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Archived questions from: 19 July, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

It's not that he's cheap, but he resents my paying for a housekeeper

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3805 days ago

19 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Started living with my boyfriend and he expresses his negative opinion about my housekeeping methods. Basically I really can make myself do all the housework and i don't want him to do it also. He grew up in a household where his mother stayed home and raised kids, cooking, ... (453 words)

I want to be doubly sure that my behaviour around my baby sister is appropriate

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

19 July 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Okay so I am female and 13 years old, and she's still just a little one, six months old. I was wondering if it is appropriate to kiss your little sister on the cheek/forehead? We had a family member living with us years ago that attempted to molest me, and I never want her to ... (90 words)

I feel like everything I valued about our relationship now means nothing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3807 days ago

19 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm my boyfriends 3rd serious girlfriend. He had one relationship that lasted for 3 years, another that lasted 10 months, and us. There were a lot of obstacles in the way of our relationship to start with and we worked hard to be together (only things due to circumst... (491 words)

My girlfriend never seems to have time for me and 'forgets' when we've made plans

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3808 days ago

19 July 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Should I break up with my girlfriend? I have been dating her for about 9 months and we are in high school I am home-schooled she is goes to a normal high school. The past few months have been very rough between us, but we are both very stubborn and we want to be together. ... (926 words)

I miss the "old him" so much

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3808 days ago

19 July 2014 (F) age 36-40 - I'm so torn, do people change or is it a case of a leopard never changes it's spots? Basically about 5 years ago I met this man through friends, we had a lot of friends in common and always seemed to be at the same events. I had a boyfriend though and although we often spoke an... (435 words)

Should I ask if he slept with his female friend who is about to visit?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3808 days ago

19 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Just starting a new relationship with a guy and it's going great. He has a female friend who he's been friends with for about four years, she lives abroad and they met online. She's coming over for a visit soon and I don't know what to feel. They have met a few times but I ... (97 words)

Will I ever stop regretting that I wasted my 20s?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

19 July 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello helpers, Recently I am coming to terms that I have been depressed some way for nearly 10 years now. I didn't think I was before I just thought life was naff and I could never be happy. But anyway over the years I have spent time with no ambition, no goals or anythin... (169 words)

How do I handle this message from my very best friend, who was hurt by a misunderstanding!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3808 days ago

19 July 2014 (F)

age - Recently I have had a health scare. I work with my very best friend and she has told me I'm her best friend ever and she has never in her life had a friend that means as much to her as I do. She tells me all the time she loves me. So when I found out about my health scare I ... (315 words)

Why won't he kiss me passionately?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3808 days ago

19 July 2014 (F)

age - I v been dating a man for a few weeks . Its obvious that we find each other attractive and hug ,hold hands and we have kissed but not a passionate kiss it felt like a peck of endearment . So my question is why wont he kiss me passionately ? ... (54 words)

Would you date someone who uses a wheelchair? Or consider it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

19 July 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Just curious. Because I use one but it seems that most people are really weary of it and I think a lot of them think wheelchair-users are a no go when it comes to dating, or even friendship. I'll be honest and say that making friends has been bloody hard sometimes and st... (526 words)

What needs to change so that girls want to go out with me and so that I can go on to develop a relationship with a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3808 days ago

19 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Now this is probably going to sound a bit doom and gloom. But it's something I've put a large amount of time pondering over and I guess it's the "elephant in the room" for my life. I have used this site for many years now. Constantly posting for help. I have also offere... (666 words)

Why are some younger guys physically attracted to older women?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

19 July 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - When you write that question on google, you get a lot of answers such: having their life together, being more self-assured, more open sexually, etc etc, but I was wondering how some younger men find bodies with signs of aging attractive, what do they find attractive from the ... (238 words)

He's a great guy but I don't feel any physical attraction

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

19 July 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone, I have a little bit of a situation, please for years now I have been out of relationships because basically I would meet only "bad guys" or really incompatible people. Recently I have met this younger guy and it seems like we really get along beautifully, he ... (246 words)

Am I over reacting? My husband's been having outburts that make no sense. It this the start of domestic abuse?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2024 days ago

19 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for five years, married for two of them. He is usually helpful, polite, funny and affectionate. In the last three years, there have been outbursts that made no sense. In the first one, he started an argument when we were about to shop for a new dr... (255 words)

Could marriage work for us in the future if we have different standards right now? His binge drinking was an issue in the past.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3809 days ago

19 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have been living with my boyfriend for a little over a year now and I have some questions. I need some perspective on my situation. He is ready to marry me, and I am not so sure. He asked me a few months ago and I said no because we were having some recurring proble... (378 words)