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writes:Hi cupids, this is a question in hope of gathering all of the BDSM style members. My partner is into BDSM and loves anything considered dirty/experimental. In the past we have used hot candle wax, being tied up etc but what I'm here to ask is, how could I appeal to this side of his nature? He's usually the dominant during sex. But how can I act on that? What things could I do or use sexually to drive him wild? For the male members, what would make you throb and be helpless towards? Females, what do you for your man to please him sexually?Thankyou in advance! I just really want to have a few new ideas to try and surprise him with in the bedroom! Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (31 July 2014):
 There are bajillion sexy sex ideas on BDSM forums and as EWO pointed out, there's alway 50 shades of grey as an idea book. What websites does he look at? Take a look at those.
If he's the dominant type, isn't your role to be submissive and not try to direct things? Why not continue to allow him that role.
Get a safe word and use it if necessary. Again, there are lots of resources out there for you. You probably won't get many specific tips here, as everyone's taste are individual.
Be safe! Have fun!
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reader, Dionee'  +, writes (31 July 2014):
 Read books or search the internet for idea's but bare in mind that each person is different as chigirl said. There's not just one way of doing things. You can do a lot of different things and watch how your partner responds to the things that you do. It's always good to take note of your partners reaction. So I say do your research and see what he likes. You say that he normally dominates, why not surprise him by taking over for a change while you experiment with him. All the best.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (31 July 2014):
 Try standing out of reach and masturbating...it'll drive him nuts!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (31 July 2014):
 Read the "Fifty Shades of Grey" Series.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (31 July 2014):
 Look, everyone is different in the bedroom and like different things. It wont help you if I tell you how I drive my men crazy, because different things work for different guys! Seriously, this is something you need to experiment with your own partner to find out, or talk to him to find out.
One thing that drove an ex wild was me getting dressed up in sexy lingerie. For another he got crazy by me sucking on his fingers. Another man was on fire if I nibbled on his neck and scratched his back! For another one is was role play... I mean, it variates from person to person, you wont really know unless you experiment with him.
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