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She went to give me oral sex and I lost my erection! Why?

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Question - (20 January 2013) 5 Answers - (Newest, 22 January 2013)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well my girlfriend was going to give me a blowjob. It was the first time she'd done it and it was the first time for me. Now this gonna sound creepy but for the whole 30 min walk back to my house, just by holding her hand I had an erection so it's not through lack of attraction. But then we were sat just cuddling for 30min and still had an erection but when she went to go down/masturbate on me, my erection just faded away... I just don't know what to do!!

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A male reader, Hennessy1989 United Kingdom +, writes (22 January 2013):

Hennessy1989 agony auntHonestly dude these sort of things happen to everyone at some point, laugh it off, don't put pressure on yourself, lay back relax and enjoy.

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A female reader, misLadYd.. South Africa +, writes (22 January 2013):

misLadYd.. agony auntoops! I believe it wont happen again.maybe it was nerves.try not to worry and try again once

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2013):

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Thanks guys, It's just since that night, I have been struggling to feel aroused at all, it has really dented my confidence....

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A male reader, Hennessy1989 United Kingdom +, writes (21 January 2013):

Hennessy1989 agony auntJust first time nerves, nothing to worry about

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2013):

Dude it was your first time with her sometimes this stuff happens... There is nothing wrong with you because you Said you had an erection walking with her and before it happened so it had to be in your head. The worst thing you can do now is over think it and worry it will happen again because then it will. Forget about it and try again.

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