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Archived questions from: 13 October, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm almost 30, he's only 21, Should I pursue him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - Hi, aunts and uncles I need some advice. I'm approaching 30 and I feel like an overgrown teen again! I have fallen for someone and it's all gone wrong. I'm at Uni gone back for a 4 month course! It's a very stressful course working full time plu...

Age difference is an issue; how do I tell him I love him now no matter what the future is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - He's 34, I'm turning 19. Our relationship is becoming...more intense I think. He calls me before work, on lunch break, and after work. We're always texting each other silly things. Been together almost 8months. We're both difficult people...he's ...

Why do teenage boys go for the popular girls???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - Why do teenage guys always go for the popular girls??? Does no one realize how bad it makes every other girls feel cause they always come in second place to the girls who make us feel unattractive. Why does this happen??? ...

Should I take Plan B or do you think my birth control is enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - Hey i have a question, i have been on birth control for 2 months now and i have been taking it every day however not the exact same time, probably an hour or 30 mins. difference, last night me and my boyfriend slept together and he didn't pull out ...

Please tell me he's not wanting to break up with me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

13 October 2010 (M) - I split form my long term partner 12 months ago and immediatley met someone else. i am living on my own with my son. my new partner as been with me 24/7 and always telling me how much he loves me. he is a proper gentleman. our sex life is amazing, ...

How can I get things to go back to normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - I'm seeing this guy, we've been talking for about four weeks after I met him through a friend. We have met up twice in those four weeks, but I havent seen him for the last two weeks, however, we talk every single day without fail. And we talk ...

Should I meet him one last time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - Ok...please answer this question without judging me. I had earlier posted a Q as to whether i should get back with my boy friend... as i had cheated on him. Well, things between us have been sorted out somehow... its not perfect but i...

My boyfriend is possessive and controlling!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and we got engaged when we were together 7 months. Everything was fine at first, we had fun and we did lots of things together. We also got on well with each others families. About 2 months after we ...

This girl is so confusing! Should I ask her out again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (M) - I am 16 years old, and have always liked girls before, but after recently meeting someone at a new school, I attracted to her in a way that I have never been before. I'll refer to her as Sarah. I'll admit, I went in too soon and asked Sarah out,...

Why didn't she tell me that in the first place?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (M) - I was just wondering why a girl would tell you that there is something wrong with her. Say she was having a rough day and she didn't get what she wanted. I did send her a silly text saying, I hope that you are okay. Then less then an hour latter, ...

Should I explain to him or call it off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - hey, every boy i met it doesnt go any further then dating and once it begins to get serious they get out as fast as they can. so i have decided to try a online dating site and met this boy i do like. i have gave him my number and we have been ...

I don't understand men at all!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - Well, basically I don't understand men at all, whatsoever at the minute, so I have come here in desperate need for some advice. I met a boy not long ago, he took my number, but never passed on his. Today, he text me saying... "I miss you short...

I need help with things in the bedroom!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - I need help with things in the bedroom. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 11 months now and we make love nearly every day without fail, we took each others viginity. But now im woried that im not as good as him because whenever im taking ...

Is it insecure to feel that your boyfriend only wants sex and your body even though he say he loves you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months. We get into things pretty quickly. He's not a virgin and pretty forward about what's in his mind. He wanted sex but all that we do up till now was foreplay. No intercourse. I'm sure that he is ...

My boyfriend is a cheater? Or am I wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - BOYFRIEND CHEATER? My boyfriend had a past of online dating sites and porn sites because he was addicted to sex and didnt get any affection or attention from females in real life. When he met me, he said his world changed and he is in love for t...

Going on my first-ever date -- at 20! Tips appreciated.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - i need help! tomorrow i am going on my first date ever and i have no clue what to do! i am in some serious need of dating tips. for example, what are some topics i can bring up if things start to get awkward? What food should i eat? What should i ...

If he's with this other girl then why does he keep looking at me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - Hi, um to cut a long story short at the start of college i really liked this guy and i think he liked me too we had just started speaking and things he got my number and everything was going quite well, then we were talking via the internet and he ...

Do I really smell ok down there, or is he just saying that?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - My bf gives me oral quite a lot. And I always apologise if it's not fresh down there. But he always always "It's fine, don't worry" and continues about his business. Does he really think that or does he just do it not to offend me?...

I must send out vibes that say "I'm not interested"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - Im a sophomore in college, and I just dont get why guys arent into me in "that" way. Well, I sort of do. Im fairly certain its not my looks as guys have liked me/I do get hit on randomly. I have a really low image of myself (probably because of my ...

He won't make a move!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - I want him..he wants me but he wont make a move !! Help this man is driving me to distraction :)...

I lover her but I hate everything related to her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (M) - i m 21 year old guy my gf have an awful past she had lied me about it now its almost settle now i love her very much but but hate evrthg related to her like her job,parents,songs she likes,her old school almost evethg what shud i do???????????...

Single mum and single dad struggling to get time together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - Hi I have been seeing someone for 2 months - we are both grown ups each with a young child only mine lives with me full time and his lives with him half the week. If his son gets his mum to call him up to stay or if he is being taken home fro...

Why does he have to hang out with girls that want to be with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - Jealousy question... You are dating a guy, and he hangs out with women who he knows have feelings for him. But he's ok with it since he has no interest in them but as friends. Is this ok or am I overreacting? I don't like the fact that he's wi...

He has a crush on me but won't do anything about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - dear aunt, i am a teenager ..just entered...i knew that one boy have a crush on me by my friends...and after that even i started liking him.his friends ask him to propose me but he never does..i dont know what is the reason behind it??...b...

I'm an extrovert, he's an introvert!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - I'm currently in a relationship with a guy and we have been together for a little over a couple months. Before this I was single for a year and out of a really long-term relationship (close to six years). I'm a very extroverted person and like ...

Cousin Love Problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

13 October 2010 (M) - I was wondering what I should do because I kinda have feelings for my cousin ,a girl, (we're only cousins by my parents marriage), she's about my age, and she secretly told me that she really likes me to. I would like to know if I can solve this. ...

I really care for this guy but he is not what I need

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - Thank you in advance for taking time out of your day for a stranger. Also, short disclaimer. I KNOW you should never try to CHANGE A MAN. But he has asked me to help him change, over and over I tell him I feel bad that I want him to change some t...

Am I destined to die alone?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

13 October 2010 (M) - I am a 25 year old architect who has reached utter despair in the quest of finding that special lady to grow old together... This sentence sums up my life quite well however; the reason I am writing is due to the fact that I have not been with ...

He insults me in front of his friends but I think he likes me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - I really like this guy, we are both in different classes...somtimes he will try to insult me infront of his friends but other then that he is pretty nice to me and i really like him...i love him so much that i would die if i didnt see him ...

I have the boy of my dreams and everyone else wants him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (?) - Hello!Hey so...Yeah hi.Im in an LDR and now that i have him as my boyfriend girls want to be with him now and it makes me jealous.He has girls who like him,tried to kiss him, n wana screw his brains out.At leas he says no.But it makes me upset and i ...

How can I rebuild and expand on my relationship with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

13 October 2010 (M) - Hi, guys. There is this girl that I really,really, really like at my school and I kinda thought that she might like me. You see, we had gotten to know each other pretty well and we went places outside of school, texted A LOT, said hi to each other ...

I don't want to leave my boyfriend, but I can't help but wonder of what could have been

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - I've began dating my first boyfriend around 3 weeks ago. He's a great guy and treats me better than I thought any guy ever would. I've got unbelievable guilt now because I feel something in me telling me that this isn't right. It's almost like ...

My pet peeves don't bother me when it's coming from him. Is that normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now, and things are fantastic. We're very close, and open with each other. Recently, it came to my attention though, that nothing he does ever really bugs me. You know, the pet peeves? I d...

My boyfriend is addicted to his newest compute game

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - I have been together with my boyfriend for almost two years, and we still both care for each other very much. However, I feel like we are drifting away from each other. He is addicted to his newest computer game. He spends all of his time on it. ...

My boyfriend has just signed on for another six years of army

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is in the army but he wants to stay another six years in the army? Should i stay with him? I really love him but it is really hard to be an army girlfriend please help.....

Should I just let go and be happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - Im having a hard time wtih my situation right now. For starters, he has ruined trust in the past by flirting with women on his phone and being caught in a few lies. September 24 2010 made two years of us being together. October 1st was the official ...

I love my boyfriend but keep thinking about my school crush

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - I guess I should start off from the beginning. When I was in high school there was this guy in my grade that I had a huge crush on. I had always kind of liked him ever since he had moved to my school in the 5th grade but obviously back then it was ...

I am a mother of three young children and being threatened

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - Me and my long term partner split up and 6 weeks later i met a guy who was pretty decent but i soon ended it with him as i was still deeply inlove with my ex,since this i have slept with my ex but he now no longer wants to speak or see me and im ...

Outfit suggestions for a date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - A younger man (9 years younger) and I are going out on our first “date”. We will most likely go to a park and dinner and maybe something else… Any advice for picking an outfit to wear on a date with a younger man? Any advice for picking an...