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Archived questions from: 29 July, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is there something wrong with a man who is watching the 'teen' category in porn?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2336 days ago

29 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - As a woman I have no problem with consentually adult material ie porn however I often notice when seeing the categories that teen is always one of them Personally it makes me feel sick and I steer well away from that but maybe I'm overreacting So my question is this... (138 words)

Does letting go really work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 July 2014 (F)

age - much fun. I met all his family and friends. After about 4 months we were practically living together. Until one day, I felt that something wasn't right. I found out this the was on a dating website. I walked out and we didn't talk for a while. Then we talked and got together... (263 words)

What does the CEO want? Should I go there prepared to share a bunch of ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I wrote an email to a company to give them some fresh ideas to help in its performance. I got a call from the secretary saying that the CEO and Marketing director want to meet with me. The call was very official but friendly. I'm not sure what they expect. Should I go there pr... (78 words)

The guy who I thought was my closest friend will not talk to me. Am I over-reacting to his actions?.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

29 July 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I had a small party and my closest friend at it wouldn't talk to me at all. He spent most of the night having a great time with another friend (their conversations were completely exclusive as well, so there was no way I could join in). He only said "hi" to me but was m... (143 words)

I have a gut feeling that something is wrong between her and me. Do you think I am wrong about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've been dating this girl for a few months now I just have a gut feeling something is wrong. I do have some trust issues and paranoia from past problems but they aren't as bad as they used to be. She's always getting facebook notifications but wont look at them when I'm... (146 words)

Am I being selfish? Or is my reluctance to share information with her due to her need to compete with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

29 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody, I am a nursing student soon to qualify and I have decided that I want to go down the route of medicine. I have researched the course and contacted the university. I have paid for the upcoming GAMSAT examination and started revising. My problem? A friend t... (422 words)

Online dating issues. I want to message him, but what would I say to him now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

29 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I joined an online dating site and met a man and had quite a few dates with him. He wanted to keep his options open, but I caught him out in a lie when he said he was not at a place when he was. Since then he went quiet on me and so I told him he's childish and we can all have... (109 words)

He was prosecuted for domestic violence and now lives in a hostel. So why do I still feel so lonely without him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 July 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 25 years i have an 18 year old son. When i first got married things were great then about a year into our marriage signs of my husbands bad temper started to show. I didnt worry too much at first. Then he started smashing house up and then crying after... (193 words)

How do I deal with this feeling of confidence or lack of confidence in my body image?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Does anyone have this re-ocurring feelings and nervousness that they might not actually look the way they appear in picture when they are about to go on a date with someone they met online This is my first date with a wonderful chinese girl i met online I always told her ... (237 words)

He was always happy to talk on the phone, but not so much for getting together in person

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

29 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy online 5 months ago and we went on our first date after about 3 weeks of chatting. We had a great time and it was clear we got on well. Soon after our first date, he started calling me every night and we would speak for over an hour everyday. Quite soon he started ... (394 words)

I feel like I've rebuilt myself from the ground up and am ready to explore a new relationship. How do I convince friends and family not to worry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm needing some advice on how to handle a new relationship situation which has honestly got me stumped. About 3 months ago I came out of an abusive long term gay relationship. The abuse was mostly emotional but there were tmes when it crossed into the physical. For t... (649 words)

I'm in a relationship but it's not feeling like one!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - When we first went out 3 years ago, everything was perfect. He tried his best to do what ever he can just to make me happy but because I don't mind anything and he kind of stopped doing because he said I don't really mind anything he does and I'm still happy in the ... (406 words)

Have I missed the bus?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 July 2014 (M)

age - Have I missed the bus? Hi I'm a fifty year old from rural England who is at the end of a relationship that has not worked for the last few years, the thing is I feel as though I won't find a woman for love at my point in life, I'm getting quite low over this issue as I yearn ... (68 words)

He put down the booze and picked up the anger!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year I was seeing someone for over a year (we were friends for 3 years prior to dating) and we broke it off because he had some issues with alcohol. That issue has become a lot better. We started hanging out again in May and have been trying to make things work again. ... (351 words)

How can I show my partner I appreciate everything he has done for me since I gave birth with complications?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is not a problem as such, id just really appreciate some suggestions. I recently had a baby and due to last minute complications I had to have a cesarean which also went wrong. It was quite a traumatic time, especially for my partner as he felt helpless. Anyw... (220 words)

The more I talk to her the stronger my feelings grow.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - a girl has come in my life and she is like my best friend.she said we can only be best friends and i respect that and dont have any problems with it. we been talking to each other over phone regularly for past couple of months. i can live as a friend because she is a nice gir... (184 words)

I'm the lonliest guy in the world ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

29 July 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello everybody, I am a 17 year old guy who is extremely lonely. I am 6'5" tall and I'm not bad looking. I just graduated high school, I have friends, I have family, but I've never had a girlfriend, and I am pretty much the lonliest guy in the world. I just was wonderin... (90 words)

Mother-in-law's name for the baby's middle name?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

29 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Background: SO and I have been together almost a decade. We are married and expecting a baby (our first) in 4 months. A few questions: Would you be okay with giving your baby MIL's name as their middle name IF... ...your MIL has in the past made racist remarks about ... (270 words)