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Archived questions from: 17 July, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why would my sexy sext stranger mention marriage, of all things?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

17 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - A guy I met online (from far faaar away) and I have been texting/sexting for about 2 and a 1/2 weeks now. I'm new to sexting and find that I'm enjoying it immensly - we seem to be very compatible. However I don't expect anything more of this. It's just nice to flirt with ... (238 words)

I told my porn-addicted fiance that if he looked at porn again, I'm done. I'm now 37 weeks pregnant and guess what?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

17 July 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My now fiance had a porn addiction he was even looking at it at work. I basically told him if you do it again i'm done, this was over a year ago and i never caught him looking at it until now. I'm 37 weeks pregnant I looked at his phone history last week (he knows i do this as ... (296 words)

I think a man who wants woman will not let her go!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

17 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a man and everything fell together so seamlessly. We were both crazy about each other and he told me he saw a future with me, and very quickly was telling me he was in love with me (within a month). I am weary of people falling too quickly and tried to pace myself but ... (454 words)

Tongue-tied around my crush

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

17 July 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - So I want to start a conversation with a girl but I don't know how to start it. The problem is that I have a little bit of a crush on her and when I try to talk to her I just stare at her and its very weird. Please help me!... (52 words)

Am I being unreasonable? She went too far on a fourth date.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

17 July 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - I know I do have some OCD issues which I think may be contributing to this. I have been in love with my current GF for over 6 mos. She is 37 and was previously married for 13 years to the man that she saved herself for on her wedding day at the age of 21. After her divorc... (258 words)

How do I tell my boyfriend I'm having twins?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

17 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend have had sex for a little bit about every weekend for 1month I'm 22 he is 23 and we weren't protected once. I thought he was wearing a condom turns out I was wrong... Now I'm pregnant. I told him and he was quite surprised but he was actually quite happy ... (252 words)

Will I ever get past the fact that she had so many partners before me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

17 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for a couple of months now after being friends for around a year. She's a really nice girl and couldn't do more for me, however I don't seem to be able to get over the fact she has such a large backlog of ex-partners. She's slept with 29 other men. ... (124 words)

I was left in the dark and he chose to be uncommunicative when we broke up. What went wrong? How to deal with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

17 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Advice needed on how to deal with being left in the dark. I was seeing someone, it wasn't really going anywhere serious but I liked him .Our last conversation wasn't great- by text - and ended with a question from me. And no answer from him. Being a woman i need answers but ... (81 words)

I can't get a Bf, but is it because I think boys judge girls on their looks?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

17 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a crush on this boy for about a year, (he was 18) and we have been friends for about 4 years. I thought it was time for me to tell him how I feel, it took a lot of courage but eventually I asked him out. He said he'd get back to me.. He came back a couple of days later ... (197 words)

Could you please give me some advice on how to set up a second date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

17 July 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I met this girl at a friend's birthday party and we immediately clicked. We had very similar mindsets. I discovered she loved my country of origin and that she tried to learn my language in the past. At some point, I was telling her that I was about to start G... (494 words)

My partner and I get along brilliantly with my ex and his girlfriend but no one around us seems to understand. Is this situation really that weird?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

17 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like I'm having an affair because nobody accepts this situation!! I was with a man for 8 years, we never married but we did have two children during this time. We split up for many reasons, the relationship was horrible for the last 2 years and although it wasn... (275 words)

Do you have any idea how I can work on self worth issues to make me feel like I'm deserving of love for who I am?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

17 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I have significant issues with self worth and self esteem. I have never been to a therapist to discuss thid but as I get older, I'm finding these issues are negatively impacting other areas of my life. I have struggled with eating disorders along with other destruc... (623 words)

Wedding booked, but worried about his flirty ways. How can I learn to trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

17 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am getting married in June and I don't trust my partner in the staying faithful side. He is my soul mate i trust him in every other way 110% except to stay faithful to me. I married before 4 years ago and the guy was a complete idiot he did not love me and spent so much time ... (388 words)

My parents cant stand my relationship with my much older B/f. Should I even invite them to my wedding ?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

17 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents have never been supportive if my relationship with my older boyfriend. We have been dating for three years and he is 19 years older then me and was also a family friend before we started dating. Once we started dating they but me out of their life, I haven't ... (211 words)

Bf has a short fuse and says he has PTSD and as a result I walk on egg shells. What can I do about this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

17 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend said he has PTSD and he doesn't take any meds for it. He did take meds for a couple months but he didn't like the way it made him feels so he stopped taking. He was in the army and he said he started feeling that way I guess after he got out. He just told me this a ... (286 words)