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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boyfriend not going to my graduation but going with his friends. What does this say?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

7 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend flr ober a year. Were quite serious and are currently living together and saving for a new home. Were very much in love and generally get along great. The thing is its my masters graduation this week. I got 3 tickets, one each for my parents, one for... (227 words)

I don't know who to chose as a room mate!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

7 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I am trying to decide what to do regarding living arrangements next year and it's making me have sleepless nights with worrying over it. I am living with two guys at the minute, one is moving away to university and the other is a guy I've been friends with for a... (631 words)

My inlaws have out stayed their welcome and my husband doesn't get it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

7 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My husbands parents live in canada, weve been together 10 years and they've only come to England once in that time (for our wedding). After the birth of our 1st child they said they were coming to see their grand daughter. They kept changing their minds regarding dates, and ... (390 words)

Should I tell my friend about this drunken mistake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

7 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently been away with a group of friends including my best friend ,her husband and his cousin. I hadn't met this cousin previously but had heard friends talk about him and he is kind of connected to where I work, I knew I would get on well with him which we did but it ... (169 words)

Dating 3 months, is it too early to ask for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

7 July 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - I and ma gf started dis relationship about 3months ago,and all I think of when We are together is sex,do u think it too early to ask for sex now... (30 words)

Love triangle or 3 broken hearts?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

7 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiancee and I have been having threesome's and I have been letting him sleep with other women. I don't really have a problem as long as I am involved... he doesn't feel comfortable letting me sleep with other men which is annoying and stressful but my real problem comes up ... (152 words)

I need my boyfriend's support right now and all he wants to do is argue

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

7 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys I am just going to give you a brief background before telling you the issue. My boyfriend and I have been together almost 3 years we have been living together 6 months and have recently bought a puppy together...you'll see why this information is important now almo... (442 words)

My LDR boyfriend has become a playboy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

7 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - hii people plz help me out i m girl of 20 years in a ldr for about 2 years ..this is my problem 1) my bf attitude changed recently he is asking me to flirt with guys i feel terrible d it is totally not my wish 2) he has changed a lot ...eg before he used to meet me often tx... (166 words)

Steamy emails make me think I might be sharing her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

7 July 2014 (M)

age - so i found on a shared computer a open e mail account, i opened it and right from the top i saw several e mails to one man in a span of several hours. i stared to open them and read, wow, some very steamy ones. some written in a short story form and sexy at that. like referring ... (359 words)

Is he trying to avoid hurting my feelings? Or does he have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

7 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupids, I am a bisexual male, and I have met this guy who seems straight. Well I say seems because I know he had sex with at least 2 girls over the last year. I fancy him a lot and we became very close friends over the last year. However, he does not know that I am ... (380 words)

For the last three months she hasn't had time for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

7 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Readers, I am in a kind of difficult situation. my Girlfriend of one year suddenly got self absorbed for the last three months. she stopped texting me or calling me, and when i told her that we should talk, she said she has many things on her mind right now, that she is p... (274 words)

Does not wanting to to work outside the home make me a bad person?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3786 days ago

7 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Does not wanting to to work outside the home make me a bad person? My husband barely makes enough to support us. We don't even have children. We have talked about adoption in the future when we are better off. We're in our mid twenties. I often find myself wishing he made ... (299 words)

I'm a virgin but this turns men off

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

7 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a virgin and I plan to stay that way until I'm married. I'm not particularly religious, but I was raised that way and the few times I did try to have sex, it was impossible because I was so tense! The guy got sick of being frustrated (I'd wanted to do it because I wanted ... (389 words)

Lost my best friend because of her "cousin"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

7 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so my bestfriend of almost 3 years ... Just all of a sudden cut me off. Her pretend cousin is like the BOSS of her . She runs her and tells her what to do so I think she played a HUGE part in it ! School starts in august an I just don't want to have to face her and her ... (129 words)

I saw him with another girl and told him it was over

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3788 days ago

7 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - We'll I have been dating my brothers best friend for about ten months. The only this is that it's been a secret from my family because my brother would kill him. He is 26 and I am 22. I meet his family went to his family events and they all liked me and I liked them. He took ... (472 words)

I am wondering if my partner has mild autism or Aspergers - does anyone have any experience please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

7 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am worried about my partner's wellbeing and am wondering if he has a mild form of autism or Aspergers. He recently split up with me on a complete whim (we were very happy until two hours before) as he thought our relationship was what was making him unhappy, and then ... (464 words)

How can I get out of this and save my marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

7 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I desperately need advice! I have a male friend of many years. We have always been very close and share many mutual interests, we are a lot alike spiritually and have always understood each other even though he is of different nationality and there is a small language barrier... (623 words)

I was to experiement sexually with my friend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

7 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been thinking about it for a longtime and i really want to experiment with my close friend. i would like to get him to experiment with him but 1] when i hit on him he dont take it seriosly. 2] if we do what if he tells somebody. so how do i get him to esperiment. he hits ... (157 words)

I thought we were in love, but then he confessed he loved another!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

7 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I sit here in pieces and in need of some words of comfort. I'll try and keep it as succinct as possible as there could be the potential to write a lot. Me and my boyfriend over two and a half years broke up tonight. He is in love with another women. We had been so happy or... (787 words)

He wont say we are girlfriend and boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

7 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so my partner say we are dealing but not girlfriend and boyfriend. I tried talking to him about this, he says he cannot deal with the girlfriend/boyfriend thing but i get dealt with, sort out and treated better than anyoneelse but i still have doubts. I get scared that he ... (298 words)

Does it sound like she didn't mind my secretly massaging her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

7 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I was at a party at a pub and two people with me was my girlfriend and her best friend. No one was drunk, only light drinking if that. I had them in either side and at times arms around both. Everytime her friend sat down she was sit very close, which is okay, but once m... (191 words)

He suddenly came on to me and now I'm not sure how to deal with this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

7 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I've had a strange situation come up with a friend of mine. I am a lesbian and he is a straight male. We met about 2 years ago and have been close friends since then/hung out a lot. I knew his girlfriends, was privy to his hookup info, his type of woman, etc. T... (421 words)