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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's a shy guy, does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3771 days ago

24 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this guy I work with that is always talking to me and pretty much only me, and he always has this look in his eyes when he sees me. He is alwayyyys trying to make me laugh and tells me funny stories all the time..he always keeps the conversation going even if it is a ... (344 words)

My partner has been sexting

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

24 July 2014 (F)

age - I have discovered that my partner of 9 years has been sending very sexually explicit texts to another woman and photos of his erect penis. This dates back to the end of last year until March when it seemed to tail off. From the texts my name is mentioned in what we are doing ... (230 words)

He doesn't seem to fit the stereotype of a guy who likes fighting

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

24 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a college student and I volunteer in a biology lab. For the past 8 weeks we've had a physics and math major helping us out doing some calculations. This is his final week in our lab as the project is just about finished and I really like him. The problem is I don't know ... (574 words)

Can this relationship be saved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

24 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - This page has been so helpful to me before so thought id ask again. Do you think this relationship is salvageable? We started off as friends, friends for 2 years, then got together. Bexause we had been friends we knew so much about each other all though this wasn't a goo... (306 words)

I'm already prepared to put my marriage on the line, that's how sick of his family I am. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

24 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - In a few weeks time I am due to go and stay at my husbands parents house, they are a muslim family. I have not met them before only spoken to them by phone and skype. His mother seems to be boss and interfering and has already made som comments that have put me totally of going ... (156 words)

It's been 2 days since he sent an email, what is he playing at and what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

24 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so there is this guy that i really like and we just broke up for the summer hols. He took my email before we left and signed my shirt as we are leaving school. He sent an emmediate email to me with a load of random letters. I replied saying what the hell (we constantly tease ... (104 words)

Should I confront her about why she deleted me from facebook?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

24 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Small question.. Just finished college ive just noticed one of my friends from college has deleted me of Facebook, no idea why, we were quite good friends as far as I'm aware. I thought maybe it was because we had finished college and she felt she no longer needed/w... (82 words)

What's my next step with him? Not sure how to read him due to my Aspergers.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

24 July 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I just recently found out I have Asperger's. One symptom is that I am useless with guys and dating - I cannot read the signs at all. I think men think I'm above average intelligence and that I am pretty, but it is very, very hard to 'process' that idea in the sense of applying ... (647 words)

Not sure what he's doing on this holiday

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

24 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having some problems with my relationship, and I am hoping someone could help me! My boyfriend and I are 20 and have been dating for almost two years. He has been in Paris for a number of weeks on vacation, and recently we got into an argument about his partying. He had... (200 words)

Is this guy bad news?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

24 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been speaking to a guy online for a month. We first started speaking through twitter. The first night we started speaking, we stayed up until 6am. The conversation was incredibly deep, we spoke about everything from religion, to current events happening in the world. ... (322 words)

He seldom tries to see me but he's left stuff at my place ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

24 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Im so confused my partner moved due to work in November last yr and this year ive seen him 4 times only for a day never over night, ive asked him many of times if he wanted to b with me or if he liked somebody else or was even with anyone else hes always said no to me... A coup... (177 words)

Am I flirting wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

24 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have never been good at flirting, first of all, but recently I don't know what has come over me with this new guy I know... It started with me and another girl getting him to promise to buy us ice cream because the weather was so hot. Then, a little later I brought a co-wor... (265 words)

The men I meet talk the talk but don't walk the walk!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

24 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, just looking for a bit of insight on this one! I'm 26, and literally the only single one left out of all my friends! When I was 15, I had my first boyfriend and we were together for 5 years. I broke it of as we drifted apart, and I finished Uni, built my career and ... (253 words)

Would it be okay to go out with a friend of the opposite sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

24 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship of about 5 months, we were together previously. I have a friend who I haven't physically seen, just messaged since I reentered my relationship. My friend did admit he had feelings for me previously when i was single, but i wasn't interested, he understood ... (220 words)

I caught him talking sexually with other men but he denies it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

24 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help! I have caught my boyfriend (for the second time) talking to men sexually. We are happy (or so I thought). we've been living together for over a year. He denies everything, i even sent the "mystery man" an email, he says they never actually met up but they talk on ... (97 words)

I don't love him any more .....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

24 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I want a divorce but my husband doesnt agree, what can i do i dont love him anymore but we have a child. The fact that i dont love him anymore and everytime he asks me to have sex with him and if i disagree he gets mad and always doubted that i dont love him but instead of ... (111 words)

Why is my boyfriend so insensitive towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

24 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - HI, I feel very disappointed with my bf after 3 years. I take alot of effort for him to make him feel special for bday, anniversary etc. But very seldom he does things for me. Yesterday, i reminded him about our anniversary is this weekend and asked if any plans. He replie... (123 words)

I took him back when he cheated but I just cant trust him anymore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

24 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, you've indeed been of great help to me, and I do appreciate everything. Pls I need your advice on an issue bothering my heart. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend who loves me so much for 7yrs now(we've lived together for 2yrs now), although I met his ... (202 words)

She's come back into my life, but she has a Bf. Should I tell her my feelings for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

24 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Too make a long story short. A girl who ive really liked has come back into my life, I've liked her since 7th grade and that was 9 years ago. I'm a college junior now and a lot has changed from then, she is still amazing to me, when i first saw her a long time ago i was the ... (227 words)

Why have I never felt this way about any other guy? He makes me tingle.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

24 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is the one and only person that I have ever been with that literally makes me go crazy horny when I think of him. I'm thirty years old! I never felt this physical attraction with anyone else.. Sorry for TMI but my clitoris literally tingles when I think even abo... (109 words)

I've made it clear: monogamy is my preference. Am I over-reacting to his suggestion re a threesome?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

24 July 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Help my partner has told me he would participate in a threesome with me and another man if I ever wanted that . I told him that I would never ask for that and the fantasy is one thing but in real life a threesome is not something I'm interested in He then asked if I would do... (153 words)

What do I do ? Go back to a safe comfortable marriage with a kind man and be unhappy? Or try again with a new man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

24 July 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for twenty years and although I love my husband there has never been the chemistry that I had before him in another relationships. Even at the beginning with my husband it wasn't there , yet I had been in previous relationships of several years where I ... (335 words)

LDR issues: Don't want to lose him, but things are moving too fast

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

24 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I help to make this LDR work? I met a guy a month ago and he moved too fast with his feelings. I hesitated to date him at first because I have tried two LDRs that failed because the first one I wasn't really in love and the second one basically used me and i hated th... (259 words)

She wanted to tell me he is a "player" so I wouldn't get hurt. Is he really a player or is he reformed? What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

24 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have met this guy on facebook( we both graduated same year in high school) and he lives in one state and I moved to another state, almost 8 yrs ago. He and I found love with each other just by talking on facebook. Been together for 1 month and I find out a couple says lat... (415 words)

I'm confused about this attraction to this girl, how do I approach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

24 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid.. I am so confused. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and love him to pieces. But for years, since I started secondary school I have always fancied girls and guys. It started by having crushes on girl teachers. I met my boyfriend when I was 16 and now I am ... (201 words)