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writes:Ok, so i have a few question on how i should do something, and i'm looking for some solid, simple advice.Story:So i'm a junior in high school, and there is a girl i like, who i don't know very well. We've met once, but i felt like she might be interested in me as well. I say this cause we ride the same city bus after school, (which was where my friend introduced us) and that day she kept stealing glances at me. I thought it was just me, but on plenty of other days, i asked a friend to see if she did while i pretended to be on my phone, and they always said yeah. We saw each other in the halls frequently, and i would always smile at her and she would either smile back, or look down/away. I caught her looking on the bus once, and then smiled, she smiled and then quickly looked away. I'm reading it as there is some interest, but i didn't do anything at that time, because i was about to ask another girl to be my gf, and that ended about a month and a half ago.Problems:But the biggest problems i have, which is where i need your help. Is 1.) she's a senior and i'm a junior, so how would i get to put myself out there for her. 2.) how do i get to get her number or someway to talk to her. 3.) am i misreading the situation?Thanks for reading all this guys, and i hope to get some good answers. Reply to this Question
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (30 July 2014):
 You mean in September you are junior and she is senior? I would try to sit beside her on the bus and recall what you both did last time you met. Then ask her what courses she is taking and maybe you could take the same class together. I don't think one year difference is a big deal. As a line to break the ice, I appreciate something simple and genuine. Like, "we see each other a lot, I like your smile and would like to get to know you more." You would only know if you misread it if you tried. Even if you make mistakes it is okay. When both people are interested then you know you have luck. It's perfectly fine to ask someone out just because they like your face. That's how most people start, with physical attraction.
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