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Archived questions from: 11 July, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm so damned awkward I don't know how to make friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

11 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have no clue how to make friends. Its not that I have never had friends because I have, but its always been a struggle. Out of the 5 friends I do have, I have had most them forever. And I'm only friends with them cuz they pushed their way into my life. I moved to school and ... (154 words)

Boyfriend of one month lives with me and I pay the bills, ex boyfriend says he cant be with me but wants me to wait for him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3785 days ago

11 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So this is kind a long story that will lead to the question. Please give me some advise though. I am currently dating someone and have been for a month. Now my ex, who was made at the fact I was dating his friend or anyone for that matter, said he was sorry and started to t... (345 words)

He says he wants me in his life, but also says he doesn't know what love is!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

11 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i have been in a relationship from 8 months. he keeps me happy, he is caring, responsible and loving at the same time. From one month back we are in long distance and meet each other after 15 days approx. Now he says "I have the same feelings for you as you have for me but ... (137 words)

He loves his hobby but there is no time for me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

11 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a very kind and warm guy of 35 for nearly a year. He works from home and is also totally renovating his house all the way through. He has lived with women but never had a family. My children are grown up. When we first met I could only spend an hour th... (232 words)

My older boyfriend is very controlling

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

11 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi,I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 31. At the beginning of our relationship things were great. He was a gentleman, gave me great advice, was always doing little things to show me he cared. Those things haven't changed but now he also does other little things that irritates me and ... (427 words)

My boyfriend is physically abusive. Part of me wants to leave him but I also know he would never truly hurt me

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

11 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years, and we recently moved in together. He is usually extremely sweet and caring. But sometime he has bouts of anger that make me extremely uncomfortable. I can honestly say he'd never hit me, but he is sometimes forcef... (736 words)

Is it time to call quits on my relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

11 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it time to call quits on my relationship? I've been with my boyfriend for close to five years. We've had some amazing times together but the cons have been building up to boiling point lately. I've never liked how disrespectfully he speaks to his parents in front of me a... (171 words)

My boyfriend wont cooperate and help work things out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

11 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. Lately I feel like he's been turning into a complete asshole and I feel like I'm just being tossed aside. It first started when I had asked him to spend 4th of July weekend with me from Thursday to Sunday. I had asked him ... (744 words)

How do I stop friends from abandoning me? Do I need to leave my boyfriend? How can I meet new guys and which guy would want me if I don't have friends or family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3785 days ago

11 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi , I don't know where to start when I write this. I'm 22 and live in the uk. I'm doing pretty well career wise , got a good but stressful job , and have a boyfriend. But for some reason I just can't be happy . I always get myself feeling depressed with my past and the t... (466 words)

Is it right for my boyfriend to give his phone number to other women?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

11 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never considered myself to be the jealous type but lately I've been getting upset about my boyfriend giving his number out to other women. This situation started about 6 months ago when I found out that he ran into an old ex girlfriend one day and that he gave her his ... (189 words)

Chatting online for a month and he wants me to pay his phone bill so we can talk

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3783 days ago

11 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy in a dating website about a month ago and he asked me to pay his phone bill. It makes me a little uncomfortable because I don't know if he is using me. He says he likes me a lot and has plans to come visit me in 3 weeks (lives 7 hours away) but I don't know. I ... (172 words)

I told her I love her and now things have changed, I want to go back to the way it was!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

11 July 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - I have told the girl that i love her but she didnot given me any answer for that ,also i had a small fight with her .now how to bring the old relation back on track since she is not happy with me.also she has never refused or said no to my question.we talk for hours kindly ... (68 words)

Is my husband gay? straight? or just curious?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

11 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm questioning whether to believe my husband when he says he's not gay or bi after I confronted him about knowing he watched/chatted with a couple trannies this one time that I know of. There were also females he watched/chatted with as well. He has a history of talking to ... (121 words)

Am I being toyed with or is this something I should hold out for?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3785 days ago

11 July 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - This is probably an obvious answer but I still feel confused about the situation. A little over a year ago I was chatting with a girl on an online dating site. She seemed very lovely, is a psychologist, pretty, nice, funny. We messaged back and forth several times, and excha... (525 words)

This girl is too intense.. how can I tell her to back off without being rude?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3783 days ago

11 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have a work acquaintance in another department across the hall from me. We started hanging out in a group a few months ago and things seemed pretty cool. She is fairly new in town and I figured she just wanted new people to hang out with. Lately she has been getting ... (230 words)

I think my husband might be bi and I don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3785 days ago

11 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am very confused and at a loss of what to do, think and believe . My husband and I have been together 3yrs and got married last november. I just found out the truth that my husband has been talking/flirting with other girls before and after we got married till this day. Also, ... (304 words)

Tips to get a man going?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3785 days ago

11 July 2014 (?) age 26-29 - Heya there Aunts and Uncles, So, I'm an eighteen years young rising freshman at college, my boyfriend of over a year and I are starting to make things sexual and I have very little idea what I'm doing. I didn't have much of a sex education, even in high school, at least no... (136 words)

We were LDR for 8 months, then we moved in together, we've both made mistakes but the trust is now gone and I feel suffocated. We are broken. How do we get through this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3785 days ago

11 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, and we are very much in love. For eight months of our relationship, we were in long-distance. He soon moved away from his small hometown (family, lifetime friends, a job he loved - everything) to be with me in the big ... (1529 words)

Ex Blocked me on Facebook, but won't tell me why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3785 days ago

11 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - OK, brief story…at 30 years old, I met my first real love. He moves around a lot for his job, so he admitted to me that he had never been “in love” before either. He had, had his heart broken at a young age, and always shied away from real relationships, despite number upon ... (489 words)

I don't want to flush 21 years of marriage but something's got to change!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

11 July 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Well, you've probably never heard this one before. My husband and I live next door to his mother. She's a lovely person but has the habit of being taken advantage of by her children, grandchildren, etc.. For years, like 21, I've had to remind him to visit or call her on ... (463 words)