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Archived questions from: 6 July, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I found out he was an uncle by marriage of a friend of mine and now she hasn't really spoken to me a whole lot.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

6 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 29. Recently out of a 7 year relationship ending in him cheating on me, met a pretty decent guy online and have been dating him for 5 months now. He and I have so much in common, cheated on, faithful in previous relationships, love the same type of music and movies ... (369 words)

Does my male gay bestfriend like me -- I'm a girl!??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

6 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My gay bestfriend who strongly identifies as gay is very camp,dates ,flirts,hooks up ,cries over guys all the time ,said he wanted a family with a husband,he even drags,When we met we became close very fast,and spent a lot of time together,he was always particularly very flirty ... (447 words)

I don't deserve how she ended the relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

6 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I were together for about 20 months. Both women. She broke up with me recently and blind sided me. Never saw it coming. Truth be told, I don't really think she did, either. During the conversation it happened in, she at first kept saying she did NOT wish to break up. ... (321 words)

I'd really like to be in a relationship with her but she says she's not ready

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

6 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been meeting and texting a girl I work with for the past 5 months we've slept together and are great when were together however I've tried telling her that I have strong feelings for her and I would really love to be 'in a relationship' with her but she says she's not ... (90 words)

One night stand trouble

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

6 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear readers, I wonder does anyone have similar a similar problem: Lately any guy that I have sex with doesn't seem to be able to maintain an erection. I understand that nerves etc. can play havoc and mixed with alcohol can also play havoc, but it's happened with a lot of ... (285 words)

My boyfriend is as unromantic as can be

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

6 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. We connect so well in everything. He challenges me intellectually, is fun, sweet, affectionate. The thing is, he is as unromantic as a person can be. As an example, he lives right across the street from a huge field, wi... (384 words)

Why did my friend say one thing and do another? I'm so hurt

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

6 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Why did my friend do this? am I overreacting? So a couple from our church was getting married and my friend told me about it and I was really looking forward to it and she's close to the couple so she said she'd let me know when the wedding is. I found out on instagram t... (129 words)

My boyfriend says for our relationship to survive I need to start surprising him sexually

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

6 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Quick and short... My boyfriend says that for our relationship to survive I need to start "surprising" him sexually. One of his versions of being surprised is a spontaneous blowjob in the car. That's pretty much all the hints he has given me! Any ideas...? I'm open to most... (61 words)

Do I leave the man in his mancave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

6 July 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My boy friend whom I have been living with for the past two years well I came home from work and I found out that he had moved all his clothes in to the spare room it has been like this for two weeks. He says he need time to sort out his thoughts and he is very tired. We are ... (96 words)

I cheated on my baby daddy but now I wonder if I was wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

6 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so ashamed and I thought I was ready to move on from my bf/baby's dad. I cheated on him by having sex and kissing another guy! I was going to lunch and stuff with this new guy for maybe 2 months now. . I went behind his back because he's been acting different and has been ... (315 words)

My boyfriend got another girl pregnant

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

6 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - i would like to ask about my boyfriend of six years. he got another girl pregnant. i saw them dating through the pictures in facebook. i ask my boyfriend first but he refuse to answer. thats why i directly ask the girl. she said that my boyfriend is her boyfriend and shes ... (128 words)

I have too much anxiety to be happy in my relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3790 days ago

6 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a negative attitude when it comes to relationships and have many fears. I've been through hell in many of my past relationships; some of my exes were good guys but some of them made me feel like sh*t such as one of my first boyfriends when I was 15, who threatened to ... (483 words)

He dumped me because I'm polyamourous

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

6 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a 24-yr-old girl who has just been ditched by the guy she's in love with. I am distraught, any help would be amazing. Basically I've been seeing this guy for five months. From the off I told him I wanted to be polyamorous, and that I was also dating a couple. I liked ... (584 words)

Does my stingy husband really love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3791 days ago

6 July 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear alls, Does my stingy husband really love me? I am 49-50 years old. He’s 69. I still want to have true love. My husband never spends any money on me. He said I making a lot of money. He retired and no income. Rental income pay for tax. He’s stingy with himself too. He... (190 words)

My friend says I might be asexual -- I certainly have never had butterflies

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

6 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This may be a bit of a weird question, but I'm having trouble figuring myself out. I turn down everyone, even the nice ones. The only reason I've been kissed and had sex is because I figured it was a rite of passage and I had to get it over with, not because I was actually into ... (686 words)