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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He talked in the past tense and then no contact. So I guess its over??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3825 days ago

2 July 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 2 years is in the in the army and when he was still in town we were inseparable and we couldn't get enough of each other. He's currently living in Korea for 3 months now, and for a month and a half we communicated almost daily and he didn't mind what's the cost, ... (181 words)

Should I tell this guy to contact me later on down the road?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3823 days ago

2 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently received a couple of emails from a guy I pined over for the past year. He took a long time with the first email because we met through work, and because of our work situation (which was temporary), dating would have been impossible. Still, when I first heard from ... (508 words)

One night stands more acceptable than casual dating flirting and making out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

2 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it considered in this society to be more acceptable to have a one-night-stand than it is to flit just to flirt? Why is it just so wrong to have a boyfriend and leave it juts at making out and heavy petting (leaving the clothes on)? Why is it that people like my sister ... (283 words)

Younger older relationships in the light of the Rolf Harris thing

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

2 July 2014 (M)

age - I had a relationship with a much younger woman I was 41, she was 17. It didn't work out, though I did not do anything wrong except decide we were not that compatible and arrive at the conclusion there was something not quite right about it! I regret the whole thing and not been ... (135 words)

Will my new job damage how my hair grows?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

2 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm starting a new job soon. They keep the temperature cold there since it's a food warehouse. I know all that air conditioning makes the air extremely dry. I know if I dress warmly, I won't feel uncomfortable, but there is one thing in particular I'm worried about. Will... (115 words)

My dad is pushing his girlfriend down my throat

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

2 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - hi. I have a problem with my dads girlfriend. I barley know her and my dad keeps pushing her down my throat(not literally). just a month ago he told me they were engaged. it seems like now she is taking him away from everything he once held dear. and he is letting her. when ... (61 words)

He told me he liked me but he has a girlfriend. Why did he do that?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

2 July 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - I liked a guy and I told him how I felt and he told me that he felt the same way. about a week later he told me he had a girlfriend. I asked him why he did it and he told me because they liked each other. So then why didn't he ask me out? Should I have asked him out?... (62 words)

Frightened for mom's visit, how do I come clean about my relationship??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3823 days ago

2 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll try to keep this very long story short. Ever since 16, dating has been discouraged by my parents who are strict, school oriented and religious. (note: I was an honor roll student in highschool, award winner, 4.1 GPA, currently studying health sciences in University) ... (954 words)

Should I move out of state with my husband and try to reconcile our marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

2 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I got married rather quickly after meeting and falling in love (within 6 months) and have been married for over 2 years now. We have a sweet one year old daughter. We are a Christian family, and I have difficulty considering divorce and really want to reconcile ... (642 words)

My boyfriend wants to be a Male escort ...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3823 days ago

2 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just discovered that my boyfriend is taking a part time job as a Male escort , and would consent to having sex with another woman . He was honest with me , but I feel hurt and betrayed knowing he will not be faithful to me . He claims it is a temporary measur... (88 words)

My fiances sister is a great girl, but I don't want her living with us!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

2 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I understand that some of you may think I am purely being selfish but please try and understand what I'm saying.... Ok, so my fiancée and I got our own place last year. We had both saved to be able to buy our own place, and when we got engaged it seemed the next step. So we... (556 words)

Married co worker is giving mixed signals

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3823 days ago

2 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 and about to start my last year of college. For the last two years, my major requires us to work in hospitals nearby. I worked at one hospital where I eventually started to like this man. He taught me everything I know. When i first met him, I just thought he was a... (1191 words)

Would I be putting myself down if I take this job?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

2 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, i have a question!i have a high school diploma, and a computer application certificate. I live with m'y relative but due to their stingy life style, m'y health Is getting worse due to lack of food. Iam searching for job but its not That easy . I have been offered a job ... (81 words)

Dating naive girls

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

2 July 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Sometimes I meet an attractive girl but then find she's very naive (has many male friends and doesn't believe that most of them just want to get in her pants eventually). That puts me off because I think I wouldn't be able to handle the jealousy, but that's just me. However, ... (90 words)

Am I reading this situation right? If so how do I ask this girl out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3825 days ago

2 July 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok, so i have a few question on how i should do something, and i'm looking for some solid, simple advice. Story: So i'm a junior in high school, and there is a girl i like, who i don't know very well. We've met once, but i felt like she might be interested in me as well... (284 words)

Was he just using me for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

2 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically there was a guy I was dating for 4 months and since I have moved back to my home town, this guy has cut if off with me doesn't speak to me and makes excuses when I want to speak to him. So I confronted him and he said whatever we has was a 'laugh', my response was ... (166 words)

How do I get the approval of my girlfriend's family and friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

2 July 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Three years ago I started dating an amazing girls named Jessica. We had a great relationship, she was sweet, fun no always up for an adventure. You can say I have always flirted with danger, I live for excitement but I needed up getting mixed up with drugs and my life and ... (314 words)

My periods have stopped and I don't know why

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

2 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi i was just wondering if anyone knew why my periods have just stopped im 15 they stopped when i was just turning 15 im gonna be 16 this august i havent had underage sex of any kind so i know im not pregnant someone help plz ... (47 words)

Is it reasonable to ask him to cut back on his socializing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3825 days ago

2 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my bf for a little over a year and I'd like some opinions on our relationship. We met online through a dating site and hit it off immediately. He lives a two hour drive away so at first we only seen each other at weekends but five months ago he found a job h... (276 words)

Husband sulking over old school pal

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

2 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Thankyou in advance for any advice..sorry it's so long I've been with my husband for a long time and we have a 8 year old daughter together and older kids from our first marriages, on the whole we've been happy, but about 6 months after we had our daughter I notic... (598 words)

Questions for females, does this happen to anybody else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

2 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - weird question coming your way - mostly aimed at women. i started my period about 5 years ago and it's still unreliable timing-wise so i always wear sanitary towels (yes literally ALWAYS and i find tampons uncomfortable so don't use them) but that's not the problem. one of the ... (141 words)

I think my boyfriend's thinking about his ex girlfriend ....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3823 days ago

2 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a little confused as my long term boyfriend has always seemed to be a 100% loyal and faithful guy, but lately I have a feeling hes had his ex girlfriend on his mind lately. I'm worried he's talking to her behind my back. About a week ago, he was telling me a story about... (239 words)

Is it time to end the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

2 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm a 27 year old bisexual female and I've been in a relationship with my partner for 3.5years now. At the beginning the sex was great and constant however the last 12-18months has dwindled and the last 8 months non existent! She never feels in the mood there is always a ... (126 words)

My boyfriend has double standards ..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

2 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I have been with my bf for almost a year. Long story short, I went drinking with our mutual friends (he was not present) last week and he got mad with me. True, we did drink But within the circle of 6 friends, we only shared 3 bottles of beers. I don't think it was ... (113 words)

Am I selfish because I do not want to be selfless?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

2 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I was dating who I thought to be the most perfect man 3 months ago. He was everything I thought I wanted in a man, and more. We broke up very recently and I have been having mixed emotions of it everyday and am trying to sort out my feelings. I know that in the long r... (661 words)

Two guys like me and I like them both back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3825 days ago

2 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Two guys really like me and I like them back. They are both great guys and I don't know which to choose. Both of them get me presents for which ever occasion it is. So I don't know which one to choose because they both asked me out.... (48 words)