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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He won't commit! We are stuck in a cycle of breaking up and making up!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3795 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy 4 years ago. At the time I was 25 and he was 38. We soon started seeing each other and after 4 months I had met his family. Everything seemed to be going well other than the fact that he started working longer hours and going out salsa dancing pretty much every ... (434 words)

Should I give up on this girl? She's come up with all kinds of excuses for why we can't get together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3623 days ago

30 July 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I am very close to giving up on this girl and I just want to see if I should or if there is still hope. I met her a couple months ago at Wondercon, we connected well and I got her number. After a couple text exchanges (with very delayed responses from her) for the next few... (406 words)

Why did she get to move on so easily?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3796 days ago

30 July 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I were together for 6 years. Her kids became my kids and I their dad. We split up suddenly without any kind of hint of things going awry. One day she just packed up and moved to her mom's. She's had a lot of medical issues and mood issues over the years. Her ... (146 words)

Do a lot of people misinterpret politeness as flirting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3796 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Do a lot of people misinterpret politeness as flirting? I hate it when I'm friendly to people only to have them act cold. I smile at people passing by while out in public. Sometimes I'll get a scowl in return, usually from women. Men just look away, and refuse to look a... (175 words)

I want to help my boyfriend last longer in bed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm dating this guy and I am absolutely in love with him. We've had sex a few times and each time it's only been for about 10 minutes. (if that) because he cums pretty fast. we do a lot of foreplay and he normally fingers me and things like that before we actually have sex. H... (212 words)

My fiancé keeps trying to take nude photos of me without my consent!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3796 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay, so we were on vacation and hot at it and my significant other (my fiancé) got up from the bed, then all of a sudden I saw a flash in the dark room and he took a picture of me nude and then he wanted to take closer pictures of my body parts. I was totally appalled. I ... (409 words)

They never acted on their mutual crush, so why would my friend's boss send her a goodbye card with kisses?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - There was a mutual crush between my friend and her married boss. They sort of developed a strong liking for each other, But for him, it was more of an infatuation. He did not know that he was flirting with her at the beginning( his wife also works there but not during the... (163 words)

He's dry in his texts and never compliments me, but he keeps asking to see me and is messaging while on his holiday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, so im seeing this guy for about a month now we see each other about once a week! i cant tell if hes into me or not as hes really dry over text and never compliments me? but he still asks to see me! hes on holiday just now and managed to give me a quick few messages ... (69 words)

Can people get back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid Can people get back together ? I am embarrass to be writing on here about my predicament but I am driving myself insane. I went out for 2 months with a man older than me (I’m 26 he’s 41) I did not realize my guard was down and fell hopelessly in love ! w... (312 words)

Am I overreacting or is he just not that into me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. I feel like he’s just not that into me. He’s been in florida for over 2 weeks now, but I’m always the one calling/texting him. This isn’t the first time that this has happened. He goes down to Florida to visit his family every ... (324 words)

What do I do about this tiff between me and my roommates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Right so Agony people.I need some help. A few months ago I moved into a house with some friends for college. A tiff occured between me and two of my housemates. They claimed I said something bad which I didn't. Anyways I fel out with one of them but it wasn't like all hell ... (270 words)

Is this cheating? My husband bought his female colleague perfume!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3795 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband told me that he really appreciates his female colleague and bought her perfume for her birthday gift. Should I be worried? ... (23 words)

What interesting things can I do with a guy at a boring mall?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm going on a date with a 23 year old I met online tomorrow afternoon. Now, at 19, this is my first date. I havn't even told him that because I find it so embarrassing. We've planned on meeting at a mall. I'd like some ideas on fun, flirty, interesting things we can do. I was ... (222 words)

Am I being silly to be upset over the fact my boyfriends mum made a joke over whether I should wear white I get married because I have a child?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3796 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I being silly to be upset over the fact my boyfriends mum made a joke over whether I should wear white I get married because I have a child? I know it may seem harmless but it's actually rather hurt me. I was 17 when I had my son, who is now 8. My boyfriend isn't his fa... (235 words)

He wants to hang out with me but I know he has a girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I'll be starting uni in the fall as an international student, and, as I'm sure most incoming freshmen do, I did a little facebook research on the current students at this university. Of course, I didn't contact any of the guys, and was left just drooling over their pics, ... (421 words)

My family ignored my repeated requests to have a homemade card for my birthday. I"m hurt and disappointed!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1681 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so it is my 19th birthday today, so this may sound trivial, but it's important to me. When I was growing up, it was a tradition to make birthday/anniversary/Christmas/thank you cards for family. That continued for me and my older brother until we were about 13, he stopped ... (526 words)

How do I make myself be kinder during our last days together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3797 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I think we both know it's over but I'm being just so nasty and I can't seem to stop being so angry and mean. I can't afford to leave right away and he was kind enough to let me stay until I get myself financially sorted out. But I'm not even expressing myself as grateful. I ... (137 words)

Does he love me if he wants a threesome?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) age 30-35 - Does he love me. Wants threesome other women ... (11 words)

How do I get my BF to take the next step?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am caught in limbo and need help. My boyfriend of a year and a half has been stalling for months now about the "next step". When I first brought it up at 8 months, he said he needed a year before he could consider things. At a year and 3 months, he said he'd need until the ... (261 words)

Do I do anything about my feelings for my brother in law?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I like my sisters husbands brother alot. Should I do anything? ... (11 words)

How do I put myself out there to ask this older girl out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3797 days ago

30 July 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok, so i have a few question on how i should do something, and i'm looking for some solid, simple advice. Story: So i'm a junior in high school, and there is a girl i like, who i don't know very well. We've met once, but i felt like she might be interested in me as well. I ... (277 words)

Help please... does my coworker like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3795 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy at work and started working quite closely with him about a month ago. He is a warm, friendly person and helps me out all the time at work. One time because I did something wrong at work, he had to wait for me to fix it for three hours so he ended up not hav... (1131 words)

Our flatmates only growl at me when he's not there! I suffer from anxiety and depression so this is very difficult for me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

30 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do. This year I moved from one city to another to live with my long distance boyfriend of 2 years. It's about six months on now. The move was really hard for me cos I'm shy and i left behind my close friends and the place I was familiar with. Now I'm havi... (382 words)