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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why are some straight guys so scared to try something new?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

25 July 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I got a question, i'm a gay guy and I love straight men, especially buff or frat guys. I can't get enough of them. Why are some straight guys so scared to try something new? ... (37 words)

I've fallen for my mate, but don't want to ruin the friendship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

25 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have strong feelings for my mate and he doesnt know and I don't know if he feels the same should I tell him yes or no if yes should I tell him over internet or face to face I don't want things to be awquard or weird and most of all I don't wanna rowen our friendship... (59 words)

I'd like to tell him I've fallen in love but I don't want to pressure him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

25 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I tell my boyfriend I am falling in love with him? We have been together for only a few months but it hit me recently that I am in love with him. Or should I wait for him to say it first? I don't wana put pressure on him to say it if he doesn't love me back. But I c... (278 words)

I'd like to give him oral but I'm not so sure about his hygiene

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

25 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to give my new boyfriend, of 4 months, oral sex, but I've noticed an off smell down there, and I think it's due to him not washing himself properly under his foreskin area. The other guys I have been with in the past haven't had the foreskin so I've never had this p... (236 words)

He left me, I moved on, now he wants me back!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

25 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi aunts and uncles Here's my problem...my partner broke up with me six weeks ago after three years. I was upset but the spark in our relationship had disappeared long ago and so I was happy to move out. I missed him for a couple of weeks and then I met someone new who I... (281 words)

If this marriage was so important to her, then why didn't she stop contacting her ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

25 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I got married a few months ago, it was a rushed wedding, after barely knowing each other we married because she told me to get married because I was having trouble with my immigration status and it would give me a green card and working visa quickly. I asked her to really think ... (702 words)

Have no intention of replicating my taboo fantasies in real life. But is one of my fantasies too taboo to share with my Bf? What counselling could help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

25 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - To put it simply, I have a really bad kink that involves getting off on taboo fantasies. I've fantasized about strange things most other women don't such as picturing my boyfriend with another woman, and I have read incest erotica online, but NONE of these fantasies mean I h... (461 words)

Found the girl of my dreams. Am I being too clingy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

25 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've found the girl of my dreams she makes me a better person and I have never felt this way about anyone before. The problem is I'm afraid I'm being too clingy as of recently we haven't seen each other as much as we did, due to work. we haven't being seeing each other as... (144 words)

Am I over-reacting to what I discovered about my Bf's Hooters visit?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

25 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. Recently, he went to Hooters with his friends and at first, I was pretty annoyedd but then I got over it until I found videos in his history of Hooters girls. Am I overreacting because I feel like I am. I know he's not a pi... (66 words)

I miss my ex but I don't know why..I don't want him back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) age 36-40 - My ex was controlling, manipulative, unwilling to work, immature and treated me like his personal bank. Towards the end of our 3 year relationship he also started to get physically abusive and extremely verbally abusive. We have been split for 2 weeks now after another ar... (177 words)

I broke up with my ex but I want her back and can't even think of being with someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

25 July 2014 (M) - Hi everyone. I need to talk and get advice. Its a long story but the key points really are, me and my ex were together for 3 years, a year ago half of my family got involved in my relationship causing trouble, saying i wasnt happy even though i was, and when you hear it ... (329 words)

Teenager looking for advice on talking to guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

25 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm looking for advice on talking to guys. I've always stayed in a small group of girls through school life as that's the kind of group I feel comfortable socialising with. I'd really like to push myself to talk to boys and become friends a... (139 words)

How do I get my 73 year old husband to wash every day?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

25 July 2014 (F)

age - How can I get my husband of 73 to wash everyday? He gets upset when I pull away from him as even a kiss makes me feel sick...he never brushes his teeth, I change pillow cases every day as they are smelly and greasy! We have single beds now...I have remarked on this many times ... (66 words)

Losing boyfriend to world of Warcraft?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

25 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriends gotta back into playing Warcraft over the last few months. It's really starting to get on my nerve cause I believe it's starting to affect our relationship. I don't care what he does in his free time when I'm not around, but lately when I've gone to spend time ... (349 words)

Non stop unresolved arguments

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

25 July 2014 (M)

age - For the first year or so of our married life was great but now we are plagued by frequent enflamed arguments which cannot be resolved. The rows often come out of the blue and the cause is unknown. I cool down after a few minutes and my feelings are that I want to rush my wife ... (193 words)

Married man begged to make me stay. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

25 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, so here goes. I'm 31, been single for a few weeks now, dated a 34-year-old man for about a month, until I then realized he was married. We met in a local bar I drink at often, he was there with some friends, we got talking, it was a fun evening out; I'm a city commuter... (384 words)

The stress of working a night shift and an uneventful birthday

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

25 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Known my boyfriend for almost five years and at times, I feel like he disregards my feelings or things important to me. He's nice and generous but again, I just get frustrated. Like yesterday, I went to his place and had to work the night shift that night. I forgot my mobile at ... (397 words)

I am good at giving a good impression but now am afraid I have to tell him the truth about who I was

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

25 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I've just gotten in a relationship with this friend who I've liked for a long time, and I'm so happy. But. He is so incredibly honest and it's in my nature to be deceitful so people "see" the "best" in "me", but he see's straight past that and inspires an honesty in me I can't ... (315 words)

How can I get him to work out problems in our relationship with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

25 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and I'm still just as much in love with him as when I first met him. I really want to spend the rest of my life with him and we often talk about having a future together but it's hard to see whenever a problem in our relationship ... (353 words)

I feel like a booty call without the sex! Should I give him a chance or run for the hills?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

25 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month now. My issue is for some reason if I plan a date something family related always comes up and he either ends up coming really late or rescheduling. The huge thing is we always end up hanging out at night, 10 pm or later. ... (190 words)

Any advice on ending this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

25 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I started talking to this girl a little over a month ago online. we seemed to get along well have some similar interests so i asked her to meet. i didnt feel any sparwhen we metks or anything but i figured thats just because we are still just getting to know eachother. so we ... (267 words)

Any advice for opening up to my fiancé's family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

25 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having a hard time connecting with my fiancé's family. They are really nice people, an I know that it can take me a long time to warm up to people and I think they are aware of that about me, but him and I have been together for 3 years and I just don't feel like I am at ... (171 words)