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Archived questions from: 9 July, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have an embarrassing medical problem and I don't know how to tell my parents!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

9 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a problem at the moment and I don't know what to do. Lately my vulva has become very itchy and sore and I really want to tell my parents but I am too embarrassed and afraid to do it. Its making me cry at night because I'm so worried but I'm still to scared to tell her. ... (65 words)

I made a massive mistake and she didn't take it well. I'm looking for words of comfort and advice!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

9 July 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, So I have very recently made a massive mistake, and jeopardised my girlfriend and I's relationship. Really I'm not too sure why I'm sharing this with you all, and I don't think there is very much I can do, but if anyone has any words of comfort or advice, then ple... (648 words)

Looking for advice about a friend I've fallen for

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

9 July 2014 (M)

age - I am looking for advice about a female friend I have fallen in love with. I am 52, divorced with one child, and in a live in relationship that is winding down. This woman is 47, married with one teen child. We have known each other for about 5 years, but I only started ... (992 words)

How to prove to my girlfriend I will not walk out on her and our baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3818 days ago

9 July 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 40 and my girlfriend is 20 and we are together for the past seven months. We met online and dated for 8 weeks before we decided to become a couple. I never thought I could connect with someone her age nor ever have a relationship, but she is now my world. Shes shy sweet ... (575 words)

Lost contact with my crush

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

9 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm preoccupied about a man I used to work with. We were good friends and he showed me many signs that he was interested. We talked a few months after I left. However, since then - we have lost contact. We have no way to talk. I can't look him up because he doesn't have f... (173 words)

He only put the tip in. Am I still a virgin?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2718 days ago

9 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't know if I'm a virgin or not.. Help? I was with him and he kept fingering me and tryed to make it easier for him to get it in.. Well, when he tryed to put it in It definitely hurt. He told me he only got the tip.in and that's all.. But I wasn't on my period and I was ... (74 words)

How does one avoid date-rape and why DON'T some dates/boyfriends accept "no" for an answer?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3815 days ago

9 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - **Please mods, I think I ask a lot of important questions here and while I do mention date-rape, I put it in the cleanest way possible. Is there a way to share my experience and questions without it getting deleted? ** There are a lot of posts lately on women who don't ... (756 words)

I cheated on my husband but cannot bring myself to confess and I feel so guilty all the time

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3812 days ago

9 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I got married in 2012. During the first few months of our marriage, my husband remained busy with his friends, he had very little time for me. He made love to me on rare occasions. Then, I began to hang around with my boss, like fiends. One day, he tried to kissed me in ... (290 words)

I gave up everything to move in with my B/f and now he says that he doesn't love me. The house I left has been rented out and my job was filled almost immediately. What do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3818 days ago

9 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have known my boyfriend nearly 2 years now and 2 months ago he asked me (and my dog) to move in with him. He has not lived with a woman before - he is 38 years old. I agreed and re-located, giving up my job as the commute would no longer be viable - and have put some of my ... (362 words)

Should I be more forward

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3818 days ago

9 July 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I feel lately , I am a stuck in the mud or am not having fun like I should be. I here of a lot of relationships where people are cheating or have cheated in the past and it kind of feels although it’s kind of accepted to happen at my age and people just say ‘ oh it happens’ ... (334 words)

His lack of response and removal of profile probably suggests no desire on his part. Should I still contact him on facebook?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

9 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I found this cute guy on okcupid. I messaged him, he messaged back, with clear enthusiasm. We wrote back and forth for three weeks, sometimes essay-grade responses, from his part and mine. I am on vacation abroad, due back in October. He knew this. He is a foreigner Russ... (261 words)

15 year age gap is my concern

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3446 days ago

9 July 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this guy. He is now 56 and I am 41. Both of us have never been married and no children. He has asked me for a commitment to a relationship and I think he will look for marriage later. This is not a short term relationship. He is a smart, sweet, kind and living perso... (297 words)

My co-worker is exploiting our goodness, is a slacker and is forever making excuses. I feel like complaining to my boss but will that make me a gossip?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3818 days ago

9 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a dilemma. I work with this guy for a small 6 people company including owners. Company is doing Farely well being so small. Other 3 people started working there long before me, and I work there 4 years. For a small company like this we all are well paid w/ good ben... (715 words)

Is any man excited by an average looking female body after watching porn?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3812 days ago

9 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am concerned that my bfs constant access to a never ending stream of physically perfect women in porn to look at and masturbate to is causing him to get bored with my appearance. He simply doesn't seem excited by the sight of me anymore yet if he sees a naked woman on compu... (92 words)

Am I still a Virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

9 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey me and my boyfriend were having fun kissing and stuff so we got to this point were we were taking off our clothes,he wanted to put his penis in but it was so sore so he tried to put half of his penis in I didn't experience any bleeding but my virgina was sore Am I Still a ... (60 words)

LDR - so why doesn't he tell his family and friends that we're dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

9 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating someone, long distance, for about a year though I've been talking to him and we've been good friends for around 5. I met him through another friend. I love him and think he's absolutely amazing, so my entire family and close friends know a lot about him. I... (407 words)

What do women think about men, fitness and fights?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

9 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So, I'm a pretty peaceful guy. I'm going to school for biochemistry (which I love), and spend most of my life in the lab or library. I study hard, get good grades and generally enjoy prefer mental work as opposed to anything physical -- except for the gym. I've noticed t... (244 words)

Haven't conceived after 18 months of trying ...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

9 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, I'm feeling really low today and I just need to get this out. I'm 31 (and a half) and my husband and I have been trying to conceive for about 18 months. It took a long time before he felt ready for a family and then if only we'd known how long it would take to ge... (293 words)

How long to withold sex in a LDR when you meet your significant other?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

9 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I just met a guy through a mutual friend here in the states that I really like but he lives in Europe. We have been chatting everyday both on the phone and all other messaging means. He really likes me as a matter of face he loves me and claims I am his type of woman. I don't ... (263 words)

Is my gut warning me off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3818 days ago

9 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My brothers best friend is my friend. He knows my family. Everyone suggest that we should date. He asked me out. He is every thing anyone would want in a guy. Cute and a great personality but I feel weird thinking if him that way. I want to think of him that way but it feels so ... (89 words)

He went through so much with his ex I wonder if I'm a rebound?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

9 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Please Bare with me because my story is long and detailed. Three years ago, I started working at a Psychiatric Board and Care Facility as a housekeeper. I was 18 then, from being a housekeeper, I changed linens, worked in the kitchen, drove patients to their appointments, an... (1255 words)

Take it slow or lost cause?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3819 days ago

9 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I'm really stuck on this one. Hope someone can help. I have recently met this guy online, and have been talking for a good few months about a month ago we met up and it seemed that we have a lot of our best friends in common we just havnt met yet. So after our f... (186 words)

His dating site profile says he's just looking for friendship

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

9 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 28 years old, my boyfriend is 30, we have been together for a year and a half. we don't live together. I found out recently his got a profile on a dating site. a friend was browsing the site and came across the profile, she informed me about. it clearly shows its him, all... (264 words)

Cheated, guilt destroying an amazing relationship. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

9 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Guilt ridden, destroying an amazing relationship. What should I do? Where to begin... Over a yr. Ago, I was in a short term abusive relationship. I left him The guy tried to entrap me, hole poked in condom. I met and fell hard for my current boyfriend. He encouraged me ... (480 words)

Annual holiday without your partner? What are your opinions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3818 days ago

9 July 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - So I have been with my girlfriend for 16 months now and I love her loads, though the past few months have been tough. On our first date she mentioned that she would like to travel around Thailand, which is something I have always wanted to do and thought we would possibly d... (333 words)