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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I know I shouldn't have but I read the mails where he was flirty to other girls. What should I do about this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

31 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend left his FaceBook logged in on my laptop and asked me to reply to his mate on chat! But in doing so I had seen he had a few girls who he had recently spoken to and I know I shouldn't have but I read the mails and he was speaking to the girls normally and had noti... (112 words)

Why is my ex telling me about his problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

31 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I had dated a guy for about 4 months. Things hit off great between us. But, he was dating myself and another girl that same. (Which I understand is normal in the dating world). We would stop talking and then would get back together and start dating again, this would happen ... (499 words)

It's like he's given up on the relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

31 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Where do I even begin.. My boyfriend and I used to be so happy together. We'd go out a lot, we'd have fun, we would do all sorts of things. And then one day, it just stopped all together. I feel like he's bored with me. Like I'm a bother to him more than anything. I unde... (246 words)

She threatens to leave me and the kids if I ask too many questions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

31 July 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi.....i need some help.......i am married for 7years now and is hard broken... My wife is a lot on her phone and says talking to laddy at work or sister. But the phone keeps on kling kling every time...she blocks the phone i kant see allways hiding so i kant see the pin....my ... (127 words)

I understand we can't commit -- how do we avoid getting hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3765 days ago

31 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a man I get along with really well about two months ago. He's been clear from the start that he doesn't think he can be in a relationship now, and I'm hoping to leave the country for a while in about a year and a half, so neither of us think we have enough to give to a ... (234 words)

Greiving and my boyfriend is ignoring me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

31 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I hope someone can help. i am greiving for a family member and my boyfriend has, in the last two days, started to totally ignore me. Ive sent him some horrible messages to him today out of desperation for a response and he still will not reply to me. He has done this in the... (164 words)

I'm going on a summer holiday! Or am I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

31 July 2014 (F)

age - I have booked a holiday with my boyfriend of 2 years,(it was to be our first together) and was excited about it until he let it slip that the itinerary will consist exclusively of places he visited with his late wife of 17 years (she died 4 years ago, before I was ever on the ... (264 words)

Why marry me if I wasn't his type?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

31 July 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Why would my husband have married me when I was cjwarky not his type ? All through our marriage he would make little comments about my looks .. Implying that there were things about me that disappointed him . He was constantly looking at other women admiringly but I could ... (208 words)

Question on BDSM: What things could I do or use sexually to drive my B/f wild?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

31 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi cupids, this is a question in hope of gathering all of the BDSM style members. My partner is into BDSM and loves anything considered dirty/experimental. In the past we have used hot candle wax, being tied up etc but what I'm here to ask is, how could I appeal to this sid... (130 words)

Could I get pregnant from dry humping?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

31 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I dry humped. I have like cheer shorts on, they are short and thin plus underwear. He had underwear and like guys athletic shorts. Well we were humping and I felt something wet down there. Im scared I could be pregant please help!... (46 words)

Do guys always stop intercourse after they cum?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

31 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello agony aunts and uncles! So I just have a pretty straightforward question, do guys always stop intercourse after they cum? Every guy I've been with has. But I've heard before that not everyone does (i don't know if they're lying or not) the guy I'm dating now does,... (204 words)

I don't know how to get intimate with a guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

31 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey agony aunts! I know this will sound really pathetic but I don't know how to get intimate with a guy. There is this guy I like a lot and am super attracted to and I can hardly think of anything else when we're together- I want to get close to him in that way but I don't know ... (74 words)

He won't commit! We are stuck in a cycle of breaking up and making up!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy 4 years ago. At the time I was 25 and he was 38. We soon started seeing each other and after 4 months I had met his family. Everything seemed to be going well other than the fact that he started working longer hours and going out salsa dancing pretty much every ... (434 words)

Should I give up on this girl? She's come up with all kinds of excuses for why we can't get together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

30 July 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I am very close to giving up on this girl and I just want to see if I should or if there is still hope. I met her a couple months ago at Wondercon, we connected well and I got her number. After a couple text exchanges (with very delayed responses from her) for the next few... (406 words)

Why did she get to move on so easily?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

30 July 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I were together for 6 years. Her kids became my kids and I their dad. We split up suddenly without any kind of hint of things going awry. One day she just packed up and moved to her mom's. She's had a lot of medical issues and mood issues over the years. Her ... (146 words)

Do a lot of people misinterpret politeness as flirting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Do a lot of people misinterpret politeness as flirting? I hate it when I'm friendly to people only to have them act cold. I smile at people passing by while out in public. Sometimes I'll get a scowl in return, usually from women. Men just look away, and refuse to look a... (175 words)

I want to help my boyfriend last longer in bed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm dating this guy and I am absolutely in love with him. We've had sex a few times and each time it's only been for about 10 minutes. (if that) because he cums pretty fast. we do a lot of foreplay and he normally fingers me and things like that before we actually have sex. H... (212 words)

My fiancé keeps trying to take nude photos of me without my consent!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay, so we were on vacation and hot at it and my significant other (my fiancé) got up from the bed, then all of a sudden I saw a flash in the dark room and he took a picture of me nude and then he wanted to take closer pictures of my body parts. I was totally appalled. I ... (409 words)

They never acted on their mutual crush, so why would my friend's boss send her a goodbye card with kisses?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - There was a mutual crush between my friend and her married boss. They sort of developed a strong liking for each other, But for him, it was more of an infatuation. He did not know that he was flirting with her at the beginning( his wife also works there but not during the... (163 words)

He's dry in his texts and never compliments me, but he keeps asking to see me and is messaging while on his holiday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, so im seeing this guy for about a month now we see each other about once a week! i cant tell if hes into me or not as hes really dry over text and never compliments me? but he still asks to see me! hes on holiday just now and managed to give me a quick few messages ... (69 words)

Can people get back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid Can people get back together ? I am embarrass to be writing on here about my predicament but I am driving myself insane. I went out for 2 months with a man older than me (I’m 26 he’s 41) I did not realize my guard was down and fell hopelessly in love ! w... (312 words)

Am I overreacting or is he just not that into me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. I feel like he’s just not that into me. He’s been in florida for over 2 weeks now, but I’m always the one calling/texting him. This isn’t the first time that this has happened. He goes down to Florida to visit his family every ... (324 words)

What do I do about this tiff between me and my roommates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Right so Agony people.I need some help. A few months ago I moved into a house with some friends for college. A tiff occured between me and two of my housemates. They claimed I said something bad which I didn't. Anyways I fel out with one of them but it wasn't like all hell ... (270 words)

Is this cheating? My husband bought his female colleague perfume!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband told me that he really appreciates his female colleague and bought her perfume for her birthday gift. Should I be worried? ... (23 words)

What interesting things can I do with a guy at a boring mall?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm going on a date with a 23 year old I met online tomorrow afternoon. Now, at 19, this is my first date. I havn't even told him that because I find it so embarrassing. We've planned on meeting at a mall. I'd like some ideas on fun, flirty, interesting things we can do. I was ... (222 words)

Am I being silly to be upset over the fact my boyfriends mum made a joke over whether I should wear white I get married because I have a child?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I being silly to be upset over the fact my boyfriends mum made a joke over whether I should wear white I get married because I have a child? I know it may seem harmless but it's actually rather hurt me. I was 17 when I had my son, who is now 8. My boyfriend isn't his fa... (235 words)

He wants to hang out with me but I know he has a girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I'll be starting uni in the fall as an international student, and, as I'm sure most incoming freshmen do, I did a little facebook research on the current students at this university. Of course, I didn't contact any of the guys, and was left just drooling over their pics, ... (421 words)

My family ignored my repeated requests to have a homemade card for my birthday. I"m hurt and disappointed!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1650 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so it is my 19th birthday today, so this may sound trivial, but it's important to me. When I was growing up, it was a tradition to make birthday/anniversary/Christmas/thank you cards for family. That continued for me and my older brother until we were about 13, he stopped ... (526 words)

How do I make myself be kinder during our last days together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3766 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I think we both know it's over but I'm being just so nasty and I can't seem to stop being so angry and mean. I can't afford to leave right away and he was kind enough to let me stay until I get myself financially sorted out. But I'm not even expressing myself as grateful. I ... (137 words)

Does he love me if he wants a threesome?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) age 30-35 - Does he love me. Wants threesome other women ... (11 words)

How do I get my BF to take the next step?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am caught in limbo and need help. My boyfriend of a year and a half has been stalling for months now about the "next step". When I first brought it up at 8 months, he said he needed a year before he could consider things. At a year and 3 months, he said he'd need until the ... (261 words)

Do I do anything about my feelings for my brother in law?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I like my sisters husbands brother alot. Should I do anything? ... (11 words)

How do I put myself out there to ask this older girl out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3766 days ago

30 July 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok, so i have a few question on how i should do something, and i'm looking for some solid, simple advice. Story: So i'm a junior in high school, and there is a girl i like, who i don't know very well. We've met once, but i felt like she might be interested in me as well. I ... (277 words)

Help please... does my coworker like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy at work and started working quite closely with him about a month ago. He is a warm, friendly person and helps me out all the time at work. One time because I did something wrong at work, he had to wait for me to fix it for three hours so he ended up not hav... (1131 words)

Our flatmates only growl at me when he's not there! I suffer from anxiety and depression so this is very difficult for me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do. This year I moved from one city to another to live with my long distance boyfriend of 2 years. It's about six months on now. The move was really hard for me cos I'm shy and i left behind my close friends and the place I was familiar with. Now I'm havi... (382 words)

Is there something wrong with a man who is watching the 'teen' category in porn?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2336 days ago

29 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - As a woman I have no problem with consentually adult material ie porn however I often notice when seeing the categories that teen is always one of them Personally it makes me feel sick and I steer well away from that but maybe I'm overreacting So my question is this... (138 words)

Does letting go really work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 July 2014 (F)

age - much fun. I met all his family and friends. After about 4 months we were practically living together. Until one day, I felt that something wasn't right. I found out this the was on a dating website. I walked out and we didn't talk for a while. Then we talked and got together... (263 words)

What does the CEO want? Should I go there prepared to share a bunch of ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I wrote an email to a company to give them some fresh ideas to help in its performance. I got a call from the secretary saying that the CEO and Marketing director want to meet with me. The call was very official but friendly. I'm not sure what they expect. Should I go there pr... (78 words)

The guy who I thought was my closest friend will not talk to me. Am I over-reacting to his actions?.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

29 July 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I had a small party and my closest friend at it wouldn't talk to me at all. He spent most of the night having a great time with another friend (their conversations were completely exclusive as well, so there was no way I could join in). He only said "hi" to me but was m... (143 words)

I have a gut feeling that something is wrong between her and me. Do you think I am wrong about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've been dating this girl for a few months now I just have a gut feeling something is wrong. I do have some trust issues and paranoia from past problems but they aren't as bad as they used to be. She's always getting facebook notifications but wont look at them when I'm... (146 words)

Am I being selfish? Or is my reluctance to share information with her due to her need to compete with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

29 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody, I am a nursing student soon to qualify and I have decided that I want to go down the route of medicine. I have researched the course and contacted the university. I have paid for the upcoming GAMSAT examination and started revising. My problem? A friend t... (422 words)

Online dating issues. I want to message him, but what would I say to him now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

29 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I joined an online dating site and met a man and had quite a few dates with him. He wanted to keep his options open, but I caught him out in a lie when he said he was not at a place when he was. Since then he went quiet on me and so I told him he's childish and we can all have... (109 words)

He was prosecuted for domestic violence and now lives in a hostel. So why do I still feel so lonely without him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 July 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 25 years i have an 18 year old son. When i first got married things were great then about a year into our marriage signs of my husbands bad temper started to show. I didnt worry too much at first. Then he started smashing house up and then crying after... (193 words)

How do I deal with this feeling of confidence or lack of confidence in my body image?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Does anyone have this re-ocurring feelings and nervousness that they might not actually look the way they appear in picture when they are about to go on a date with someone they met online This is my first date with a wonderful chinese girl i met online I always told her ... (237 words)

He was always happy to talk on the phone, but not so much for getting together in person

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

29 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy online 5 months ago and we went on our first date after about 3 weeks of chatting. We had a great time and it was clear we got on well. Soon after our first date, he started calling me every night and we would speak for over an hour everyday. Quite soon he started ... (394 words)

I feel like I've rebuilt myself from the ground up and am ready to explore a new relationship. How do I convince friends and family not to worry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm needing some advice on how to handle a new relationship situation which has honestly got me stumped. About 3 months ago I came out of an abusive long term gay relationship. The abuse was mostly emotional but there were tmes when it crossed into the physical. For t... (649 words)

I'm in a relationship but it's not feeling like one!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - When we first went out 3 years ago, everything was perfect. He tried his best to do what ever he can just to make me happy but because I don't mind anything and he kind of stopped doing because he said I don't really mind anything he does and I'm still happy in the ... (406 words)

Have I missed the bus?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 July 2014 (M)

age - Have I missed the bus? Hi I'm a fifty year old from rural England who is at the end of a relationship that has not worked for the last few years, the thing is I feel as though I won't find a woman for love at my point in life, I'm getting quite low over this issue as I yearn ... (68 words)

He put down the booze and picked up the anger!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year I was seeing someone for over a year (we were friends for 3 years prior to dating) and we broke it off because he had some issues with alcohol. That issue has become a lot better. We started hanging out again in May and have been trying to make things work again. ... (351 words)

How can I show my partner I appreciate everything he has done for me since I gave birth with complications?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is not a problem as such, id just really appreciate some suggestions. I recently had a baby and due to last minute complications I had to have a cesarean which also went wrong. It was quite a traumatic time, especially for my partner as he felt helpless. Anyw... (220 words)