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Archived questions from: 27 July, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm nervous about showing affection, maybe because of my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3769 days ago

27 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am seeing a man who I like a lot. I could go on and on about all the things we have in common, and what a great guy he is, but I am writing to you because I have a bit of an obstacle. I find it so incredibly difficult to get intimate with him! When he's not around I fantasize ... (432 words)

The families' demands are ruining my wedding experience

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

27 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice on whether we should allow our families to take control of our upcoming wedding or just tell them that everything they want is far from what we want. We have been together for five years and we have a three year old. We have been together since we met at ... (398 words)

I need advice, I'm worried about her, our long distance relationship, and I miss her all the time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3765 days ago

27 July 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Me and my girlfriend have crush on each other for 5 years since high school but didnt know then. And now in a relationship for one n half year. Actually we were in the same little hometown so it was all okay if we didnt see each other much. But now we both in different cities ... (472 words)

I'm gutted that my boyfriend canceled our getaway weekend and went out with friends instead!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

27 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years. Things have always been good. Recently we've both been busy with work but I've found I'm seeing my boyfriend less and less. He plays football for a local club and trains with them Tuesday, Thursda... (301 words)

We found out our close friends gave us a recycled gift as our wedding gift! Would you mention that you know to them?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

27 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I'm really annoyed about something and I can appreciate there are more important things to worry about but I do feel I've been taken for a fool. My fiance and I got married 2 months ago and because we already live together and have household it... (366 words)

What's my problem? Why don't I make an effort to contact my friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3769 days ago

27 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - frnds i dont know what is the problem with me.. i am sure a guy who thinks a lot. i have a hard time making friends. i am 22 and can say have no frnds and because i dont make an effort. i had friends in college but i never seem to connect with anyone deeply. now i am out of ... (110 words)

I want to catch this guy's attention!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

27 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - This good looking guy moved into my building about a month ago. A couple of weeks back, we arrived at home at the same time. We park diagonally across from each other. He was ahead of me by about 10 meters, but turned to look behind him. He noticed me, there was no smile or ... (260 words)

He was sexting and then had an affair, I cant decide whether to forgive and work on it, or leave!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

27 July 2014 (F)

age - I recently asked for help over my partner sexting another woman and I have now spoken to her and she was very willing to tell me that they had know each other for about a year and that they were only friends and although she wanted more, he said that he love me, so she broke it ... (243 words)

I want him to meet my extended family but he says he has to work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

27 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is a football coach in an academy he works 6 days a week which includes every weekend. Is it unreasonable for me to want him to have a Saturday off for my aunt and uncles 40th wedding anniversary so he can meet my extended family? He's saying he will have to work ... (64 words)

I'm worried he is hankering for his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

27 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known my fiance for 6 years we've been in a relationship for 2 and have 2 month old daughter together. Just recently he started speaking about his ex who is the mother of his other child. He says things like, she's a good actress, she just got a new car, im glad she is ... (127 words)

At the moment writing is his priority, I want marriage and kids in the future, do I wait or walk?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

27 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend just over a year. Everything is amazing! I thought i was in love with previous partners but nothing compares to how i feel about him. Hes so much fun and just completely gets me. He is eight years older than me. I have a profession that im relatively ... (361 words)

Should I tell my wife that I'm considering a visit to see a prostitute?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

27 July 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - Yes, this is a weird question to ask. However, my wife of 20 years will not have sex with me and has not for more than 10 years. It is something we have talked about many, many times but nothing ever changes. She doesn't want to divorce me and I don't want to divorce he... (262 words)

He likes me! But am I over thinking? What if I do later change my mind about having children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

27 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello dear cupid'ers! I'm head over heels in love and it's absolutely wonderful, this guy is officially the cats pyjamas. We have been in a relationship for around 9 months now, and we are looking at getting a place together. I know we make each other very happy, he encour... (346 words)

I'm trying to forgive him and make the marriage work, but friends and family don't undertand why!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

27 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 7 years and we have 4 kids under the age of 5. A month ago he told me that he had an affair with a coworker. It happened in April and last three weeks, during those three weeks they were together 4 times. He said he had to tell me because ... (202 words)

Is there any point in pursing a relationship? Does he fancy me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

27 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy about three months ago. We got along so well, straight off the bat, and we've both admitted to each other, that we find the other hot. We used to flirt all the time, but whenever the conversation got deeper, he shut off. He even mentioned that he wants me to come ... (473 words)

I want a relationship but I cant even talk to girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

27 July 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - I'm desperate for a relationship and need help. Every time I fall for a girl I'm friend zoned. I'm not necessarily good at talking to girls at first and I am always kind of pushed into talking to a girl. I can't even start a decent conversation without thinking that I need to ... (71 words)

All of a sudden I have an urge to change my appearance ....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

27 July 2014 (?) age 22-25 - Hi..so I am a relatively not girly person. I don't like wearing skirts or dresses and wear baggy t shirts. I usually have thick eyeliner and my hair is pixie cut short, almost boyish cut. But suddenly out of nowhere I am feeling the uncontrollable urge to be feminine and ... (141 words)

My boyfriend lied, and I don't know how to approach him about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

27 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - So I've just found out, for the 1st time, that my boyfriend has lied to me. We've been together for 3 amazing months, it's left me feeling on top of the world. We had arranged to see each other tonight and tomorrow before he goes away for a week, and he was going to stay o... (263 words)

I have to tell him I am moving, but I'm worried he might see it as a big complication!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

27 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I apologise in advance for the long post. I've been dating this guy for about a month now, and things seem to be working out fine. We haven't yet defined what the relationship is, and I'm afraid of asking, because I don't want to seem desperate, or force things. I just wan... (570 words)