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - I'm curious about what you'd make of people's behavior when they've had a few drinks? Are the things they say insights into their hidden thoughts and desires or just drunken ramblings? I'm wondering because, although my boyfriend is always very p...

Should I confess or just keep quiet??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - Ladies...I need to get an honest opinion of how you would deal with this situation: Let's say you started a friendship with a guy who dazzled you like no other man, but he had a serious girlfriend. You found out later their relationship had...

Know what he likes but what should I get him for a gift??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - Okay, me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 7 months! I am 16, and he is 17. I find it rather difficult to get him a gift. I know what is favorite things are, but I just can't seem to find anything I think he would enjoy! ...

Should I keep snooping or just trust him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. This whole year of the relationship has mostly been long distance though he and I have visited each other on and off throughout it. Considering the long distance, I suppose trust became ...

What happened here with my boyfriend, do you understand it??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - so im a little confused with my boyfriend or ex or whatever he is. We broke up not to long ago cuz i made a mistake. But everyone makes mistakes and i think it can always get sorted. So anyway we live together and been dating for 5 years. We kinda ...

Boyfriend is16, is sportsman, what kind of inexpensive bd gift can I get him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - hey so heres my story my boyfriend is 16 and i'm 15 and i have no CLUE what to get him. he likes to hunt fish climb shoot you name it.im kinda broke so low budget gifts are greatly appriecated.......

My gf is "hot", cannot have an erection when we want to have sex, what is the problem??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - well when me an mygirlfriend wants to have sex it wont gwt hard an shes very very hot but it just wont get up ...

My bf will not "own" me around his friends or say I love her, should this be a problem??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - My bf has this dual personality. To me, he speaks and act perfectly. Seriously, could not get a more perfect boyfriend. But when he is with his friends he doesn't ever speak of me like he loves me. He will chat about how hot some girls are, joke ...

How do you know if he's the one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - Hi there, my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 1 year plus now. We went through a lot together in the past, a lot of arguments, and there was no peace in the relationship. But we still stayed on to it, and slowly now things are pretty good ...

We have different ideas on what a relationship is.. loving or just fun?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - Ok I'm at my wits end about what to do with my bf. We've been together for 4 years and lately I've been feeling hot and cold when it comes to him.. One minute I see myself growing old with him having kids getting married, and a day later I'm ...

My boyfriend hate my best friend. Is it right that I pick him over her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and his friends hate my bestfriend! she annoys me quite alot too. but she is still my friend and there is no way im going to just ignore her presence. i call her names and slag her off to my boyfriend and his friends but im still ...

He says he's loves me a lot..but he flirts with other girls! How can I trust him more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - Help me! My bf is in love with me. My friends said they can just tell by the way he is with me, that he does love me so much. And sometimes he sits and stares at me etc and when I ask what he says "I just...love you". Seems all very perfect. BU...