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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is there such a thing as a ridiculously attractive average looking guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

21 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - There have been a very very small number of guys who said they've done some kind of psychological exercises to become more attractive to girls and now they get checked out everywhere they go by a LOT of girls and don't have to say anything special to clearly pique their ... (175 words)

I only have a week to tell her how I feel -- if I even should?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

21 July 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Guys I knew a girl from my dance lessons a coupe of years ago. We shared an unusual chemistry and did seem to get along real well. But I did not ask her out cause I was then involved with someone else. I met her yesterday after almost a year and we quickly got to talking ... (158 words)

I'm working to change but I'm afraid he's not as motivated to make this work as I am

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

21 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This needs to be long, but I’ll try and sum it up as best I can! I'm 23 years old, and in a long term relationship. I have anxiety problems/am a chronic worrier etc. My boyfriend has dyspraxia, and possibly a touch of autism, which prevents him from feeling certain emotions... (356 words)

I've met his friends but not his family -- is he not as sincere as I'd thought?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

21 July 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been seeing a chap for two years; he is a widower and I am a divorcee with a young son. 'My' chap has met my family (parents and sister) and I have met his friends but not his family. I don't want to come over all 'bunny boiler' about this, but I am finding it somewh... (189 words)

I paid for the taxi on my back -- does that mean the end of my relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

21 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - After an afternoon boozing I thought it wise to get a taxi home! However id ran out of money and couldn't really afford it! On the way home I explained this to the taxi driver who said I could always pay at the other end, however my boyfriend was away from home with work s... (186 words)

How do I keep from being a slut?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

21 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I fell for this guy when I was 15, and we broke up when I was 17. I'm 19 now. When we were together I was so happy, he was my first kiss, first love and on my 17th birthday I gave him my virginity. A couple weeks later he broke up with me. For the first year I laid low and ... (185 words)

Do I just leave her alone? I wanted closure but she said she doesn't need it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

21 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Should I simply leave her alone? I have just finished college and I do not date at all but one day, I met a girl in the library and we quickly got along really well as new friends and we found out that we had so much in common. Over time, we started to message each oth... (484 words)

Boyfriend has baby mama drama and I'm being pushed aside

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

21 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am dealing with some baby momma drama. My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for about a year and a half. We really love each other and talk about a future together. We are both professionals....im a resident physician and he in school to be an engineer. There is one ... (858 words)

The spark is gone from our sex life, will bringing in a third person help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

21 July 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. My wife and I have been married for 23 years. We still love each other but the spark has gone from our sex life, although we regularly have sex. For many years I have always told her that the thought of her having sex with another well endowed man turns me on. At first she ... (209 words)

Is this boy ignoring me, or does he just want sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

21 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy messaged me about a week or two ago. We'll call him "Isaac." "Isaac" and I went to middle school together, and he's two years younger than me. He is about to be a sophomore and I'm about to be a senior. When we were in middle school, I came out to my friends as ... (548 words)

My girlfriend loves penis-jokes, but I am feeling hurt by them!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

21 July 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I am in a horrible situation where my anxiety over penis size is ruining my life. I am a 30 year old guy and am not someone to believe in the usual pressures of society, in fact I think they are immoral and insensitive. Nonetheless, this modern socie... (674 words)

He love me not ... he loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

21 July 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - ok, i'm trying to think less about boys and i'm getting out more because i know it's good for me, but the guy i really like is next door and we're kinda like best friends (we knew about each other since we were little but rarely got to see each other because our homes were long ... (246 words)

Am I just being stupid and paranoid as I do really love him but I don't want to be hurt and betrayed and these arguments are ruining us, should I put it all behind us and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

21 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months. I am 21 and hes 26. Hes a very flirty guy and other girls love him but he's always made it clear that I'm the one and everyone can see how happy and in love we are. About a month into our relationship he went on a lads h... (598 words)

Why would a girl that I hurt so much want to meet up after a couple years just 'to see how things were'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

21 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Please advice on this would be great!! I don't want to be swayed by the lads incase I'm wrong and do something stupid again. I dated this girl for a while just over 2 years ago, a long time now and she didn't know how strong my feelings for her when we were together, I neve... (576 words)

Is he telling friends those things because he knows I'm over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3775 days ago

21 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Therrs this guy who ive known for a year and its like...we made out alot and I used to have like a huge crush on him. I even told him. But there was a few times he has kissed me cheek, but there was this time where he kissed me for no reason out of nowhere. and everytime I ... (134 words)

My B/f seems to think I should be available to fit around his busy schedule. Am I being out of line?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

21 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm looking for some advice on the argument I just had with my boyfriend please. He has been on vacation for 2 and a bit weeks, at a music festival in Spain. Before he left and during the course of him being away, I've asked him a couple of times when he is flying back and ... (342 words)

How do you tell a fake cry from a real cry? I think my ex fake cried to get me back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

21 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Im not sure, but I think my ex might have fake cried as a way of trying to get me back. He told me before that he cried to try and get his exes back but he did it becuase he knew it would get them back. He knows that I know this, and he said he's not stupid and would n... (218 words)

Would any man even be interested in a woman of only five feet if she is not extremely slim ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

21 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm recently back in the dating game after a long relationship but finding myself worried about my height . I only five feet tall and a little plump. I lost considerable weight through weight loss surgery and am happy with where I'm at now . I am within a healthy range ... (133 words)

Experiences coping with Type 1 Diabetes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

21 July 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Does anyone have any experience of coping with Diabetes Type 1 - NOT type 2? My daughter is being really affected by getting Type 1 at the age of 24, very suddenly. She's highly intelligent and would benefit from a 'buddy' - even an online pen-pal - preferably who has been ... (230 words)

How can I ever tell my wife that due to my diabetes my ability to have sexual relations is no more?.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

21 July 2014 (M)

age - I am a 53 year old man and I have lost my ability to have sex because I suffer from diabetes. I can just can ejaculate but my penis is not hard enough to sustain sexual relations with my wife. I feel guilty myself. My wife is so good, How can I tell her? I can never tell her o... (65 words)

I love my girlfriend but don't want to have sex with her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

21 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - okay so here's my question. I've been on my relationship for nearly three years nowand let me tell you with the greatest thing that ever happened to me.but here's thing, never had sex with my girl friend.and it wasn't even her choice it was mine. don't think that I don't love ... (456 words)

SHould I date this guy even though my family says hes just after me for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3748 days ago

21 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So 4 weeks ago i started a new job and a co worker of mine has really taken a liking to me. I like him too, a lot, but I am 18 and he is 23. Now i know this is a very small age gap but i have a sister who's 22 and i have always said i refuse to date people older than her, then ... (264 words)

Are these my issues or should I be concerned that my Bf prefers breasts that are more pert?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

21 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - If I'm with my bf and he has told me he is more of a leg man and prefer smaller breasts and I'm short with larger breasts should I even bother with trying to involve them in foreplay and sex for his benefit . To me my breast are not extremely sensitive but my partners have alw... (189 words)

Should I warn him about my behaviuor that caused problens in a previous relations?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

21 July 2014 (F) age 36-40 - I have the most amazing bf ever. I am in my late 20s and he is in his early 30s. We get along so well and have only had a few short disagreements in the year and a half we've been together. We never argue, we are so similar. He treats me like a queen and I treat him like a ... (284 words)

Is it good or bad to have a high angled Penis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

21 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Anyone know if a high erection angle, e.g. 11 o'clock, is particularly stimulating to women or is there not much benefit to having one? I have one and sex doesn't feel that great for me because of it, I think. But if it gets girls off particularly well, then that's good because ... (178 words)

I stress over everything. What are some tips to help overcome insecurity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3775 days ago

21 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm super insecure- about everything really, from my relationship with my boyfriend to my relationships with my friends, to my appearance, personality, etc. I know it's a problem, and I know it'll continue to make me unhappy if i don't try to change. How can I try to overcome... (58 words)

She took my virginity and now she's all cold?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

21 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So... Sort of a long story. I'm a 19 year old male and up until recently had been a virgin. Wanted to lose it to someone I care about. Well, I've been falling for this girl for a while, she knew the situation and was falling for me, but had a long term boyfriend (that ... (519 words)

We broke up but I still feel like I should tell him I went out for drinks

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

21 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a long distance relationship for almost a year. He and I had several problems throughout the relationship, initially about opening up and then trust issues towards the end. In the beginning after a month or so of dating he was demanding to know how many guys I've e... (477 words)

I woke up to my bf jerking off 2 hours after I told him am so horny and want him so bad

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

21 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I woke up to my bf jerking off 2 hours after I had literary begged him for sex because am always horny. He stopped immediately with a guilty look, and tried to cuddle me, but I was both shocked and disgusted. We didn't talk about it because I was so shocked, and just wanted to ... (309 words)