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Archived questions from: 3 July, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm starting to get stirrings about wanting a baby. Do I tell my partner? He doesn't want one now

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3823 days ago

3 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Thankyou for taking the time to read this I have been struggling with something that has happened recently and I don't know how to overcome it. 2 and a half years ago I suffered a miscarriage with a previous partner. We were at the end of our relationship at the time and wer... (516 words)

My ex that abused me is moving and its freaking me out because I don't know where he's moving to

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3823 days ago

3 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I over reacting? I don't want to go to much into things but my ex partner abused me. We've been separated a few years now. He still contacts me from time to time. Anyway he contacted me to tell me he's selling up and moving. I thought he may be lying but I've looked ... (146 words)

No birthday present from boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3823 days ago

3 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I'm just wondering if your new boyfriend of 3 months does not get you a birthday present what would you think to that? He hasn't got much money at all. He got me a card, but I was hoping for a little something. Even some chocolates, or some flowers would've... (161 words)

Is my FWB guy trying to tell me something now that he knows I'm dating someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3823 days ago

3 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a fwb with a guy for 18 months. From the beginning he told me it was just for fun. We met up for sex every 4-6 weeks, and we would meet up for coffee once or twice a week too just to keep in touch. Recently I met another guy who has become my boyfriend, so obviously I h... (376 words)

I really need some help as I cannot live without my girlfriend and our little family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

3 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend 2 and a half years now. We have 2 children aged 4 and 6 months (one is ours, one is my partners from a previous relationship). Recently she has seemed really off with me for no apparent reason, blaming a lack of sex at the beginning of our... (311 words)

I feel foolish now that he has gone back to his wife

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3823 days ago

3 July 2014 (F)

- I was seeing a separated married man for a few months. It ended a couple of months ago. He has since got back with his wife. I now feel foolish. He was already separated when we got together and had been for a year. At the time I was at rock bottom having split with someone ... (365 words)

I wouldn't let him go farther and now I don't hear from him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3823 days ago

3 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 18 years old nd m in a relation since last 4 months. We both kiss each other and he touches my breasts nd kisses them. I have allowed him to do so and I dont have any problem with this. But he tried to touch my lower private parts 3-4 times and I didn't let him to do so coz ... (203 words)

Can a married person having an affair have the right to accuse the partner of being deceitful?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3822 days ago

3 July 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - Does this make any sense or am I wrong? Here's the scenario: a single guys is having a torrid love affair with a married woman for a long time. He only sleeps with her but does socialize with other women, and men of course, from time to time, but it's not based on sex or ... (154 words)

Is it true that white girls don't like Indian guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3823 days ago

3 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm an Indian. I am 20 years but i didnt ever travelled out of India. But soon i am going to visit some countries. My problem is I want to date with a white girl. But i am worried about do they like me or not. I am shy to approach them. One of my friend (he travelled out of ... (84 words)

How do I feel less ugly after being ditched on a date twice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

3 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This is the second time I've been ditched/stood up on a date in the past few months and it's really disheartening. I was meant to be having casual drinks with a guy at a bar, conversation was a bit stunted, but I tried my best to keep it flowing. I guess and I drank more than ... (257 words)

Do I have to go to bed the same time as my girlfriend every night?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3823 days ago

3 July 2014 (M)

age - I don't have to get up early, but on 4 days a week my partner does have to. She doesn't like me going to bed at a different time as her.The thing is, it's very rare I want to stay up watching TV in the living room when she goes to bed.If it was all the time I'd understa... (235 words)

I'm in turmoil. I love my husband, so do I stay with him or move in with my lover?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3823 days ago

3 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been having an affair with a co-worker for the past 6 months behind my husband's back. I'll admit, our marriage has become a bit stale in the bedroom department, all my husband talks about is bills, paying the next bill, financial stuff, worries over IRS, ETC. The se... (378 words)

Attracted to women 98% of the time. Am I bi-sexual for other 2% of the time? Implications to consider?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

3 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - OK, so I'm 24 and this question's about sexuality. I'm attracted to women, would say about 95-98% probably, but for me it would take a mostly exceptional man in terms of personality, looks etc. for me to go out with him, but would this make me bisexual or not? I know they sa... (113 words)

I like a married guy. How do guys behave when they have genuine feelings for girl Versus if they just want sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3823 days ago

3 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I like a guy whose older than me. He's married, I'm not. He's only really made a sexual joke once or twice. Other than that, he tells me i'm pretty/cute, he holds doors, tries to make me laugh, compliments me, goes out of his way to talk to me and remembers little insignifi... (103 words)

Was she reasonable to accuse me of emotional cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3812 days ago

3 July 2014 (M)

age - Here we go on the merry-go-round once again. Our relationship started to go down hill. I had been married before, and I admit to cheating, so I vowed not to make that same mistake again. So when I met V, I took my time and listened, when she said she wasn't the jealous ... (450 words)

I'm unemployed, my family support me, he lost his job and wants me to give him money to relocate

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

3 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is he so angry? Is this an abusive relationship? So my bf lost his job and he's having a had time finding another one. I've been supporting him with money for food. Phone bills etc Now be wants to relocate for a job and he's told me to help him come up with so... (218 words)

My boyfriend told me, "let me get fat and see if you want to hold me." I'm speechless!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3823 days ago

3 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I'm in a relationship and I'm holding onto to something because I'm resentful. . About a month and a half ago my boyfriend told me, "let me get fat and see if you want to hold me." I was speechless at the time and didn't know what to say so I said nothing. Thinking it over ... (171 words)

Her Aunt may disaprove because my Gf is 2 years older. How do I gain acceptance by her family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

3 July 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - My gf and I have been dating for almost a year. Though my Gf is 2 years older than me. Now I need to introduce myself to her family. Please, how do I deal with the age difference, because my gf said her Aunty won't agree with this relationship.... (50 words)

How is it possible to have an attraction to someone who doesn't attract you physically & mentally?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3824 days ago

3 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - This is going to sound odd and probably not make sense but I do need some advice. How is it possible to have an attraction to someone who doesn't attract you physically and mentally?? I have to deal with this man, on a professional level every other month and si... (207 words)

I know it's normal but finding porn caught me off guard

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

3 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I asked my boyfriend to use his computer, as I wanted to show him a piece of clothing that I ordered online. I ASKED (and I stress that) his permission to open his browser and search. He allowed me. As I start typing the url, the browser's suggestion thingy showed a couple ... (438 words)

How to find inner peace and closure when my ex refused to give it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

3 July 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - How to find inner peace and closure when my ex refused to give it? I posted on here a couple of weeks ago. Just some follow up kind words would be nice. My ex broke up with me. Said it was not a lack of love on her part, but that she was having many internal struggles in her... (939 words)