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Archived questions from: 4 July, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I handle his porn addiction?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3823 days ago

4 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - This is another question about porn, but okay, here goes.. I'm 32, my husband is 34, been married since 2011, over the past few weeks he's been refusing sex. And it's all down to pornography. The "smoking gun" as it were, was a sign-up for a porn forum coming to our email, as... (300 words)

I've come to a point in my life where I feel like I have no long term goals or desires. Can someone help me out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3820 days ago

4 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm at a really confusing and kinda boring stage in my life and I need some advice. I'm almost 18, and of course any young 18 year old to be should feel young and free and all of that jazz, but the thing is I feel like all of my youth has just flo... (1187 words)

I betrayed his trust by lying

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3820 days ago

4 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 32 and my boyfriend is 38. I love and adore him, and am certain that I want to build a future with him. I know he feels the same way. The problem is that I've betrayed his trust by lying to him a few months ago, and once again recently. The first time was a situation ... (516 words)

I haven't known my boyfriend and feel like I'm barely getting to know him and we have an 11 month old baby together. Break up or make up? Relationship problems going on.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

4 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This question is going to go a little deeper from this post: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-told-me-let-me-get-fat.html I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now coming December 13th. We've hit some bumps in the road and I don't know whether we sh... (1576 words)

I am in a good relationship but still miss the moody, unpredictable ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3822 days ago

4 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship of 2 years with a wonderful man. Before him, I was in a stormy relationship which was bordering jealously abusive from both sides. I love my present partner. Sex is good. The problem being I have never been able to let go of myself sexually with anyone, ... (109 words)

He is 13 and never met his father, who now has a brain tumour

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3822 days ago

4 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a single mum of 1 son whos never had a dad in his life hes had male figures like my dad and brothers , ive just found out the father of my child has a brain tumour, we split before our child was born and he hasn't seen our son ive read up on life expectancy and don't know ... (166 words)

Now I've got him why aren't I satisfied?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3822 days ago

4 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been having an affair with a married man for almost over 18 months now, he's been wed for about 6 weeks, has a 2-year-old son, and on Wednesday he announced he's leaving his wife for me. He said he'd told his wife "I'm leaving you, got a new job elsewhere, need to be by ... (371 words)

He says I am the only one, but his social media tells a different story

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3823 days ago

4 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - im confused should I continue trying and keep being spontaneous or should I just move on?? I met this guy 6 months ago, he happened to be my valentine because he wanted to hang out then. we've been talking on and off for about 6 months. we've been hanging out, and talking... (249 words)

I lost respect for him when he told me about his experience with hookers

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

4 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I have found out something about my boyfriend's past that has really bothered me. We've been dating only around 5 months now but it's getting to the point where it's pretty serious and we're actually going on holiday together for a week in a few days time. Let me add, ... (613 words)

Since I refused to do things he's seen in porn he wants nothing to do with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3794 days ago

4 July 2014 (F) age 51-59 - My bf watch too much porn and he gets himself relief by watching but he still want to have sex with me and wanted to do it from behind but I won't let him and he doesn't understand when I tell him no. He tells me I'm no fun, I did what he wanted me to do but one thing he asked ... (90 words)

I suspect I have Aspergers but I'm afraid of a formal diagnosis

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3823 days ago

4 July 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Can someone please help me as I'm distressed and don't know what to do. I'm currently receiving counselling because I've been suffering from depression and stress related exhaustion. For some time now I have suspected I may have Aspergers - but I also had an extremely stra... (872 words)

Is it acceptable that my boyfriend talks to his old high school girlfriend on the phone once in a while?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3822 days ago

4 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, so I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 25. We have been together for 2 years now. He is very loving and supportive of me and always makes me his top priority in his life. He does anything and everything for me. He talks to his old high school girlfriend on the phone once in ... (190 words)

I love her but I feel we should break up

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3821 days ago

4 July 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf and I have been together for about 4 years and it's been mostly good. But for the past year I have been unhappy. I've tried to determine why I'm unhappy but don't really have a reason. I just am. I've told my gf about my feelings and tried to work on it and nothing ... (240 words)

How to deal with this insecurity? Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3823 days ago

4 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. So here is my problem- I was with a guy for years, I did love him. He gave me a lot of issues in the start because he was a very social person, especially with girls. He used to go out of his way to comment on each and every pic of girls, appreciate their beauty ... (482 words)

I'm afraid he's only with me because of my daughter

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3823 days ago

4 July 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. I'm a 42 year old woman that has left a 25 year relationship with an abusive ex partner. I am over him and his actions!! I know not all men are the same and I understand I may have some insecurities which I have openly discussed in detail with my present partner who is 3... (375 words)

We drifted apart, now wondering if we should try again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3823 days ago

4 July 2014 (F) age 30-35 - I'm in two minds whether or not to give my relationship with my ex, and father of my kids another try. Part of me thinks it would be great for us as a family while the other part thinks it might ruin what we have now. I was 18 when I fell pregnant with our eldest, and 21 w... (477 words)

I'd like to let the new girl at work know that I am interested.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3823 days ago

4 July 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - So I'm a 17 year old who's worked at McDonald's for almost a year now and recently we just hired a new girl. She is very pretty and she is the same age and grade as me and we go to different schools. I talked to her once a little bit but I was just wondering what are some ways ... (84 words)

My grandmother is a gossip and I don't want to see her. How do I handle this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3822 days ago

4 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My grandmother and mother are both negative gossips. I am 32 years old and for the past 4 years have put some distance between them and myself. However, now that I have returned to the city that I grew up in and they live in my grandmother is desperate to see me. She is leaving ... (256 words)