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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Married 50 years. What do I do now: start over or live the rest of my life like this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

15 July 2014 (F)

age - Well where do you start, I just reached my 50Th wedding anniversary, I said* reached( not celebrate) because my husband said if I take you somewhere you will just just start a argument, which is not true as I paid for a trip to Vegas and he didn't feel that way then (2 months ... (727 words)

Been hiding my pregnancy for 5 months. How do I announce it to my family?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

15 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been hiding my pregnancy for about five months. I haven't told anyone except for a few friends. I've finally decided that I'll tell my family. i finally feel ready to face the consequences. i feel strong enough to bear the negative reactions. i can just hear my father ... (327 words)

Should I break off my engagement to my LDR? Concerned about so many issues.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

15 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I break off my engagement? I'm engaged and I love my fiance-he has a lot of wonderful qualities-honest, loving, caring, etc. I do feel like I am taking on perhaps too much baggage to be with him and I am concerned about how our future will be. We are in a L... (454 words)

Why do some men think porn stars are magical being?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

15 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do some men think pornstars are magical beings? My ex and my first boyfriend were just like that. My ex said "a pornstar works in my office" in a voice as if he had achieved something. My first boyfriend used to call them by their names as if they're real people and ... (106 words)

My parents don't like one of the girls I've invited to a sleepover. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

15 July 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - So I want to have a sleepover with four friends (5including me) but my parents do not approve of one of my friends and say they don't want me to invite her. The problem is, not knowing my parents would object to her staying round, I told her my plans for the sleepover and ... (101 words)

He ignored my facebook request and now is staring at me at work. Awkward! What's going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

15 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I'm in an embarrassing situation! I recently started at a new job 5 weeks ago. Everybody's lovely but there are a large amount of staff that rotate, so you can often go weeks without working with certain members. Anyway I'm trying to get to know everybody and be... (478 words)

Should I have sex to keep my boyfriend?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

15 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 years now, (I am -9) and I love him to pieces. We sleep over at each other's all the time and it's all been perfectly fine. Then one night we were at his and he said "my parents wont be home until 12:00am." Then he took his shirt ... (183 words)

People hurt me all the time? How do I prevent this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

15 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a problem of loving certain people too much (or should i say im blessed) but soon or later get hurt. Usually people i consider my close friends, guys that could be my potential boyfriend, some elderly people who inspire me or even my family members but in the end i get ... (286 words)

How do I deal with my husband hiding his impotency!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

15 July 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - after 20yrs of marriage i now know my husband had an impotency problem he hid it from me making excuses all the time, i beleived his excuse----how to deal with this please tell me how to deal with this... (39 words)

I have an irrational fear he will cheat on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

15 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known my boyfriend for seven years, been in a relationship for one year. We have never had an argument and he is a total gentlemen. It feels as though we were made specifically for each other and, while I've never told him, I do hope he asks me to marry him one day... He ... (220 words)

Does "narcissistic" ex miss me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

15 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I dated very briefly last Aug-Oct (2013). I met him through my job (he was a customer there). We had a very intense short term relationship. We never really fought, the sex was amazing, we did fun things together. And behind closed doors he was very affectionate even ... (375 words)

Am I too polite?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

15 July 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been single for 4 years now and am getting worse with women. I am too polite and too gentleman like at times , and when meeting a girl I like I go really polite I can occasionally have a chat with one but never see a signal for me to ask them out or I haven't the bott... (237 words)

I think she might try to initmidate me when we meet!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

15 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently moved to live with my long distance boyfriend. In a few days time I'll be meeting one of his female friends. I get the feeling that this girl has become used to being adored by all her male friends and may not appreciate me taking some attention away from her. ... (210 words)

Are people more likely to speak their minds when they are drunk?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

15 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So ive got the inevitable question. Are people (espeically guys who are kinda of shy but just in general as well) more likely to tell their true feelings, and speak their mind when they're drunk or after even drinks? Is it true what they say that the truth comes out after ... (257 words)

I have a crush on her. How do I tell her without ruining the friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3700 days ago

15 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - hi am 25 theres is a woman who is 30 she sent me a friend request on facebook so i acceptd without knowin her. we both speak the same language. at first i thought myb i know her bt i realisd we dont know each other,so she stays next to my town its a 20mins away frm my home bt ... (300 words)

We had an amazing weekend connection but now I haven't heard from him. Do I call?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

15 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this really good looking guy at a friends BBQ last weekend. We hit it off instantly and chatted for hours. We ended the night by kissing. We live in different states and he spoke of me visiting him. We even talked about sex and how he wasn't having any bc he is still ... (192 words)

I like her and everyone says she likes me but she says only as a friend. What do I do about my feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

15 July 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - So for almost a year, I have gotten close with a girl where she says she doesn't like me, but everyone else that knows us says she does. We live nearby and I'm a senior and she's a sophomore. We used to talk almost everyday. She gave signals that she likes me all the time. We ... (591 words)

What happens to humans if they don't get hugs at all and is it normal to feel down after having a good time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

15 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently received a hug and a kiss on the cheek from someone kind of well known I admire. I met her after an event with few other who were waiting. A few of us gave her cards and I gave her a few yellow flowers to say all the best, she was genuinely touched I did this, ... (532 words)

My wife of 20 years invites a man to stay the night at our home? Is this weird?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

15 July 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, Is it strange that my wife of 20 years invites another man to stay the night at our house? She apparently arranged this visit several weeks back, but didn't let me know about the plans, ask for my opinion, nor tell me until a few days before he showed up. More i... (96 words)

I'm pretty sure my boyfriend is cheating. Do I confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

15 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my boyfriend is cheated on me?For the last week or two ive been having over time and my boyfriend doesnt want me to really go to his baseball games as much anymore and when he gets off work earlier than me hes always out somewhere one day I came home early and he wasnt ... (329 words)