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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Advice about friends and dating needed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

14 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a few problems and I hope this isn't going to be too confusing, but I really need some help. I'm bisexual - out to only a small group of LGBTQ friends, one of which is my best friend, one of which is a friend I've fallen for. We've been flirting, (at least I hope ... (487 words)

How do I handle this? Holiday booked with Bf but I don't want to go.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

14 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I (both in twenties) have been together for 5 years but we're having our first holiday abroad this year. He can be very snappy at times and I've found he's been doing it a lot recently, I've talked to him and he's said he will stop but he hasn't. We got our... (291 words)

Is he starting to become possessive and overly curious about my contact with others?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

14 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner and I are completely and totally in love, and have an incredible relationship that for us is the perfect balance of fun, banter, respect, love and intimacy. We started off just having casual sex whilst on a work trip. We spent the entire week together on the ... (699 words)

Not sexually compatible. She's beautiful and we've been together 5 years. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

14 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem that I think may be pretty common, so I would like to hear from people who have been through it, or are currently dealing with it. I have a partner who is great in every way. Independent, smart, good looking, shares a lot of the same interests as me,... (343 words)

I have been invited to spend time with my Bf's elderly grandmother. What can I do there so don't feel like a freeloader?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

14 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going away for the Summer, to my boyfriend's grandma place. She's quite the old lady (90 I think) and lives in a very, very small town by the river (the whole town has about 20 houses). She owns a farm, so I'll be getting home cooked meals, with homegrown vegeta... (248 words)

In Love: At what point can I make a move on my University Lecturer? After I finish my MA?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

14 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - First post in here, I really need help. I'll get straight to the point; I'm in love with my university lecturer. He's introduced me into a whole new world of my subject area that has inspired me to carry on my education and we can have conversations for hours about everything... (318 words)

What's the best way to approach a woman? Need tips please

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

14 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I'm 24 year old young man who is afraid to approach women. I'm not inexperienced in terms of a relationship or anything like that because I've had serious relationship and they've gone pretty well until they just fade out, and most of my relationships come... (144 words)

Is it salvageable? If yes, then how do I salvage my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

14 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am a 28 years old woman, I met this guy online (he's 38), we are living in different country. I was in a relationship when he first contacted me, but only told him that when i was about to break up with my ex. After 6 months I came to visit him for 10 days. He was... (329 words)

Why do all my relationships end up with me being used?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

14 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My relationships always go south and I end up with guys who treat me badly or only want one thing. This last guy, I met at a meeting for this local political group we're both involved in. We ended up talking and flirting a little (no physical contact then outside a handsh... (998 words)

Want to be exclusive but wondering if it's too early?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

14 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So I met this girl online a few months ago and we got on really well and have texted every day and spoken most days. We've met up twice and I really like her and she likes me a lot too. Most recently she stayed the night and had a great time (we didn't have sex, we just ... (271 words)

Will my doubts disappear about my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

14 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Wondering if anyone has any thoughts on my situation. I've been with my boyfriend for around 3 years, we had a 3 month split in the middle, and since the last 8 months, everything has been almost perfect. We are both thoughtful and caring towards each other, we un... (400 words)

Constantly getting picked on and can't seem to make friends with guys or girls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

14 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I'd like to know how to make friends because I don't have many. I had these two girls that I hung out with all the time in elementary school but we were the only friends we had. K moved away and L developed quickly and became gorgeous and found out she was very artistic and ... (654 words)

A stranger came up to tell me he liked me. Is he a threat?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

14 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I was walking to work yesterday morning 7am, half way there I saw a man come jogging around the corner and he suddenly stopped about twenty yards infront of me then continued tonwalk towards me. I have to admit I did feel uneasy in my stomache as on either side of the ... (610 words)

I know I have to change, but what? And how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3782 days ago

14 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to be long, I'm afraid. I'm 23 years old, and in a long term relationship. I have anxiety problems/am a chronic worrier...unsure as to how to sum it all up! I've needed to get help for quite some time, and have only just started to do so. I’m stubborn, and once... (335 words)

How do I get over this crush on my girlfriend's brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

14 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I have asked before but it has been a while. Quick update: me and my girlfriend have been together for eight years and I have a crush on her brother. So as of now I have lots of sex dreams about him. I'm still trying to get over him. He used to show signs of slight interest but ... (190 words)

He doesn't realize that the way he was treating me is wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

14 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my ex a few weeks ago. We were together for two years. He is a bit of a narcissist, didn't seem to know he was. Lied to me about a lot of things such as: having feelings for an ex, he was on sex sites, masturbated to porn four times a day and then never wanted ... (428 words)

Boyfriend's penis is too big!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

14 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I starring dating this guy and his penis is huge is feels good during but most times it just hurts. I have been with plenty of other men. Its just I can't seem to get use to it. So my question is will it not hurt me or will it hurt forever.... (52 words)

Should I leave this FWB?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

14 July 2014 (M) age 36-40 - We've now known eachother for 5 five and have been FWB for four. In the beginning, I was instantly attracted to her but due to certain anti-social qualities, I didn't want to be in a relationship. She was also attracted to me as well so she wanted to be with me somehow. We ... (447 words)

Going the distance. Can love become friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

14 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Our 3-month relationship has been going great. It's been rather serious, too — given that I've met his mother on several occasions, such as dinner and coffee. But in a month I will go to France on exchange and he will go to England for Masters. We discussed this, and we bot... (126 words)

Is it wrong of me to still be upset about this one night occurrence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

14 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months ago, my boyfriend of 5 years went out with some friends before his best friends military deployment. Rather than going to a bar, as he told me, the guys instead went to a strip club. My boyfriend was the designated driver for the night, and convinced all the men to ... (257 words)

Am I too manly?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3783 days ago

14 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My whole life I have been into sports. I love sports, I love games I love things normal woman don't. I grew up an only child for 12 years and I was basically my dad's son. But I've also been hurt many times by men in my life. So to protect myself I hide my feelings and ... (255 words)